Couples profiles, with female photos only!!

Why is it that a high percentage of couples, only list photos of the female on their profile. It's not about seeing "dick-pics", but it's certainly a help knowing what a couple has to offer, be it for another couple or single swingers, to be able to assess the visual compatibility etc. This is a physical life style, with like minded people, who all have different varied preferences, which plày a part in the process of individual's enjoying an alternative sex life collectively. So you guys with partners, start posting your images, you have a profile stating "couple", so be a couple and equally show the real unity. 

We only have female pics because only the female half of our equation plays. At a guess, there are a fair few couples profiles which are run by guys using their current or ex-partners images without their knowledge and who either have no intention of meeting or will try the old 'sorry my wife came down with something earlier so I came alone' routine. It's worth remembering that pictures can be faked or used without permission and that's why we never meet anyone we haven't seen on cam. 

Any profiles you suspect not to be genuine,please use the report profile tab on suspect account.

Action WILL be taken,rest assured.

Thanks

We only have female pictures because it's her, that mostly, if not always, as the sexy fun..I usually just watch or instruct, if I'm present...We generally now only meet guys, but if a couple meet is set up, I gladly send body and face pictures of myself.

Well from our point of view...(or rather mine) Sammy is worth taking a photo of in many positions, clothes and lingerie and people appreciate a variety of different pictures of her but as an average guy, although I felt the same back when i was super toned, one picture of me in my boxers normally tells people everything they want to know (I just hate my photo being taken generally tbh). Equally, the site is full of pics of guys so numerous pics of me wont add anything to the overall value of the image gallery. In respect of OSEMs comment, weve not found that many couples profiles that arent actually couples luckily but the MODs are quite good at weeding those out. In our case Im on here more because i have more free time, and when Sammy is on she gets lots of pushy messages and it makes the experience less enjoyable for her. She'd prefer some kind of magic swinging where nice people just appear when you want them lol.

The Couples were hoping to meet after lockdown we started talking to in chat and had already decided we liked them before we even looked at their profile, its all personaly preference as to whether you are looking for image, personality or something in between I guess. You can always ask for the guys photo though if youre interested, 

we are who we are, ladies can dress up and wear makeup. Which is awesome!!! But ultimately we're here to fulfill fantasy and enjoy chatting and company. Its always more attractive to show the female because they are so good at it 😍🥰. I personally think that is why. Im not the best to look at but I'm here nethertheless and can be very interesting given the chance. Happy hunting in your areas or chat rooms 😁

ps check me out :swingingchair:

We understand the discretion of how much to show in our media section, how comfortable we wish to be, how daring or inviting, it's a individual's choice, even within a couple, each has their own desires and personal platform to command.

It's actually easier to post intimate pictures of body parts, different angles, close up shots etc, than it is to show face pictures, most of the media is hard-core, without a face to synchronise with, a way of being directly open and fearless, without the familiarity to feel too exposed and vulnerable, keeping a distance between the sexual exposure and the recognition of the reality, a genital is less intimate than a face within this lifestyle, maybe due to social taboos etc.

Our point is....we are all trying to sell ourselves to potential customers, so if you are a couple, then post your media as a couple, at least show what you wish to sell, you cannot expect to select a meal off a menu, but only be allowed to know half the contents of the meal. Please don't complain about our way of describing the format of this lifestyle, but it's true, with respect, we all try to sell ourselves in life for gain, be it promotion, gaining a favour or just wanting to be recognised, we all have a product to offer....that's the nature of humans.

Transparency is key to this way of living, in comfortable stages, discretion is a personal choice, how much you show, when and who to, it's the right of each of you to be in control, but if you are a couple, at least be a couple on your profile, be it dressed or naked, body no face, or full on openess, if you are a couple just be transparent to your own comfortable level, show media that represents couples as couples.......you don't show yourselves guys, but expect to be there if the fun is arranged!!!!

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We understand the discretion of how much to show in our media section, how comfortable we wish to be, how daring or inviting, it's a individual's choice, even within a couple, each has their own desires and personal platform to command.
It's actually easier to post intimate pictures of body parts, different angles, close up shots etc, than it is to show face pictures, most of the media is hard-core, without a face to synchronise with, a way of being directly open and fearless, without the familiarity to feel too exposed and vulnerable, keeping a distance between the sexual exposure and the recognition of the reality, a genital is less intimate than a face within this lifestyle, maybe due to social taboos etc.
Our point is....we are all trying to sell ourselves to potential customers, so if you are a couple, then post your media as a couple, at least show what you wish to sell, you cannot expect to select a meal off a menu, but only be allowed to know half the contents of the meal. Please don't complain about our way of describing the format of this lifestyle, but it's true, with respect, we all try to sell ourselves in life for gain, be it promotion, gaining a favour or just wanting to be recognised, we all have a product to offer....that's the nature of humans.
Transparency is key to this way of living, in comfortable stages, discretion is a personal choice, how much you show, when and who to, it's the right of each of you to be in control, but if you are a couple, at least be a couple on your profile, be it dressed or naked, body no face, or full on openess, if you are a couple just be transparent to your own comfortable level, show media that represents couples as couples.......you don't show yourselves guys, but expect to be there if the fun is arranged!!!!

 What would your idea of transparency look like out of curiosity?

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We understand the discretion of how much to show in our media section, how comfortable we wish to be, how daring or inviting, it's a individual's choice, even within a couple, each has their own desires and personal platform to command.
It's actually easier to post intimate pictures of body parts, different angles, close up shots etc, than it is to show face pictures, most of the media is hard-core, without a face to synchronise with, a way of being directly open and fearless, without the familiarity to feel too exposed and vulnerable, keeping a distance between the sexual exposure and the recognition of the reality, a genital is less intimate than a face within this lifestyle, maybe due to social taboos etc.
Our point is....we are all trying to sell ourselves to potential customers, so if you are a couple, then post your media as a couple, at least show what you wish to sell, you cannot expect to select a meal off a menu, but only be allowed to know half the contents of the meal. Please don't complain about our way of describing the format of this lifestyle, but it's true, with respect, we all try to sell ourselves in life for gain, be it promotion, gaining a favour or just wanting to be recognised, we all have a product to offer....that's the nature of humans.
Transparency is key to this way of living, in comfortable stages, discretion is a personal choice, how much you show, when and who to, it's the right of each of you to be in control, but if you are a couple, at least be a couple on your profile, be it dressed or naked, body no face, or full on openess, if you are a couple just be transparent to your own comfortable level, show media that represents couples as couples.......you don't show yourselves guys, but expect to be there if the fun is arranged!!!!

It's not incumbent upon anyone here to show images (or certain types of) if they don't feel happy to do so. If that puts certain others off then so be it - that's their prerogative too. In just the same way, you have a choice about whom you contact and the reasons why. Images can be easily 'faked' and are often misused so I'm not sure how they can be relied upon for anything much when the motives of those displaying them are entirely unknown. We're not in the slightest bit interested in seeing graphic cock shots but wouldn't object to guys posting them any more than we'd demand that face pictures be made obligatory. Due to experience, we ask anyone we've chatted to and are planning an initial social meeting with, to go on camera with us beforehand so we can all see each other first (fully or partially clothed but not including faces).  If they don't want to do so that's their choice but we won't meet them.  Everyone here has a choice about what they include in their profiles and how they wish to go about their search. It's not for anyone else to tell them otherwise.

I've often wondered, if the female is part of a couple, then why are all the pictures taken by the female of herself stood in front of a mirror? Very suss, especially when the female states her partner more often views replies to their profile. 

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I've often wondered, if the female is part of a couple, then why are all the pictures just of her stood in front of a mirror? Very suss, especially when the female states her partner more often views replies to their profile. :confused:

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I've often wondered, if the female is part of a couple, then why are all the pictures just of her stood in front of a mirror? Very suss, especially when the female states her partner more often views replies to their profile. :confused:

Maybe because she wants to take her own pictures and that's the easiest way to do it.  Just a thought.  Not sure what's suspicious about that.

:violin:

far too deep, no need to overthink. Just an opinion :love:

I think there's a whole range of reasons why couples might only/primarily post pics of the woman - not least that, on the whole, guys simply aren't considered as "attractive" (either in our own right, or relative to women) in society. I suspect the majority of us, myself included, consider ourselves at or below average in looks (which is statistically impossible, but the sense nonetheless)

I run this account for myself and Jane, and pictures of me get zero attention, which is fine and understandable TBH.

Perhaps if more women (for us hetero folks) gave feedback on guys pictures there'd be more of them? Thinking about it I suspect I've only had feedback from bi/gay guys.

All that said, I do see the original point, and I'll take and upload some more recent ones of myself.

Good for you 👍 

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Why is it that a high percentage of couples, only list photos of the female on their profile. It's not about seeing "dick-pics", but it's certainly a help knowing what a couple has to offer, be it for another couple or single swingers, to be able to assess the visual compatibility etc. This is a physical life style, with like minded people, who all have different varied preferences, which plày a part in the process of individual's enjoying an alternative sex life collectively. So you guys with partners, start posting your images, you have a profile stating "couple", so be a couple and equally show the real unity. 

 We have done the maths, most visits to our profile and images are liked and commented by males or non verified couple accounts.

In just about every cases the female photos attracted up to 99% of the likes, comments and views.

As we come toward the end of our first membership year we are slowly but surely coming to the conclusion that the site is predominantly active with married males or males purport-raying to be a couple.

We may be so far from the Mark and we are sure there are genuine couples like us out there, sadly the majority who assume we want to be friends, send winks or crass unthought messages or comments without reading a profile are males and not interested in photographs of males FACT.

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Why is it that a high percentage of couples, only list photos of the female on their profile. It's not about seeing "dick-pics", but it's certainly a help knowing what a couple has to offer, be it for another couple or single swingers, to be able to assess the visual compatibility etc. This is a physical life style, with like minded people, who all have different varied preferences, which plày a part in the process of individual's enjoying an alternative sex life collectively. So you guys with partners, start posting your images, you have a profile stating "couple", so be a couple and equally show the real unity. 

 We have done the maths, most visits to our profile and images are liked and commented by males or non verified couple accounts.

In just about every cases the female photos attracted up to 99% of the likes, comments and views.
As we come toward the end of our first membership year we are slowly but surely coming to the conclusion that the site is predominantly active with married males or males purport-raying to be a couple.
We may be so far from the Mark and we are sure there are genuine couples like us out there, sadly the majority who assume we want to be friends, send winks or crass unthought messages or comments without reading a profile are males and not interested in photographs of males FACT.

You're right about this being a predominantly male site.  I do think there are a lot of genuine single guys here as well as the married/attached men you refer to, some of who pretend either to be single or even part of a genuine couple when their other halves have no knowledge of it.

our profile only has pics of me, as playing and chatting here is my thing - he is more than happy to remain off stage and enjoy the show / chat. Also i look much better in lingerie than he does lol

We have also found that loads of the supposed couples are single guys - the woman is always 'at work / asleep / totally fictional

sorry  not sure what your  getting  at new to this please  explain  paul 

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sorry  not sure what your  getting  at new to this please  explain  paul 

There are people here who have couples profiles but either aren't couples at all (i.e. single males) or are men who are pretending their wives play when they don't.  The best way to ascertain if a 'couple' is genuine is to ask to see them on camera. Pictures are easily copied and are proof of nothing.

I am single  male  not pretending to be  anything else 

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I am single  male  not pretending to be  anything else 

 Just be aware that many here are not and that's why couples and females are very careful. 

ok thanks  for your message  paul 

Once again folks....

ANY profiles you suspect not to be as they seem,please use the report profile tab on the suspect profile and action will be taken.

Might not be immediate,as we have to do some checks,but action will be taken if found to be fake etc.

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I've often wondered, if the female is part of a couple, then why are all the pictures just of her stood in front of a mirror? Very suss, especially when the female states her partner more often views replies to their profile. :confused:

Maybe because she wants to take her own pictures and that's the easiest way to do it.  Just a thought.  Not sure what's suspicious about that.

 Because it's a bloke pretending to be a female or couple usually Durr!!! 

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I've often wondered, if the female is part of a couple, then why are all the pictures just of her stood in front of a mirror? Very suss, especially when the female states her partner more often views replies to their profile. 

Maybe because she wants to take her own pictures and that's the easiest way to do it.  Just a thought.  Not sure what's suspicious about that.

 Because it's a bloke pretending to be a female or couple usually Durr!!! 

Usually?  Durr!!!?  How do you know how 'usual' it is?  How can you prove who's posted what, with or without the permission or knowledge of the person in those images?  Why is a picture of a woman in a mirror any different from a picture of her standing alone in the kitchen or anywhere else for that matter?  Selfies can be taken in the mirror, using a selfie stick or just simply using the timer on a camera.  What makes any of them more or less 'suspicious' than a picture their partner actually took? It'd be just as easy for those single guys pretending to be couples to use images they already have with a previous partner (without permission) or of another couple on a beach somewhere and it seems that would deceive you.  The only way you can be reasonably sure a couple is involved is to ask them to appear and chat with you on camera together, which is exactly what we do when we are considering meeting someone to a) prove we are real and b) so that we can see them.  The fact is that people are able to post any pics they like here and unless they're obviously against site rules or pinched from social media (as some are) there's no way of knowing whether they're images of the account holder.

We try to have photos of us both but the female obviously gets most of the attention .