We placed an ad for a guy a few days ago and have had, as expected, a large response!
However, what is surprising is the fact that probably more than half of them say they are married and their wives don't know! they're replying!
Well, we admire their honesty, but do they really expect a result?
Have other had similar experiences?
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Quote by sheffieldfun4two
We placed an ad for a guy a few days ago and have had, as expected, a large response!
However, what is surprising is the fact that probably more than half of them say they are married and their wives don't know! they're replying!
Well, we admire their honesty, but do they really expect a result?
Have other had similar experiences?
Some couples prefer to play with married people acting singly... less likely to boil your bunny etc.
If you don't want to meet married guys, I think it would be wise to say so in your ad. (Unless you already have, in which case you just have to accept that there are some dickheads/chancers out there who will reply to everything in the hope that if they throw enough mud, eventually some of it will stick.
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Quote by sheffieldfun4two
We placed an ad for a guy a few days ago and have had, as expected, a large response!
However, what is surprising is the fact that probably more than half of them say they are married and their wives don't know! they're replying!
Well, we admire their honesty, but do they really expect a result?
Have other had similar experiences?
I know this can be an emotive topic for some , and that it has been debated many times before.
The way myself and Carolyn look at it , is that it does not matter whether they are married or not (as long as they are honest to say) - it still comes down to whether you gel with them or not. If you do then go for it - if not then forget it
Paul
My viewpoint on this one is that I wouldn't be willing to play with married people unless their partner was aware of it and consented. I have known first hand the pain of infidelity and would not wish to inflict that on another woman, or man for that matter.
If someone has to go behind their partners back for sex then there is obviously a problem that needs addressing with the relationship and I for one don't want to be involved in it.
If someone has to go behind their partners back for sex then there is obviously a problem that needs addressing with the relationship and I for one don't want to be involved in it.
Sex God
Ive found that the adverts where they dont say if they are attached or not, are usually the ones that are married etc. Hope that helps you.
I prefer single guys as i dont like the thought of the lying and deception involved because i cant stand that myself, but have played with married guys thou.
I prefer single guys as i dont like the thought of the lying and deception involved because i cant stand that myself, but have played with married guys thou.
Sex God
Quote by GenHertsCpl
Ive found that the adverts where they dont say if they are attached or not, are usually the ones that are married etc.
I wouldn't necessarily see that as a problem. I think problems can arise when people say they're not married and it turns out they are. I've no respect at all for those.
Pro's & Con's....
Married (where the wives don't know) pro's:
They keep their gob shut!
Less likely to pester you.
Married con's:
Can you trust them if they are lying to the person they love?
Not easily available when you fancy a bit of the frisky action.
Are they really going to put that 100% effort into blowing your mind, seeing as they have a hole waiting at home?
Sinlge pro's:
Available at short notice, without having to make a load of excuses that could go tits up at the last minute.
More likely to put an effort in as they may want a call-back session.
Easy to find! not that the married ones aren't.
Single con's:
They could get clingy - but then if they are that kind of person it could happen whatever their marital status.
Have less to lose by shooting their mouth off.
There is a higher % of dickheads in this catagory.
Married (where the wives don't know) pro's:
They keep their gob shut!
Less likely to pester you.
Married con's:
Can you trust them if they are lying to the person they love?
Not easily available when you fancy a bit of the frisky action.
Are they really going to put that 100% effort into blowing your mind, seeing as they have a hole waiting at home?
Sinlge pro's:
Available at short notice, without having to make a load of excuses that could go tits up at the last minute.
More likely to put an effort in as they may want a call-back session.
Easy to find! not that the married ones aren't.
Single con's:
They could get clingy - but then if they are that kind of person it could happen whatever their marital status.
Have less to lose by shooting their mouth off.
There is a higher % of dickheads in this catagory.
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Married con's:
Can you trust them if they are lying to the person they love?
Not easily available when you fancy a bit of the frisky action.
Are they really going to put that 100% effort into blowing your mind, seeing as they have a hole waiting at home?
What about fielding nasty phone-calls from jealous wives?
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single guys like me are best thing since the invention of the internet
honest clean discreet, horny what more could you want
Someone who lives a bit closer
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Married con's:
Can you trust them if they are lying to the person they love?
I must admit, that was my first thought
Sex God
Quote by roger743
Married con's:
Can you trust them if they are lying to the person they love?
Not easily available when you fancy a bit of the frisky action.
Are they really going to put that 100% effort into blowing your mind, seeing as they have a hole waiting at home?
What about fielding nasty phone-calls from jealous wives?
Well thats another problem to worry about isnt it
. Also with the world becoming a smaller place because of the internet, we are more likely to 'bump' into someone we know, and will they tell on you?I also believe that a lot of lies lay dormant until lthey are discovered at a later time, causing no end of grief and upset to all.
Quote by icepie
I wouldn't necessarily see that as a problem. I think problems can arise when people say they're not married and it turns out they are. I've no respect at all for those.
I agree with u there Ice, a lot just skirt the issue trying to give they impression they are single. Also we have had emails from many guys who just say, she doesnt play, but what they mean is, she doesnt know!
Quote by beebeep
Married con's:
Can you trust them if they are lying to the person they love?
I must admit, that was my first thought
what about the ones that are out there with consent?
I'd be worried about those more! I mean what does she know that we don't that makes her happy for him to go and get it elsewhere :shock:
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im happy for MrHerts to go out playing alone, it means we dont have to find a sitter and i can just relax indoors. Also we dont always want to go out and have fun at the same time, sometimes he does and i dont. Works for us and others i know. :high-smile:
Sex God
Can't see the problem with those in your situation, Genherts - it's all honest and above board so there's nobody getting involved in any deceit
