Couple picking up men out and about. Is it possible?

We've had a couple of experiences of 'chance' encounters and were looking to exand so looking for some advice if it's even possible.

J is good looking woman, not a calendar pin up but very easy on the eye. The type that may not turn heads as she walks in but if you engage with her she is attractive, confident and interesting. Size 12 and well kept. We got the idea that random men could be interested after she had a roofer round who flirted with her something crazy. We chatted about what could happen and how could it go further and in the last year shes seduced two guys that came round to do work. She's not dressed slutty or anything just chatted with them and when bringing them a tea or coffee has left a note simply saying that she is available if they are interested. A few didn't take her up but two did and she had a great time. One was recently but it's so long inbetween we've been toying with the idea of doing the same but to guys out and about. Not hunting, just keeping an eye out.

We are thinking it would just be when she notices someone that looks OK looking over a few too many times. She is confident enough to keep their attention, give them a little look at and then we aren't sure what next. We imagine dropping the same type of note at their table and it's up to them. Play there and then or just swap number for later meet etc..

Does anyone do this regularly or had any success? Any tips or tricks to get some fun from these guys?

I don’t think you need the notes, men are a sucker for smiles, eye contact and women initiating contact. Trust in your own sexuality and it will happen, and what a turn on to succeed in that way.

In reality this could work absolutely anywhere from the supermarket or a walk in the local park and I neither think the notes would be necessary. I think the look and smile from the wife and an approving nod from hubby would be enough for the stranger to approach you both.

You both have a very sexy and exciting mind and there are guys out there who go out everyday just hoping that this would happen to them. Keep up the good work and thousands of guys are relying on you both xx

Why not go to a swingers club, it will certainly happen there for you.

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Why not go to a swingers club, it will certainly happen there for you.

We have been a few times and it's great fun but the thrill of the chase, or something appearing from nothing holds an appeal we were hoping to recreate if that makes sense.

We thought notes and communication was important as most men don't understand the swinging world so would need to be a little more direct than with guys that know.

Mm that's an intriguing form of starting a game ... it looks like guys are scared off when a confident woman takes an interest in them ... well, I can only hope to meet a woman like that one day on random occasions

I actually like your style. As she has already found out, some guys will run a mile. But others are more confident. If you guys dropped me a note when I was out and about (with phone number) if I was interested in what I seen I would probably text a reply to see exactly what you had in mind.

The second wife and myself were on Holiday in Malta, we were in a nightclub and my wife picked up her first black man and took him back to our hotel room.

Hi

I enjoyed reading your story. I’m a 55 man, looking for a bit of fun. Happy to travel, related to work, and happy to experiment.

S

I think just be pretty direct about it and you'll have a lot of success.

I go out as a single guy looking for couples to either watch or join in on their terms, but it feels like I'm looking for a 1 in a million chance of bumping into the right couple on a random night out. I feel like as a single guy out in bars I look like a loser or a predator. I'd love for a lady or couple to approach me for fun!

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We've had a couple of experiences of 'chance' encounters and were looking to exand so looking for some advice if it's even possible.

J is good looking woman, not a calendar pin up but very easy on the eye. The type that may not turn heads as she walks in but if you engage with her she is attractive, confident and interesting. Size 12 and well kept. We got the idea that random men could be interested after she had a roofer round who flirted with her something crazy. We chatted about what could happen and how could it go further and in the last year shes seduced two guys that came round to do work. She's not dressed slutty or anything just chatted with them and when bringing them a tea or coffee has left a note simply saying that she is available if they are interested. A few didn't take her up but two did and she had a great time. One was recently but it's so long inbetween we've been toying with the idea of doing the same but to guys out and about. Not hunting, just keeping an eye out.

We are thinking it would just be when she notices someone that looks OK looking over a few too many times. She is confident enough to keep their attention, give them a little look at and then we aren't sure what next. We imagine dropping the same type of note at their table and it's up to them. Play there and then or just swap number for later meet etc..

Does anyone do this regularly or had any success? Any tips or tricks to get some fun from these guys?

I was lucky enough to have a lady pass me an explicit note while standing at a folk music venue....we had a great night..one of those to remember...so all in all thats a great way to break the ice..😎