Hello all.
I'm prompted by a conversation I was having with Naisy here yesterday.
Currently most of us struggle to get to even what might be described as a decent conversation with females or couples on the site. The reasons for this are many and varied, but in the spirit of letting all us single males know, I would like to invite couples and females to post their pet loves and hates from the chat rooms and what encourages or discourages them to enter into "quality" chat, or simply what to consider in a particular male (looks apart).
It has been mentioned to me for example (on more than one occasion) that too many males seem to be "in yer face", partly down to the individual I feel but also perhaps due to the highly competitive nature of trying to "be heard"? I commented and Naisy agreed that many single males feel under pressure to come up with immediately witty or outstanding comments within the first couple of sentences of chat or run the risk of being ignored completely. This inevitably leads to more and more outlandish boasting or statements and ever-increasing "quips" and can lead to the frequently seen hostility between single males as they compete to be "head of the herd".
So, in the spirit of greater enlightenment, over to you all for your comments and pet hates and loves?....
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Sexlightened
I think some people are using the chatrooms to pull. Their main reason to go there is to find someone to meet, not really to chat.
I have no idea of the percentages, but some couples are not looking for single guys, so those couples may well ignore guys under those circumstances.
My experience of the chatroom has often been that if I chat with a single guy, often they will start pushing for a meet. Usually quite early on. Peronsally this can get a bit tiring.
From my own experience I have had one single guy go a bit postal on us when we didn't accept his advances. He even complained about us to the ops which resulted in us being banned from the site. It took us a couple of days to have our account reinstated by admin and the ban revoked. (it was the weekend) After that I decided I would stay well clear of single guys in the chatrooms.
I have no idea of the percentages, but some couples are not looking for single guys, so those couples may well ignore guys under those circumstances.
My experience of the chatroom has often been that if I chat with a single guy, often they will start pushing for a meet. Usually quite early on. Peronsally this can get a bit tiring.
From my own experience I have had one single guy go a bit postal on us when we didn't accept his advances. He even complained about us to the ops which resulted in us being banned from the site. It took us a couple of days to have our account reinstated by admin and the ban revoked. (it was the weekend) After that I decided I would stay well clear of single guys in the chatrooms.
im the female half of a couple and tho we dont as a rule meet single guts together i do meet single guys alone, but i am very choosy about the men i meet and i dont mean choosy as in looks etc i mean in the person themselves, i dont meet men who can not hold a conversation that does not involve sex, its a swingers site we know we are here for sex that dont mean thats all you can talk about tho, i dont meet men who think that every time you talk you have to be naked on web cam or watching them wank for you!! in my experiance guys who want to see you naked on cam every time you log on are just after a cheep thrill and not after real meets at all, so my advice is get a porn film lol i dont meet guys i feel are trying to pester you into a meet b4 your ready, meeting as a single female is risky we only have your word for it that your safe and not a nutter, so why would i give my address out to a guy or agree to get in a car with him after 5 mins of chatting? i will only agree to meet someone after i have spoken enough to them to feel resonably safe and then only in a public area such as a pub, verbaily bullying me into a meet dont work, nor does calling me a time waster if i dont agree to meet you on demande lol
I think basically like most women i'm looking for normal every day guys who can hold a conversation with you and treat you like a person instead of a lump of meat with a hole, im not just looking for a quick shag i'm looking for friends with extras as if we get on i'd like to maybe meet again as i find sex with people you like and get on with better than a string of one night stands with guys who dont really know what you like, but most guys on here i find are just after a meet as soon as possable and dont really care what the women gets out of it, thats my views anyway
i must admit i have had bad experiances also from guys i have turn down offen being told im fat and ugly anyway and that they can do better, i had one guy who told me i should be grateful of his offer as he was very god looking and could get any woman he wanted
some guys get very offensive when you say no to them and the top and bottom of it is it does put you off talking to guys, i suppose cause ive been doing this for a long time now and have met a lot of very nice single guys (as well as my fair share of nutters lol) im experianced enough to know this is not typical of single men but for new commers to the site i think think it is very off putting and would put a lot of new couples off talking to single men at all.
I think basically like most women i'm looking for normal every day guys who can hold a conversation with you and treat you like a person instead of a lump of meat with a hole, im not just looking for a quick shag i'm looking for friends with extras as if we get on i'd like to maybe meet again as i find sex with people you like and get on with better than a string of one night stands with guys who dont really know what you like, but most guys on here i find are just after a meet as soon as possable and dont really care what the women gets out of it, thats my views anyway
Quote by TimandLene
From my own experience I have had one single guy go a bit postal on us when we didn't accept his advances. He even complained about us to the ops which resulted in us being banned from the site. It took us a couple of days to have our account reinstated by admin and the ban revoked. (it was the weekend) After that I decided I would stay well clear of single guys in the chatrooms.
i must admit i have had bad experiances also from guys i have turn down offen being told im fat and ugly anyway and that they can do better, i had one guy who told me i should be grateful of his offer as he was very god looking and could get any woman he wanted
some guys get very offensive when you say no to them and the top and bottom of it is it does put you off talking to guys, i suppose cause ive been doing this for a long time now and have met a lot of very nice single guys (as well as my fair share of nutters lol) im experianced enough to know this is not typical of single men but for new commers to the site i think think it is very off putting and would put a lot of new couples off talking to single men at all. Hello again.
Kind of what I anticipated so far to be honest.
Some people do not realise the effect of the "comments" they make, and others simply do not care.
I must admit to having come out with the odd stupid comment myself, but I never intend to offend, just to have a laugh with the person involved. Unfortuantely you cannot tell from typing, what the state of mind of the individual at the other end is?
Keep your comments coming though...
Kind of what I anticipated so far to be honest.
Some people do not realise the effect of the "comments" they make, and others simply do not care.
I must admit to having come out with the odd stupid comment myself, but I never intend to offend, just to have a laugh with the person involved. Unfortuantely you cannot tell from typing, what the state of mind of the individual at the other end is?
Keep your comments coming though...
Quote by flower411
OK, so there`s all that other stuff as well
If it says "heavy cummer" yr out
If it says " with somebody" yr out
If it says "bi curious or N/A " yr on a pretty sticky wicket
If it says " size and looks not important " you gotta have an edge somewhere else :lol:
If it says anything about bukkake or uses words like wifey, cumslut or cuckold ....yr out ....
Blimey I better stop there :shock: fussy bstard ain`t I :lol:
Jeez so what's "in" for you then? 
Quote by flower411
As most people have worked out by now it`s just mr flower who chats
When a single guy says hello in the chatrooms, the first thing I do is click on their profile. You can find out a lot about a person simply by the way they approach you in chat and what`s on their profile.
In most cases, if the first approach is a whisper, then the profile will be empty. In this case the whisperer may well ask you to look at their camWhen you look it`s just a close up of him wanking !!!
Generally I simply leave the room cos I know that if I answer, their will definately be an argument !!
If I look on profile and there are pics that ARE NOT just your penis from 27 different angles then I`ll be able to make a decision as to whether or not I want to simply chat or maybe find out if you have face pics available
If there are face pics on the profile, I can make an instant decision as to whether or not I want to chat about the weather or about a meet !!
OK, so there`s all that other stuff as well
If it says "heavy cummer" yr out
If it says " with somebody" yr out
If it says "bi curious or N/A " yr on a pretty sticky wicket :wink:
If it says " size and looks not important " you gotta have an edge somewhere else :lol:
If it says anything about bukkake or uses words like wifey, cumslut or cuckold ....yr out ....
Blimey I better stop there :shock: fussy bstard ain`t I :lol:
Not fussy at all
They are about along the lines me and sharon follow.
Although 1 picture of dick is ok if mixed with other pictures ( give shaz something to perve over ), just cock shots though is a no no
Tony :wink:
I just stick to drooling :grin: Sorry wont get much of a sensible answer out of me :smile:
It is hard for single fella's to stand out from the crowd at times. Its like a fight in the chatrooms to shine through and be noticed.
The mistakes *some* guys make are what others mentioned: cant make a converstaion without sex as the main subject matter, want to meet yesterday, want to see pics now, think I have problems because I dont swing hehe and the list goes on! Bless...
I have made some great friends here though, couples and singles who have accepted me as I am... total fruitcake!
Have fun
xanaisx
Ps and just add, those guys that dont read your profile and say Ive read your advert and Im just what your looking for...what advert????????
It is hard for single fella's to stand out from the crowd at times. Its like a fight in the chatrooms to shine through and be noticed.
The mistakes *some* guys make are what others mentioned: cant make a converstaion without sex as the main subject matter, want to meet yesterday, want to see pics now, think I have problems because I dont swing hehe and the list goes on! Bless...
I have made some great friends here though, couples and singles who have accepted me as I am... total fruitcake!
Have fun
xanaisx
Ps and just add, those guys that dont read your profile and say Ive read your advert and Im just what your looking for...what advert????????
Sex God
Lot of things said here are very true of us as a couple deciding on a meet too.
Just to be able to chat in a chatroom or indeed to put a few words in a forum makes for a good positive.
We also think that its time and effort that can make a difference, And one big plus is the guys who get to go to socials and munches etc. Though they may not get to play munchtime. At least afterwards there is common ground to chat in the chatrooms etc and the possibilities go from almost impossible to possible.
Oh and the type of guy who says such things as - would your husband like to see you suck on my cock and come over your face - in open chat is more likely to become Pope than to get to f*ck my Mrs
Watch someone come into chat saying they are benedict 16th :lol2: and now they're pope can they f*ck me mrs :lol:
Just to be able to chat in a chatroom or indeed to put a few words in a forum makes for a good positive.
We also think that its time and effort that can make a difference, And one big plus is the guys who get to go to socials and munches etc. Though they may not get to play munchtime. At least afterwards there is common ground to chat in the chatrooms etc and the possibilities go from almost impossible to possible.
Oh and the type of guy who says such things as - would your husband like to see you suck on my cock and come over your face - in open chat is more likely to become Pope than to get to f*ck my Mrs
Watch someone come into chat saying they are benedict 16th :lol2: and now they're pope can they f*ck me mrs :lol:
Sex God
In the chat room specifically, I never respond to whispers unless i'm in an established conversation with a guy.
Although we don't meet guys, Its something we might consider in the future.
The kind of guys that would get my interest are the ones that are chatting away with everyone like you would in a pub, having a laugh, taking the p, and joining in with everyone.
As soon as someone says something along the lines of 'what are you looking for, when do you like to meet etc, do you have pics' then i tend to steer well clear.
Obviously there's no harm in asking what someones after, but there are different approaches.
I more likely to want to meet someone who has gone about it in an indirect way, chatting/flirting on several occasions.
One point, however; you can always tell the devious ones who thinks they have worked out the secret to pulling - they are usually the first to jump to your defence when you get lots of whispers/directing- ie 'leave that poor girl alone' ie trying to look like mr nice guy amongst a bunch of dick heads, but really meaning: 'if i pretend to be better than them all, i'm definately in for a shag!!!'
Although we don't meet guys, Its something we might consider in the future.
The kind of guys that would get my interest are the ones that are chatting away with everyone like you would in a pub, having a laugh, taking the p, and joining in with everyone.
As soon as someone says something along the lines of 'what are you looking for, when do you like to meet etc, do you have pics' then i tend to steer well clear.
Obviously there's no harm in asking what someones after, but there are different approaches.
I more likely to want to meet someone who has gone about it in an indirect way, chatting/flirting on several occasions.
One point, however; you can always tell the devious ones who thinks they have worked out the secret to pulling - they are usually the first to jump to your defence when you get lots of whispers/directing- ie 'leave that poor girl alone' ie trying to look like mr nice guy amongst a bunch of dick heads, but really meaning: 'if i pretend to be better than them all, i'm definately in for a shag!!!'
Quote by flower411
If it says "bi curious or N/A " yr on a pretty sticky wicket
Figures.....but I really am in two minds about everything
Truth be known .... I`m a suspicious git and I reckon that a high percentage of the "bi curious" are very straight and just put that cos it makes them sound more swingy !!!
ooops !!!
is "swingy" a word ?? :wink:I can understand that Flower. However, in my defense, I'd usually be willing to prove it (depends on whether I fancy them both or not) :lol:
And swingy could be a word...just look at some of the words in the Dictionary nowadays
Sex God
Good topic Super Dave.
Well we don't play with singles males but I still see them at people to chat to in the chatrooms. Like in life generally, I like well mannered, polite and humorous people who can socialise.
Anyone who whispers first without talking to me in chat is rude. I wouldn't want anyone I have never spoken to before say in a pub to come up to me and whisper in my ear before talking to my face.
Any whispers "Do you ever meet single males?" gets a simple reply in chat saying "Read my profile, sorry we meet cpls only". I'm not rude in RL so not going to be in chat either.
Any "Show us your luvly tits" as an introduction gets ignored. I'm not a piece of meat, even if I am on cam.
Like Maz, I always giggle when I see the ones that try to be your best friend and whisper things about a third party like "He's a bit of a pain, are you OK hun?" Still at least they're being polite of sorts!
Having said that the single males I enjoy chatting to are the ones that chat in the room, about whatever the topic is, can actually hold a conversation without asking to meet in the first 8 seconds. They usually have character, a sense of humour and are willing to take time getting to know you over time (particularly in local rooms). I also like it when SM's put their face on cam rather than their cocks.
Because we meet couples only, I always say this to the SM's and this says so on our profile (yes some do actually read it!), so they are in no doubt that any chat room banter I have with them is just that, not a slow boat into my knickers.
AND in defence of singles males, I have to say I have never had any real rudenss in the chat rooms at all, when I politely say No they have all respected that (OK some try a bit more) but I've not had a single rude retort.
pink x
Well we don't play with singles males but I still see them at people to chat to in the chatrooms. Like in life generally, I like well mannered, polite and humorous people who can socialise.
Anyone who whispers first without talking to me in chat is rude. I wouldn't want anyone I have never spoken to before say in a pub to come up to me and whisper in my ear before talking to my face.
Any whispers "Do you ever meet single males?" gets a simple reply in chat saying "Read my profile, sorry we meet cpls only". I'm not rude in RL so not going to be in chat either.
Any "Show us your luvly tits" as an introduction gets ignored. I'm not a piece of meat, even if I am on cam.
Like Maz, I always giggle when I see the ones that try to be your best friend and whisper things about a third party like "He's a bit of a pain, are you OK hun?"
Still at least they're being polite of sorts!Having said that the single males I enjoy chatting to are the ones that chat in the room, about whatever the topic is, can actually hold a conversation without asking to meet in the first 8 seconds. They usually have character, a sense of humour and are willing to take time getting to know you over time (particularly in local rooms). I also like it when SM's put their face on cam rather than their cocks.
Because we meet couples only, I always say this to the SM's and this says so on our profile (yes some do actually read it!), so they are in no doubt that any chat room banter I have with them is just that, not a slow boat into my knickers.
AND in defence of singles males, I have to say I have never had any real rudenss in the chat rooms at all, when I politely say No they have all respected that (OK some try a bit more) but I've not had a single rude retort.
pink x
Quote by flower411
I wasn`t attacking you
I know you wasn't attacking me....and it is a term under abuse.....however, I wouldn't run a mile.....too damn unfit for that.
I'm built for comfort, not speed
i am new to SH, but i've been in and out of chatrooms for the past 8 years. :shock:
the only rule that i've found helpful is ... don't say things to people that you wouldn't say to their face. its easy to be brave behind a screen, but its not always wise.
i went into one of the SH chatrooms last night and felt very welcome .... thanks guys and gals xx
the only rule that i've found helpful is ... don't say things to people that you wouldn't say to their face. its easy to be brave behind a screen, but its not always wise.
i went into one of the SH chatrooms last night and felt very welcome .... thanks guys and gals xx
Quote by Couple-30s
i am new to SH, but i've been in and out of chatrooms for the past 8 years. :shock:
the only rule that i've found helpful is ... don't say things to people that you wouldn't say to their face. its easy to be brave behind a screen, but its not always wise.
i went into one of the SH chatrooms last night and felt very welcome .... thanks guys and gals xx
Welcome to SH, glad you had a good time in the chatroom... some great peeps around!:smile:
xanaisx
Quote by GnV
When a single guy says hello in the chatrooms, the first thing I do is click on their profile. You can find out a lot about a person simply by the way they approach you in chat and what`s on their profile.
You can tell a lot by their NIC as well :thumbup:
True
nicknames like spurter, bigbollocks and spunk bubble just don't do it for us
S n T
It seems that there is consensus on what we would like to happen and see.
Personally I love a good chat, the more humerous the better (must admit I get bored rigid by talk of the weather and mundane things like that) but I love a good bit of banter. I think it's excellent when fems in particular join in with the banter as it helps to keep the peace to a large degree? A womans influenece and all that?
I find that the best method for me in using the chatrooms is to spend a little time in differing rooms, having 10/15 mins of good conversation and catching up, then moving on? The danger otherwise is that the conversation becomes stale and lifeless for most parties?
Like my morning constitutional, I think regular movement is the key? :shock:
Personally I love a good chat, the more humerous the better (must admit I get bored rigid by talk of the weather and mundane things like that) but I love a good bit of banter. I think it's excellent when fems in particular join in with the banter as it helps to keep the peace to a large degree? A womans influenece and all that?
I find that the best method for me in using the chatrooms is to spend a little time in differing rooms, having 10/15 mins of good conversation and catching up, then moving on? The danger otherwise is that the conversation becomes stale and lifeless for most parties?
Like my morning constitutional, I think regular movement is the key? :shock:
Sex God
Quote by SuperDave
Like my morning constitutional, I think regular movement is the key? :shock:
what a great line Dave!! Sex God
Quote by Couple-30s
i am new to SH, but i've been in and out of chatrooms for the past 8 years. :shock:
the only rule that i've found helpful is ... don't say things to people that you wouldn't say to their face. its easy to be brave behind a screen, but its not always wise.
i went into one of the SH chatrooms last night and felt very welcome .... thanks guys and gals xx
Hi guys.... As Anais says welcome to the site great to see new people enjoying the chat. And what a nice positive first post. Look forward to chatting more!
By the way mines - white no sugar!! :lol2:
This is in no way an exaggeration, honestly.
Prime example of the flow of conversation in the chatroom when i'm on cam:
(sm=single male)
sm1: Hi Marya
Marya: hism1
sm1: how are you?
sm2: nice tits, Marya
Marya: good thanks sm1, you?
Marya: lol cheers sm2
sm3: hi Marya where are you?
sm1: ok thanks, can i whisper?
sm4 whispers: show me your tits, i want to cum for you
Marya: no, please don't whisper.
Marya: Teesside, sm3
<sm1 leaves the chatroom>
<sm3 leaves chatroom>
sm2 whispers: you like phone fun?
sm5: nice cam Marya
sm6: you giving us a show Marya?
Marya: thanks sm5 20 quid in pcworld lol
sm2
Marya: sorry sm6. no show. what you see is what you get.
< sm6 and countless other one handed surfers leave chatroom>
.... and so it goes on.
It's boring, predictable and sometimes really bloody annoying. it's not always restricted to single males either. There are a few couples who think they're "above" it and whisper even though you said not to.
My only interest is in single males so obviously I'm going to persevere and try really really hard not to tar them all with the same brush. Especially as I've had the good fortune of meeting a few really nice single males so i know they're not all utter numpties.
A bit of general chat, humour and a go with the flow attitude rather than honing in is preferable.
Have a laugh, be chatty without asking the 20 questions, read profiles!!, do your research and accept people's preferences and choices.
One thing - remember that we do actually see the conversations you have with other people - so try not to use the same lines on everybody. You just come across as fickle and desperate.
My preference is for younger males but I'm constantly harassed by older males insisting I don't know what I'm missing and it's my loss blah blah..
... oh god, i could rant all day, sorry!
Prime example of the flow of conversation in the chatroom when i'm on cam:
(sm=single male)
sm1: Hi Marya
Marya: hism1
sm1: how are you?
sm2: nice tits, Marya
Marya: good thanks sm1, you?
Marya: lol cheers sm2
sm3: hi Marya where are you?
sm1: ok thanks, can i whisper?
sm4 whispers: show me your tits, i want to cum for you
Marya: no, please don't whisper.
Marya: Teesside, sm3
<sm1 leaves the chatroom>
<sm3 leaves chatroom>
sm2 whispers: you like phone fun?
sm5: nice cam Marya
sm6: you giving us a show Marya?
Marya: thanks sm5 20 quid in pcworld lol
sm2
Marya: sorry sm6. no show. what you see is what you get.
< sm6 and countless other one handed surfers leave chatroom>
.... and so it goes on.
It's boring, predictable and sometimes really bloody annoying. it's not always restricted to single males either. There are a few couples who think they're "above" it and whisper even though you said not to.
My only interest is in single males so obviously I'm going to persevere and try really really hard not to tar them all with the same brush. Especially as I've had the good fortune of meeting a few really nice single males so i know they're not all utter numpties.
A bit of general chat, humour and a go with the flow attitude rather than honing in is preferable.
Have a laugh, be chatty without asking the 20 questions, read profiles!!, do your research and accept people's preferences and choices.
One thing - remember that we do actually see the conversations you have with other people - so try not to use the same lines on everybody. You just come across as fickle and desperate.
My preference is for younger males but I'm constantly harassed by older males insisting I don't know what I'm missing and it's my loss blah blah..
... oh god, i could rant all day, sorry!
Always lovely to see you in here ranting Marya and as you say the winners are the guys and couples with humour, confidence and a general interest in you and what you are saying. They are also usually the guys who actually get to meet single females and couples.
I love the banter and hate the conversations you have just described. As was said earlier would they say that your face if you were standing in front of them??? I know there is a level of bravado in the chatrooms and thats great for shy people but we all like conversation in the rooms too.
Corrie xxxx
I love the banter and hate the conversations you have just described. As was said earlier would they say that your face if you were standing in front of them??? I know there is a level of bravado in the chatrooms and thats great for shy people but we all like conversation in the rooms too.
Corrie xxxx
Corrie and Marya.
as well as all of the above, especially NN and Marya
there is also the be a nice guy in chat room, get your msn turn into total arsehole immediately wanting to cam, pushing for meets, first words out of mouth are so what do you like doing, that drives me mad
i will tell you or let you find out what i like doing if, and when i decide you are not a complete wanker and i will meet you.
from then on everytime they see you online, you are pounced on, 'so when we meeting' keep this up mate and try never.
i finally gave into a guy who has pestered me for a year, who is a total nob in chat and by text but is ok when you chat on phone
god i could go on will shut up now
there is also the be a nice guy in chat room, get your msn turn into total arsehole immediately wanting to cam, pushing for meets, first words out of mouth are so what do you like doing, that drives me mad
i will tell you or let you find out what i like doing if, and when i decide you are not a complete wanker and i will meet you.
from then on everytime they see you online, you are pounced on, 'so when we meeting' keep this up mate and try never.
i finally gave into a guy who has pestered me for a year, who is a total nob in chat and by text but is ok when you chat on phone
god i could go on will shut up now
Sex God
Something I find extremely annoying is when the guy speaks only to the female half of the couple and makes no attempt to interact with the guy who's wife/partner he wants to meet/shag..
Quote by Marya_Northeast
I don't know what I'm missing and it's my loss blah blah..
I get told that most days Myra
:lol: An they very nicely pm ma to tell me so... thanks guys! :? I do agree though, some of the convo's are very dire..... and they seem to repeat themselves just incase you didnt hear the first time :?
Then your maybe in a room that says *Bristol* on the door an a guy repeatedly asks where your from :? Im going to say Macodonia from now on!!
On the positive side, I have had some brillianty funny times in the chatrooms with singles and couples. Some members here have a fantastic sense of humour and its those peeps that keep me here
:D xanaisx
Sex God
Quote by Couple-30s
i am new to SH, but i've been in and out of chatrooms for the past 8 years. :shock:
the only rule that i've found helpful is ... don't say things to people that you wouldn't say to their face. its easy to be brave behind a screen, but its not always wise.
i went into one of the SH chatrooms last night and felt very welcome .... thanks guys and gals xx
Hi couple-30s and welcome!
Join in and have fun
pink x
Quote by Marya_Northeast
This is in no way an exaggeration, honestly.
Prime example of the flow of conversation in the chatroom when i'm on cam:
(sm=single male)
sm1: Hi Marya
Marya: hism1
sm1: how are you?
sm2: nice tits, Marya
Marya: good thanks sm1, you?
Marya: lol cheers sm2
sm3: hi Marya where are you?
sm1: ok thanks, can i whisper?
sm4 whispers: show me your tits, i want to cum for you
Marya: no, please don't whisper.
Marya: Teesside, sm3
<sm1 leaves the chatroom>
<sm3 leaves chatroom>
sm2 whispers: you like phone fun?
sm5: nice cam Marya
sm6: you giving us a show Marya?
Marya: thanks sm5 20 quid in pcworld lol
sm2
Marya: sorry sm6. no show. what you see is what you get.
< sm6 and countless other one handed surfers leave chatroom>
:giggle: u must get whispers from the same guys as me lol
why do men think cause your on web cam you have to show everyone everything god gave you? surely genuine men after real meets would be more interested in the whole you and a bit of a chat rather that what colour your nipples are and if you shaven
but i could be wrong there lol as i said in my last post men who pester you to get naked (in my experiance) arnt after real meets at all just a image to wank over so asking to see me bent over and showing you my 'chocolate starfish' will get you nowhere at all with me and yes i know that makes me a crap nymphos :lol2: Quote by naughtynymphos1
:giggle: u must get whispers from the same guys as me lol
why do men think cause your on web cam you have to show everyone everything god gave you? surely genuine men after real meets would be more interested in the whole you and a bit of a chat rather that what colour your nipples are and if you shaven
Damn....the ilusion is broken :cry:
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