I am fully shaven and dress fully as a female but it isn’t as a turn on, it’s because I’ve always wanted to be a woman. My wife is aware and very supportive and helps me buy my clothes and make up. I always wear a silky nighty in bed,which she doesn’t particularly like but accepts. She always buys me a new nighty and negligée for Christmas. When we were younger we used to have “girls” days and nights out.
The down side is, although we love each other very much she has no interest in me sexually as she says she can’t feel turned on by me. She says it is like doing it with a woman and turns her off. Consequently, we haven’t had sex for years. We are like best girl friends or sisters. I have tried to persuade her to have an affair, but she says she isn’t interested and has lost interest in sex. She does help me have wanks occasionally and I love her to tease me about her having a lover, but I can’t seem to persuade her to do it for real. I would love to be dressed as a woman and welcome her lover into our home to have sex with her. It would be suitable punishment for me being transgender.