Cross Dressers

27 Feb 2006

Hi
A question to all those gents who are in a relationship but enjoy cross dressing. Where is the best place to buy clothes from and where the heck can you keep them to stop anyone finding them. wink

Hopefully
Maria

27 Feb 2006

Judging by the photos you already know where to locate a wardrobe.
Just don't show your face and you can be sure no one will find out your secret.
Or do you want that?

28 Feb 2006

i think hes more on about where can he hide his clothes at home to stop the Mrs finding them wink

28 Feb 2006

Get a box with a lock?
Secret compartment in the shed with a lock?
Keep them in a suitcase in the boot with a big padlock on it???
Getting the feeling it needs to be something locked yet????
How about mentioning it to your wife in a jokey way and see how she reacts, she might love it. All the better for you cos then you dont have the double life thing going onthen.
kiss

Gem. x

28 Feb 2006

Quote by JudyTV
Get a box with a lock?
Secret compartment in the shed with a lock?
Keep them in a suitcase in the boot with a big padlock on it???
Getting the feeling it needs to be something locked yet????
How about mentioning it to your wife in a jokey way and see how she reacts, she might love it. All the better for you cos then you dont have the double life thing going onthen.

Gem. x

Gem, you forgot about the compartment under the floor boards or the spare wheel compartment in the car, safe enough unless she borrows the car and has a puncture. Behind the bath panel is a fave place. The attic, a locked tool cabinet in the garage.
Now here is the ultimate safe place.
Find yourself a nice TV girlfriend and keep your stuff at her place, that way you can have your mail order cloths and makeup delivered to her address too. Before anyone asks...NO.
Jude
You worry me at times. Anyone else thinking of hiding clothes and other paraphernalia to do with crossdressing.... just ask Judy, she has plenty of room to spare in her cupboard if she cleared out all the things that she never wore anymore or didn't like.....
Actually...... sounds all too familiar! redface

28 Feb 2006

Quote by naughtynymphos1
i think hes more on about where can he hide his clothes at home to stop the Mrs finding them

Of course, he just won't lend his clothes out will he? Such a primadonna!

28 Feb 2006

Quote by JudyTV
Angela, if your out there and you see this post will you please collect all your crap from my flat, we finished over a year and a half ago bitch, so move it.
Jude

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Thanks for that one - got my first laugh of the day !
Just when you've had enough, some wit on here will brighten it up.
Thanks Judy.

28 Feb 2006

Quote by JudyTV
Get a box with a lock?
Secret compartment in the shed with a lock?
Keep them in a suitcase in the boot with a big padlock on it???
Getting the feeling it needs to be something locked yet????
How about mentioning it to your wife in a jokey way and see how she reacts, she might love it. All the better for you cos then you dont have the double life thing going onthen.

Gem. x

Gem, you forgot about the compartment under the floor boards or the spare wheel compartment in the car, safe enough unless she borrows the car and has a puncture. Behind the bath panel is a fave place. The attic, a locked tool cabinet in the garage.
Now here is the ultimate safe place.
Find yourself a nice TV girlfriend and keep your stuff at her place, that way you can have your mail order cloths and makeup delivered to her address too. Before anyone asks...NO.
Angela, if your out there and you see this post will you please collect all your crap from my flat, we finished over a year and a half ago bitch, so move it. Just kidding wink

I still love you, I just cant stand you anymore :P . You know I dont mean it.
Jude
hummm i get the feeling your writing that from experience judy lol

28 Feb 2006

Quote by JudyTV
Get a box with a lock?
Secret compartment in the shed with a lock?
Keep them in a suitcase in the boot with a big padlock on it???
Getting the feeling it needs to be something locked yet????
How about mentioning it to your wife in a jokey way and see how she reacts, she might love it. All the better for you cos then you dont have the double life thing going onthen.

Gem. x

Gem, you forgot about the compartment under the floor boards or the spare wheel compartment in the car, safe enough unless she borrows the car and has a puncture. Behind the bath panel is a fave place. The attic, a locked tool cabinet in the garage.
Now here is the ultimate safe place.
Find yourself a nice TV girlfriend and keep your stuff at her place, that way you can have your mail order cloths and makeup delivered to her address too. Before anyone asks...NO.
Angela, if your out there and you see this post will you please collect all your crap from my flat, we finished over a year and a half ago bitch, so move it. Just kidding wink

I still love you, I just cant stand you anymore :P . You know I dont mean it.
Jude
Or how about a secret cave which you gain access by sliding down a pole like in the 60's Batman Series...... lol

28 Feb 2006

Quote by JudyTV
Get a box with a lock?
Secret compartment in the shed with a lock?
Keep them in a suitcase in the boot with a big padlock on it???
Getting the feeling it needs to be something locked yet????
How about mentioning it to your wife in a jokey way and see how she reacts, she might love it. All the better for you cos then you dont have the double life thing going onthen.

Gem. x

Gem, you forgot about the compartment under the floor boards or the spare wheel compartment in the car, safe enough unless she borrows the car and has a puncture. Behind the bath panel is a fave place. The attic, a locked tool cabinet in the garage.
Now here is the ultimate safe place.
Find yourself a nice TV girlfriend and keep your stuff at her place, that way you can have your mail order cloths and makeup delivered to her address too. Before anyone asks...NO.
Angela, if your out there and you see this post will you please collect all your crap from my flat, we finished over a year and a half ago bitch, so move it. Just kidding wink

I still love you, I just cant stand you anymore :P . You know I dont mean it.
Jude
Or how about a secret cave which you gain access by sliding down a pole like in the 60's Batman Series...... lol

In this skirt ????? Honey you can not be serious :P :wink:
Jude
Well Batman never laddered his tights!....probably kept his pole lubed up! :lol:

1 Mar 2006

You mean poles come without lube??? :shock:
Omg, I've never lived!
Quick someone get me an unlubed pole before I think I'm missing out!
lol

Gem. x

1 Mar 2006

xxx

1 Mar 2006

Quote by little gem
You mean poles come without lube??? :shock:
Omg, I've never lived!
Quick someone get me an unlubed pole before I think I'm missing out!

Gem. x

you can try mine Gem, but i'm guessing it won't be unlubed for long :rascal: . especially if you do that pole dancing routine again silly

hwoar:

1 Mar 2006

XXX

2 Mar 2006

In the world of trans I've met a few, not nearly as many as Judy though, and yeah, it seems the divorce rate with the ones who's wife know... is huge. dunno

Not sure whether thats because of a number of different factors but it is certainly true.
Thats partly the reason why I said mention it in a jokey fashion.. like my boyfriend prancing around the bedroom in my knickers... did nothing for me cos he looked crap in them, but that was me asking him to prance around in my knickers, not the other way around.
To some crossdressers, it's a serious thing and nothing to be joked about and that situation would be the worse thing in their mind to do because it's making fun of a situation they find serious. The suicide rate amongst men who are in the trans scene is alarming.
I'd advise that the person writing this thread talks to some trans support groups for help, advice and support with this matter, I'm sure some links to some recommended places could be advised by someone a little more expert in this matter than me.... Judyyyyyyy! ;) lol

Quote by little gem

You mean poles come without lube???
Omg, I've never lived!
Quick someone get me an unlubed pole before I think I'm missing out!
Gem. x

you can try mine Gem, but i'm guessing it won't be unlubed for long . especially if you do that pole dancing routine again
:shock:
Do remind me of this pole dancing routine you keep mentioning!? Or is that just a little fantasy you keep dreaming up in your spare time while you're stalking me around the internet like a lustsick puppydawg? :twisted:
;)
Gem. x

2 Mar 2006

Good thread and well said to the contributers

2 Mar 2006

Quote by JudyTV

Janet Scott, president of The Beaumont Society said this of Trans People.
"We are living with a gift, its how you use that gift that is important, live your life the way you wish and hurt no one in the process"
Jude

This is a philosophy many could adopt and live by Judy, not just those in the Lesbian Gay Transexual Bisexual world, but the general population.
Harder in practice though in reality, but nice in theory. smile

For those who might think about Pming but are not sure about it cos you don't know either of us... here is a useful website link.

OOoooo, I feel all warm and fuzzy for being so darn nice for a change! lol

I think Lent is having a good effect on me this time around! biggrin

Mind, giving up chocolate was always going to end up in warfare and rising temper levels! :lol:
kiss

Gem. x

2 Mar 2006

nick em from your mum!!! she will be so shocked that nothing will be said lol

3 Mar 2006

Hmm very interesting thread,...... thanks for sharing that with us guys/gals , I feel a little bit more informed smile

3 Mar 2006

Hmm very interesting thread,...... thanks for sharing that with us guys/gals , I feel a little bit more informed smile

3 Mar 2006

Quote by little gem
Get a box with a lock?
Secret compartment in the shed with a lock?
Keep them in a suitcase in the boot with a big padlock on it???
Getting the feeling it needs to be something locked yet????
How about mentioning it to your wife in a jokey way and see how she reacts, she might love it. All the better for you cos then you dont have the double life thing going onthen.

Gem. x

Gem, you forgot about the compartment under the floor boards or the spare wheel compartment in the car, safe enough unless she borrows the car and has a puncture. Behind the bath panel is a fave place. The attic, a locked tool cabinet in the garage.
Now here is the ultimate safe place.
Find yourself a nice TV girlfriend and keep your stuff at her place, that way you can have your mail order cloths and makeup delivered to her address too. Before anyone asks...NO.
Jude
You worry me at times. Anyone else thinking of hiding clothes and other paraphernalia to do with crossdressing.... just ask Judy, she has plenty of room to spare in her cupboard if she cleared out all the things that she never wore anymore or didn't like.....
Actually...... sounds all too familiar! redface

fancy seeing you two in 'ere? lol

:P
erm . . . . silkymaria? i find a carrier bag at the back of the wardrobe is as good a place as any, but then a certain person insists on shopping for me when she's out? 3 pairs o' knicks for a fiver, at least one of 'em's got me name on it! confused

ops: :lol: :P
neil x x x ;)

3 Mar 2006

Quote by neilinleeds

Gem, you forgot about the compartment under the floor boards or the spare wheel compartment in the car, safe enough unless she borrows the car and has a puncture. Behind the bath panel is a fave place. The attic, a locked tool cabinet in the garage.
Now here is the ultimate safe place.
Find yourself a nice TV girlfriend and keep your stuff at her place, that way you can have your mail order cloths and makeup delivered to her address too. Before anyone asks...NO.
Jude

You worry me at times. Anyone else thinking of hiding clothes and other paraphernalia to do with crossdressing.... just ask Judy, she has plenty of room to spare in her cupboard if she cleared out all the things that she never wore anymore or didn't like.....
Actually...... sounds all too familiar! redface

fancy seeing you two in 'ere? lol

:P Likewise! ;) :lol:
erm . . . . silkymaria? i find a carrier bag at the back of the wardrobe is as good a place as any, but then a certain person insists on shopping for me when she's out? 3 pairs o' knicks for a fiver, at least one of 'em's got me name on it! confused

ops: :lol: :P
neil x x x ;)
Well, now that you're here, the tranny set is almost complete! biggrin

:lol: ;)
Last time you get a grogeous pair of frillies.... I'll send them all to eagerslut instead!
<pah>
And theyre designer too. rolleyes

Never heard a complaint out of you before Neil ;) :P Oh except for the pink ones which didn't really suit you, but the white ones look great on you with that basque and sussies... oh and remember that gorgous lilac number you fell in love with? :P Still wanna play confessionals neil? Hmmmm? Do ya? :rascal:
Cover him in marmite and throw him to the lesbians! :lol: My job here is done! ;)
kiss

Gem. x

4 Mar 2006

Hi to all that contributed. Some of the suggestions were very funny, thanks for the laugh. On the serious side, thank you to those for the great advice and consideration when replying. In reality this is a difficult place to be in, but made easier to know that others are out there who feel the same and have great experience to us that are just starting out on this road.
Thanks
xx