Out of interest, those of you that post in the photo ads looking for a single male, how many responses do you get? You sometimes see posts that have been viewed thousands of times, what proportion of those actually reply? Also for entertainment value, how many postings just for Females get overwhelmed by the sheer volume of men pretending to be women?
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You seem to be asking 3 questions in one here...
I don't put any ads on here purely because they are more trouble than they are worth.
The second question....you seem to be asking about LMU posts....I've never advertised on there so I can't answer your question. I use it purely for socials etc.
Your third point......well it's quite clear normally when a bloke is trying to blag that they are a woman....I'm normally quite good at spotting them but there are circumstances when you miss them, although then it does become clear early on. As a male I'm not sure why you are concerned about this.
When I first joined, some people thought I was a bloke pretending but I'm not :)
I don't put any ads on here purely because they are more trouble than they are worth.
The second question....you seem to be asking about LMU posts....I've never advertised on there so I can't answer your question. I use it purely for socials etc.
Your third point......well it's quite clear normally when a bloke is trying to blag that they are a woman....I'm normally quite good at spotting them but there are circumstances when you miss them, although then it does become clear early on. As a male I'm not sure why you are concerned about this.
When I first joined, some people thought I was a bloke pretending but I'm not :)
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I am a bloke.
H.x
Really, you looked all female to me last time I saw you!
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I don’t think it matters where you post, the single guys still seem to ignore everything!
What really irritates me are the single guys that send a wink along the lines of the “I liked your profile, look at mine"
If they had actually looked at the profile and read it, rather than perving over the photo's, they might have realised they are now ignored on future PM's
Oh well I suppose the law of averages say's they have to get lucky occasionally, god bless them.
What really irritates me are the single guys that send a wink along the lines of the “I liked your profile, look at mine"
If they had actually looked at the profile and read it, rather than perving over the photo's, they might have realised they are now ignored on future PM's
Oh well I suppose the law of averages say's they have to get lucky occasionally, god bless them.
Warming the Bed
I dont mind being winked by single guys. Probably cos i'm looking to meet them ;)
Seriously though, i appreciate that single males must send out a lot of mails with very little returned interest from the swamped couples and single fems. I have no problem, then, with being invited to look at their profile by wink. As long as any future corespondence is meaningful between the two of us.
Trix xxx
Seriously though, i appreciate that single males must send out a lot of mails with very little returned interest from the swamped couples and single fems. I have no problem, then, with being invited to look at their profile by wink. As long as any future corespondence is meaningful between the two of us.
Trix xxx
I think that the last two posts both hit on something. Every couple is different, some don't want a long drawn out conversation and some do, some don't want any cock shots and some will choose based solely on the look/size of the cock. But, men do really need to read the profiles more closely.
The chatrooms are the same, you get men pestering couples/women when it is really obvious that far from getting closer to meeting them, they are more likely to take out a restraining order
The chatrooms are the same, you get men pestering couples/women when it is really obvious that far from getting closer to meeting them, they are more likely to take out a restraining order
I get as much 'interest' from couples as I do single men. I find both sections of the community as annoying and as wonderful.
As your question was about 'single' men. If I advertise then I get inundated. One advert generated 70 replies in 24 hours. I took it down. Out of those 70, 3 fitted the requirements. All 3 of those were later to be found to be misleading.
so, out of 70... I had a 0% success rate. Not the best way for me to do 'business'
Now, I 'stalk' people in chatrooms/forum. See how they communicate with others and then, at that point express my interest. From there I exchange PM's and quickly establish if we have a rapport on the phone and cam. (no 'playing' on cam :shock: )
Between that time and meeting it may actually be months/a year before we meet to have sex. I am always 90% sure before we meet that we will be having sex on that evening/day. The 10% is just confirming a physical connection.
that is my formula... and when I deviate from it all goes horribly wrong.
As your question was about 'single' men. If I advertise then I get inundated. One advert generated 70 replies in 24 hours. I took it down. Out of those 70, 3 fitted the requirements. All 3 of those were later to be found to be misleading.
so, out of 70... I had a 0% success rate. Not the best way for me to do 'business'
Now, I 'stalk' people in chatrooms/forum. See how they communicate with others and then, at that point express my interest. From there I exchange PM's and quickly establish if we have a rapport on the phone and cam. (no 'playing' on cam :shock: )
Between that time and meeting it may actually be months/a year before we meet to have sex. I am always 90% sure before we meet that we will be having sex on that evening/day. The 10% is just confirming a physical connection.
that is my formula... and when I deviate from it all goes horribly wrong.
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Really, you looked all female to me last time I saw you!
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I'm a gay man trapped in a woman's body.
I have run ads for single guys but taken them down as, like splendid, none of them actually read the ad properly. A lot of single guys hedge bet, they carpet bomb as many people as they can in the hope that they get a reply. I'm far more likely to reply to someone who has obviously taken the time to consider if they're suitable for what I'm looking for or not. It is a catch 22 though, guys get few replys so they write to more people - the fact that they write to loads of people puts me off.
H.x
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We have placed ads in both LMU and the ads section on the odd occasion usually we are very specific about when and how far is practical the response has always been pretty over whelming in LMU the least we have received was 7 the most was 40+
What is amusing is when we state between 10am and 2 pm during daytimes within 30 miles and that we don't accommodate. Amazing how many replies come back "Hi i'm from 120milesawayville Is the evening any good I can come to you"?
In saying that we always answer mail though it can take a while sometimes. but then an hour or so in persuit of a really nice time with luck is not long in the sceme of things.
Sorry I deviated somewhat from the OP
Answer from this couple would be. You can never guess Its like, how longs a piece of string?
What is amusing is when we state between 10am and 2 pm during daytimes within 30 miles and that we don't accommodate. Amazing how many replies come back "Hi i'm from 120milesawayville Is the evening any good I can come to you"?
In saying that we always answer mail though it can take a while sometimes. but then an hour or so in persuit of a really nice time with luck is not long in the sceme of things.
Sorry I deviated somewhat from the OP
Answer from this couple would be. You can never guess Its like, how longs a piece of string?
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What is amusing is when we state between 10am and 2 pm during daytimes within 30 miles and that we don't accommodate. Amazing how many replies come back "Hi i'm from 120milesawayville Is the evening any good I can come to you"?
This must get irritating after a while ! It must be like being in the chat room and because a bloke lives five miles from you, he assumes that your available (forget actually want to) meet with him NOW! Desperation never an attractive thing
