To all,
First of all, my post was not intended to cause offence to anyone but if you choose to - for whatever reason - please do so...it's a free country.
We have not yet 'indulged' in the scene and my partner wanted to talk to other ladies/couples about many,many things.... that was HER choice.
I refuse to be 'cyber sighed' at merely for asking an innocent and honest question.
This forum is not for us and we shall not darken your doorstep again.
Live and let live.
Farewell.