In general men will have sex with any available ladies and enjoy the experience. Women however even when encouraged by their partners balk at the opportunity. However those ladies who cross the great divide find it enjoyable and are keen to repeat the experience . I ask ladies out there who have been persuaded by their partners to cross the divide what persuaded them and what they thoughts are now about their previous reluctance.
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Crossing the boundary
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Quote by St1Ch2
Women however even when encouraged by their partners balk at the opportunity.
Quite a sweeping statement you are making there!! What is it that makes you think that women need to be persuaded by their partners and not sometimes the other way around?
I sense that you are trying to 'encourage' your partner to play and she doesn't want to?
My husband had been trying to convince me to, my reluctance was brought on by a stupid mistake he made years ago after us having some drunken fun with a friend (they started txting to arrange another group meet I would have been up for it but he should have been plotting with me not her, i suspected they had been in touch but he denied it, then admitted it later the same day, but by that point he had broken my trust, why lie to me about something like that, when the night before I had watched & encouraged her blow him & told them both it was ok to take things further when he walked her home)
Anyway, as much as it annoyed me about the txts, even the same day I still found the thought of the 3 of us together hot and we had amazing sex talking about it, over the years its been discussed many times, we went through a spell where I was chatting to guys with a view to a meet with his consent, but then id get the odd comment that made me feel he wasnt quite as cool with it as he claimed
Finally about 3yrs after we started talking about it we agreed about 2 weeks ago to start playing, in the last 7 days we have each met with someone solo and last night we had our first married 3some
I was the first one to take the plunge, last Thursday and I honestly am shocked to say how much closer it has brought us, we have shared fantasies we had never dared reveal, we shared secrets from our past that we haven't previously shared, each just makes us want the other more, fair enough its early days but we have gone from having sex a couple of times a month to a couple of times a day, so I couldn't be happier, long may it last
