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couples anti single males
And your point is ?
Are people wrong to have a certain criteria for sex such as white only, black only, couples only ?
We are British, we love to moan, but we are British we hate moaners.
My partner Sasha often opens a room entitled Cpls4Cpls North Mids, sometimes the room is open for hours with either nobody entering or the only people "popping in" being single males.
Couples on here are not anti single males, they are anti disrespectufll people, be that couples, single females or single males.
They are anti dreamers and timewasters.
Many are anti people who don't read profiles but contact them or those that don't make any effort with thier own profiles but expect people to disregard this.
It doesn't matter what your status is if you disrespect people you get the same in return, now sadly more single men fall into this category than the other status people and a very high % of those single men make it harder for decent ones.
When your plaqued by the same thing everyday you do get tired of it and yes it is easy to drop everyone into the same catergory.
messages saying "want a fuck" are numerous.
messages saying love your pics would you like to meet up ? you check thier profile and there is no textual information or no pictures or pictures of just body parts etc.
The number of people who will meet just anyone regardless of knowing any information about them or seeing pictures of just a dick or close up open pussy is few, when I ask people why the contacted us they often say "liked your pics" or "you two sound like fun", do those people think that we don't seek the same as them, is that too much to ask that we see pictures or read a profile that makes the person sound fun or interesting or that we all seek the same thing ?
Single males are not hard done by, they have more chance to get a meet than many couples
especially us and people like us, when I was single I got far more meets than now we are a couple.
Disagree ? it's simple, there may be a lot of single males on here but the vast majority will never get a meet to save thier lives, because they make no effort with thier profiles or pictures or outgoing mails. Many don't want meets they just enjoy the pictures and free sex on cam. An awfull lot are not single they are married and cheating so are restricted in when they can meet and often cannot accommodate.
The amount of single males not in the above categories are few and far between and therefore they do very well on here and in the scene.
A couple seeking a single male generally want someone within the wifes criteria and that's that, the husband merely wants someone who will respect his partner and respect him too, most single guys do not have to arrange babysitters, don't have to worry about when thier partner is available at the same time as them.
For couples you have to find 4 people who have the same attraction for each other, the same criteria, the same time off work, the availability of babysitters and so on.
In our case we have unlimited availability but we have a large age difference, for a few Sasha is too young but for most I am too old therefore it takes us 4-5 months to get a meet. We have had one meet this year so far and that didn't go well since they lied to us about what they like to do/thier criteria.
Luckily for us we go to clubs and have some long standing friends but if you think your hard done by being single think again.
Are people wrong to have a certain criteria for sex such as white only, black only, couples only ?
We are British, we love to moan, but we are British we hate moaners.
My partner Sasha often opens a room entitled Cpls4Cpls North Mids, sometimes the room is open for hours with either nobody entering or the only people "popping in" being single males.
Couples on here are not anti single males, they are anti disrespectufll people, be that couples, single females or single males.
They are anti dreamers and timewasters.
Many are anti people who don't read profiles but contact them or those that don't make any effort with thier own profiles but expect people to disregard this.
It doesn't matter what your status is if you disrespect people you get the same in return, now sadly more single men fall into this category than the other status people and a very high % of those single men make it harder for decent ones.
When your plaqued by the same thing everyday you do get tired of it and yes it is easy to drop everyone into the same catergory.
messages saying "want a fuck" are numerous.
messages saying love your pics would you like to meet up ? you check thier profile and there is no textual information or no pictures or pictures of just body parts etc.
The number of people who will meet just anyone regardless of knowing any information about them or seeing pictures of just a dick or close up open pussy is few, when I ask people why the contacted us they often say "liked your pics" or "you two sound like fun", do those people think that we don't seek the same as them, is that too much to ask that we see pictures or read a profile that makes the person sound fun or interesting or that we all seek the same thing ?
Single males are not hard done by, they have more chance to get a meet than many couples
especially us and people like us, when I was single I got far more meets than now we are a couple.
Disagree ? it's simple, there may be a lot of single males on here but the vast majority will never get a meet to save thier lives, because they make no effort with thier profiles or pictures or outgoing mails. Many don't want meets they just enjoy the pictures and free sex on cam. An awfull lot are not single they are married and cheating so are restricted in when they can meet and often cannot accommodate.
The amount of single males not in the above categories are few and far between and therefore they do very well on here and in the scene.
A couple seeking a single male generally want someone within the wifes criteria and that's that, the husband merely wants someone who will respect his partner and respect him too, most single guys do not have to arrange babysitters, don't have to worry about when thier partner is available at the same time as them.
For couples you have to find 4 people who have the same attraction for each other, the same criteria, the same time off work, the availability of babysitters and so on.
In our case we have unlimited availability but we have a large age difference, for a few Sasha is too young but for most I am too old therefore it takes us 4-5 months to get a meet. We have had one meet this year so far and that didn't go well since they lied to us about what they like to do/thier criteria.
Luckily for us we go to clubs and have some long standing friends but if you think your hard done by being single think again.
Casanova
Quote by mixerspike
hi set a room up taday title, for couples who actualy like single males in an hour
IN AN HOUR! In the chatrooms, IN THE MORNING!
I doubt I'd manage to get someone myself, and *I*'m the one getting fucked haha. There's something to be said about realistic expectations... And about trying the chatrooms when they are actually busy with all sorts, rather than just guys w**king from home. 
Sex God
Were you expecting a full room? please try to be realistic.
We are all guilty of logging on and either going straight to our normal rooms or the most populated. Very few people will log on and say to themself 'I know, I'll pop into that room with one person in as it will be better than that room with 90!'
Were you by any chance solely in the room you set up? Or did you have a second room open? If we went into an all but empty room and noone was speaking then what encouragement is there for us to stay?
If we had seen the room, and it was populated to a resonable degree, we would have looked in and made up our mind whether to stay or not.
Why don't you try not being so inflammatory, set up the room again and invest some time in getting it going with open room chat.
We are all guilty of logging on and either going straight to our normal rooms or the most populated. Very few people will log on and say to themself 'I know, I'll pop into that room with one person in as it will be better than that room with 90!'
Were you by any chance solely in the room you set up? Or did you have a second room open? If we went into an all but empty room and noone was speaking then what encouragement is there for us to stay?
If we had seen the room, and it was populated to a resonable degree, we would have looked in and made up our mind whether to stay or not.
Why don't you try not being so inflammatory, set up the room again and invest some time in getting it going with open room chat.
Sex God
Quote by paddy
We are British, we love to moan,
No offence meant but I'd have to agree, you do moan a tad :laughabove:
:haha::laughabove:
It may be only worm size but Sasha likes it
Of course I moan, I am British to the core, but at least I know it and understand it is part of my heritage and make-up and one I am actually proud of,
Us British we moan, but we rarely let it stop us getting on with life, we don't march in the streets at the slightest thing like some countries do, well not in the same quantities as places such as Argentina or arab nations, we don't overthrow our governments very often we prefer the more oh no not again then get on with it approach, but once in a while we are called upon to join as one nation or to make the ultimate sacrifice for what we believe in, times like war when the great british spirit makes us invincible, so why shouldn't we be allowed a little moaning :lol:
Of course I moan, I am British to the core, but at least I know it and understand it is part of my heritage and make-up and one I am actually proud of,
Us British we moan, but we rarely let it stop us getting on with life, we don't march in the streets at the slightest thing like some countries do, well not in the same quantities as places such as Argentina or arab nations, we don't overthrow our governments very often we prefer the more oh no not again then get on with it approach, but once in a while we are called upon to join as one nation or to make the ultimate sacrifice for what we believe in, times like war when the great british spirit makes us invincible, so why shouldn't we be allowed a little moaning :lol:
Casanova
Quote by MidsCouple24
we don't march in the streets at the slightest thing like some countries do, well not in the same quantities as places such as Argentina or arab nations
:shock: Flabbergasted to see you suggest people in regions that have suffered decades tremendous political turmoil and human rights violations are marching in the streets "at the slightest thing".
Quote by pebble
we don't march in the streets at the slightest thing like some countries do, well not in the same quantities as places such as Argentina or arab nations
:shock: Flabbergasted to see you suggest people in regions that have suffered decades tremendous political turmoil and human rights violations are marching in the streets "at the slightest thing".
Hey I never said they were wrong to do it, maybe we should do it ourselves more often I said that just isn't our way, our most famous march was the Jarrow Marches, the occasional anti nuclear march, a well publicised one against capitalism but nothing on the scale of other countries.
Sex God
Lost like single males. We meet up with them now and again too. In fact Lostman was a single guy once and liked enough not to be single now 
Unless your a well known character within the chat rooms known for being able to host a room with charisma and animation it is always going to be difficult. Add that to the fact that that a lot of people are drawn to area or activity driven rooms, apart from the entry rooms, its going to take a lot of patience to sit hosting a room to get people to stat coming in regularly.
We'd be quite happy if there was a "couples who like single guys looking to hook up in Gloucestershire room" It would be quite handy when we're looking for a meet. Let's be honest though that ain't going to happen especially to coincide with the times we're available to get out and meet and to sit in a room talking with the same one or two people all the time, well, it would just become hard work to be honest.
A room needs a good diverse cross section of people to jkeep the blood flowing in it. Chat rooms are what they are and that is for chatting. A great by product of the chat room is that it also allows people to weigh up the possibilities of meeting up in real life occasionally and this is usually done, in the meeting up for sex stakes, in a more discreet fashion through the whisper facility or through mails to each etc.
Such a specific room is always going to find it hard to get going. Unless of course its called 'Single female with really wet spread pussy close up oam looking to meet any male within 300 miles anytime over the next 12 hours whispers and directing welcome room ' not enough space to open a room with that title obviously but you get the point. lol
Unless your a well known character within the chat rooms known for being able to host a room with charisma and animation it is always going to be difficult. Add that to the fact that that a lot of people are drawn to area or activity driven rooms, apart from the entry rooms, its going to take a lot of patience to sit hosting a room to get people to stat coming in regularly.
We'd be quite happy if there was a "couples who like single guys looking to hook up in Gloucestershire room" It would be quite handy when we're looking for a meet. Let's be honest though that ain't going to happen especially to coincide with the times we're available to get out and meet and to sit in a room talking with the same one or two people all the time, well, it would just become hard work to be honest.
A room needs a good diverse cross section of people to jkeep the blood flowing in it. Chat rooms are what they are and that is for chatting. A great by product of the chat room is that it also allows people to weigh up the possibilities of meeting up in real life occasionally and this is usually done, in the meeting up for sex stakes, in a more discreet fashion through the whisper facility or through mails to each etc.
Such a specific room is always going to find it hard to get going. Unless of course its called 'Single female with really wet spread pussy close up oam looking to meet any male within 300 miles anytime over the next 12 hours whispers and directing welcome room ' not enough space to open a room with that title obviously but you get the point. lol
Quote by Lost
Lost like single males. We meet up with them now and again too. In fact Lostman was a single guy once and liked enough not to be single now
Unless your a well known character within the chat rooms known for being able to host a room with charisma and animation it is always going to be difficult. Add that to the fact that that a lot of people are drawn to area or activity driven rooms, apart from the entry rooms, its going to take a lot of patience to sit hosting a room to get people to stat coming in regularly.
We'd be quite happy if there was a "couples who like single guys looking to hook up in Gloucestershire room" It would be quite handy when we're looking for a meet. Let's be honest though that ain't going to happen especially to coincide with the times we're available to get out and meet and to sit in a room talking with the same one or two people all the time, well, it would just become hard work to be honest.
A room needs a good diverse cross section of people to jkeep the blood flowing in it. Chat rooms are what they are and that is for chatting. A great by product of the chat room is that it also allows people to weigh up the possibilities of meeting up in real life occasionally and this is usually done, in the meeting up for sex stakes, in a more discreet fashion through the whisper facility or through mails to each etc.
Such a specific room is always going to find it hard to get going. Unless of course its called 'Single female with really wet spread pussy close up oam looking to meet any male within 300 miles anytime over the next 12 hours whispers and directing welcome room ' not enough space to open a room with that title obviously but you get the point. lol
searched for days for this room Single female with really wet spread pussy close up oam looking to meet any male within 300 miles anytime over the next 12 hours whispers and directing welcome room and I cannot find it, what times is it open
Quote by MidsCouple24
And your point is ?
Are people wrong to have a certain criteria for sex such as white only, black only, couples only ?
We are British, we love to moan, but we are British we hate moaners.
My partner Sasha often opens a room entitled Cpls4Cpls North Mids, sometimes the room is open for hours with either nobody entering or the only people "popping in" being single males.
Couples on here are not anti single males, they are anti disrespectufll people, be that couples, single females or single males.
They are anti dreamers and timewasters.
Many are anti people who don't read profiles but contact them or those that don't make any effort with thier own profiles but expect people to disregard this.
It doesn't matter what your status is if you disrespect people you get the same in return, now sadly more single men fall into this category than the other status people and a very high % of those single men make it harder for decent ones.
When your plaqued by the same thing everyday you do get tired of it and yes it is easy to drop everyone into the same catergory.
messages saying "want a fuck" are numerous.
messages saying love your pics would you like to meet up ? you check thier profile and there is no textual information or no pictures or pictures of just body parts etc.
The number of people who will meet just anyone regardless of knowing any information about them or seeing pictures of just a dick or close up open pussy is few, when I ask people why the contacted us they often say "liked your pics" or "you two sound like fun", do those people think that we don't seek the same as them, is that too much to ask that we see pictures or read a profile that makes the person sound fun or interesting or that we all seek the same thing ?
Single males are not hard done by, they have more chance to get a meet than many couples
especially us and people like us, when I was single I got far more meets than now we are a couple.
Disagree ? it's simple, there may be a lot of single males on here but the vast majority will never get a meet to save thier lives, because they make no effort with thier profiles or pictures or outgoing mails. Many don't want meets they just enjoy the pictures and free sex on cam. An awfull lot are not single they are married and cheating so are restricted in when they can meet and often cannot accommodate.
The amount of single males not in the above categories are few and far between and therefore they do very well on here and in the scene.
A couple seeking a single male generally want someone within the wifes criteria and that's that, the husband merely wants someone who will respect his partner and respect him too, most single guys do not have to arrange babysitters, don't have to worry about when thier partner is available at the same time as them.
For couples you have to find 4 people who have the same attraction for each other, the same criteria, the same time off work, the availability of babysitters and so on.
In our case we have unlimited availability but we have a large age difference, for a few Sasha is too young but for most I am too old therefore it takes us 4-5 months to get a meet. We have had one meet this year so far and that didn't go well since they lied to us about what they like to do/thier criteria.
Luckily for us we go to clubs and have some long standing friends but if you think your hard done by being single think again.
I agree to the whole post
We agree with midscouple24. We're a lesbian couple, but we're both bi and are primarily looking for meets with single men. We'd like to play with couples eventually, but we don't arrange meets every week or anywhere near as frequently as that and it's a lot harder to find another couple where both of us fancy both of them! We have different tastes when it comes to both women and men who we find attractive. So, finding a single guy to play with is significantly easier than finding a couple. We've also (unsurprisingly) been contacted mainly by single men.
LB1 loves the chatroom and spends a reasonable amount of time in there - most often in the Pool. But, she goes in for the chat, the banter, the socialising and because she's an exhibitionist and enjoys being on cam...! She is not in there to arrange meets - unless LB2 comes to the chatroom with her, LB1 isn't going to arrange a meet in there. Also, like most people, we want to see photos, chat a bit and take our time to make sure we won't be wasting our time with someone when we meet them. Reading our profile and sending us a message with face pics attached is a much better way to get our attention than trying to whisper LB1 in the chatroom. Being patient is also important - swinging is part of our life, but meets are not something we do more than once or twice every few months. We also already have a very sexy, respectful playmate who lives 15 mins away - we're on the same wavelength, he's a real gentleman, he's fantastic in bed and we enjoy spending time together as friends as well as in bed! So, he has set the bar pretty high...!
We think a chatroom for couples who like singles is a good idea, but you need to give it time for people to get to know it's there, and you need to get the right kind of single men in there for it to work. And, you need to know that not everyone who uses the chatrooms is in there to arrange meets... A lot of us enjoy getting to know people and just having a giggle.
Lilith xx
LB1 loves the chatroom and spends a reasonable amount of time in there - most often in the Pool. But, she goes in for the chat, the banter, the socialising and because she's an exhibitionist and enjoys being on cam...! She is not in there to arrange meets - unless LB2 comes to the chatroom with her, LB1 isn't going to arrange a meet in there. Also, like most people, we want to see photos, chat a bit and take our time to make sure we won't be wasting our time with someone when we meet them. Reading our profile and sending us a message with face pics attached is a much better way to get our attention than trying to whisper LB1 in the chatroom. Being patient is also important - swinging is part of our life, but meets are not something we do more than once or twice every few months. We also already have a very sexy, respectful playmate who lives 15 mins away - we're on the same wavelength, he's a real gentleman, he's fantastic in bed and we enjoy spending time together as friends as well as in bed! So, he has set the bar pretty high...!
We think a chatroom for couples who like singles is a good idea, but you need to give it time for people to get to know it's there, and you need to get the right kind of single men in there for it to work. And, you need to know that not everyone who uses the chatrooms is in there to arrange meets... A lot of us enjoy getting to know people and just having a giggle.
Lilith xx
Quote by mixerspike
i,m not having a moan just wanted to see how many visited it in that hour the only ones were guys i have my own group of friends on here which i get on with i,ve been a member for many years , but you do get sarky remarks from some couples usually turns out to be male side
Very true but you also get a lot of single males bitching and moaning 'cos the rest of us don't fall at their feet. Such is life.
A very specific room for an hour ... it's not really realistic. I think a lot of people use the chatrooms simply to chat. I daresay the majority of couples who want single males are already inundated with enough junk mail and cock pics to last them a lifetime without throwing themselves head first into the lion's den. Ya know?
