And I'm staying single!!!

A friend and I are trying to hook up and arrange a threesome with a bi male. You'd think that would be fairly straightforward, or at least I did!

Can we find someone we both like? No. We have similar taste in men which I suppose is a headstart and I know for a fact that we'd have no bother finding a woman to join in but trying to find a bi male is proving difficult. I've spoken to people this afternoon with no profile details or it states that they are straight on their profile but apparently bi and just not admitting it, bi men who one or neither of us are attracted to and a load without pics or married playing away from home. Quite frankly I'm thinking my swinging on a school night has come to an end before it's started and I'm going home to watch telly!! :lol:
I don't think I've ever really appreciated how difficult it is for a couple to find a single (never mind a couple!) to play with!
Surely it shouldn't be this hard? :giggle:
Well surely it should be hard but you know what I mean! :rascal:
Having looked at it from the other side I can safely say that I love being able to please myself and meet who I want to meet and fuck and if I ever contemplate getting into another relationship I'm going to come back here and read this thread all over again to remind myself why it's much more simple being single!
I don't really want this to be a moaning thread cause I'm sure we've all read/experienced that before but I'd quite like a discussion on how it can possibly be so difficult. Are there ways we could make it easier for ourselves? How do you fulfil a fantasy when it seems we're all having the same troubles in finding people to fulfil them with us?