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Cyndi Lauper must have been a swinger...

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Have you honestly not ever considered that some couples do actually just want to swap with other couples?
Just a thought.
My thoughts exactly Nola! Besides which, if they're on a swinging site and presumably meeting people, she's hardly being hidden away from the rest of the world is she? ;)
You don't really need lessons in the dynamics of swinging do you? Or does it genuinely have to be pointed out that a lot of couples are here to satisfy the female's bi curiosity.
I guess it's also escaped your notice that there are a vast number of couples who actually are actively seeking single males though, otherwise you wouldn't be in here whining about the ones who aren't rolleyes
Quote by Truescorpio
My thoughts exactly Nola! Besides which, if they're on a swinging site and presumably meeting people, she's hardly being hidden away from the rest of the world is she? ;)

The implication of the line is about keeping them to themselves for fear of losing them - of course, he's happy to share her around as long as he gets something out of it wink
Ah ok, now I understand. :idea: It's all about what the male wants. OK, I get it now, thanks
rolleyes
he's fishing again...... stop feeding the troll.... anything for attention
Quote by fabio
he's fishing again...... stop feeding the troll.... anything for attention

rotflmao
dunno We're a couple, we generally don't meet single males, the reasons are thus;
Many single males aren't bi-friendly, they are too scared that the male will want attention too (and why shouldn't they?)
Many single males are only in it for themselves, they care little about the couple and their needs.
Many single males come across as so desperate, you know bumping their own ads and posts, making their ego sound bigger than it needs to be, that it actually becomes tiresome and therefore my point above comes back into play!
Many single males just whinge about how little sex they get! It's all about preference at the end of the day and many people's preference is not single males.
Stop the whinging and putting down of other people, join in with the fun and put more in!
Troll alert.....Troll alert...
Move along now.... Nothing to see here..... Keep moving.... cheers!!!!
Gosh, I just did a search of couples looking for single males, and look what it came up with :shock:
Your search returned thousands of results, here are the first 1000 profiles

Funny that. I was getting the impression that couples must only be looking for single females! Perhaps some single males are being turned down for reasons other than the fact that they're single males wink
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The last girl I met said the same to me, but I told her I didn't want to hurt her cool

"Hanna" and her 5 sisters by any chance????????? lol
Quote by fabio
Troll alert.....Troll alert...
Move along now.... Nothing to see here..... Keep moving.... cheers!!!!

:giggle:
Will you listen to yourself?
No wonder couples won't meet if you are insulting the male so badly, mate it's the males that you need to win over if you want the missus!
Most swinging couples are very secure in their relationships (hence swinging), they just don't want tossers upsetting their partners!
You've been here a week, insulted BBW's, made up some crackpot stereotype single male swinger, moaned that couples won't let you in the door and have manners of a tosser!
The reality is that you have to be here and get known, join in the posts instead of being the centre of attention, attend the socials, get known in the chatrooms, have an ad that doesn't alienate half the site and then, then you'll find that people are making arrangements that include you!
But of course, what would I know? I've only been here over 4 years, attended loads of socials, been in the chatrooms, a bit of posting on the forum, made some good friends and seen other single males, like you, try the same approach, didn't work then either ;)
Need any help getting out of the hole you've dug for yourself here?

Cabbagey smelling harridans? Way to endear yourself to the swinging couples in the vicinity rolleyes
angel...... how do you do the picture thing.... cause i have the perfect one for this thread!!!!!!
It needs to be on a web page. Then you can use Right click > copy image location.
Then, in your thread, click the IMG thing up there and then right click > paste to put the image text in.
Quote by Truescorpio
Did you count the number of Cabbagey smelling Haridans in said couples that came up also Angel? wink
I made a point earlier of saying that the better looking a woman in a couple is, the LESS likely the male half is to want another male in the bed - and it comes down to the male inferiority complex.

what a load of old shit...
hmmmmmm..........................
now I'm in form......
do not feed this.......
OK, I admit it. I was wrong. I thought Fabio was going to post this one.

:giggle: :lol2:
Quote by Truescorpio

No wonder couples won't meet if you are insulting the male so badly, mate it's the males that you need to win over if you want the missus!

You seem to be under the impression I take these shots because couples rebuff me? In actual fact its only on a very, very rare occasion I even consider couples, and the last time was long ago.

So why single them out for a post that's just making you look bad?
I might not be a single male, but that doesn't mean I don't play as a single, have lots of single male friends and that I haven't played with single males.
I'm also very observant ;)
Quote by Truescorpio
Did you count the number of Cabbagey smelling Haridans in said couples that came up also Angel? wink
I made a point earlier of saying that the better looking a woman in a couple is, the LESS likely the male half is to want another male in the bed - and it comes down to the male inferiority complex.

True we are a couple and neither are bi we have only met single guys. I have met a couple of guys now, and I didn't have to put a bag over my head. But then I guess they were not shallow, conceited, ignorant, egotists nor selfish. Might be why we met them.
angel... I actually changed my mind........ these were the ones I was going to post
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Fabio, for someone who would clearly like to see this thread sink without a trace, you like making contributions to keep it afloat dont you?
You've posted 7 times so far, want to dignify me with an 8th?

why not!!!..... If I could get away with a pictute of someones head up there own arse I would right about now....
good enough for ya?....
oooh... actually bought got you a pressie.... just so you can look at the person you seem to love the most...
Anyway, I'm slightly intrigued as to what your definition of a "cabbagey smelling harridan" is, and how you'd spot one online, because I'm assuming the first part has something to do with personal hygiene issues confused
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No wonder couples won't meet if you are insulting the male so badly, mate it's the males that you need to win over if you want the missus!

You seem to be under the impression I take these shots because couples rebuff me? In actual fact its only on a very, very rare occasion I even consider couples, and the last time was long ago.
However, I can remember a good few occasions in the past where I have gotten very friendly with the female halves of couples (just through friendly chatting without any flirting) where they have confessed to me later on that they would LOVE to play with me only hubby wont let them meet single males even though women are fine (because wifey can play with her too, and that makes it 'fair' apparently).
Quote by Calista
Most swinging couples are very secure in their relationships (hence swinging), they just don't want tossers upsetting their partners!

I'm sure many are, though I could tell you some stories...
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You've been here a week, insulted BBW's, made up some crackpot stereotype single male swinger, moaned that couples won't let you in the door and have manners of a tosser!

I dont recall INSULTING, any BBWs, on my profile it makes clear (in the politest way possible) that I have no interest in them, although I'm sure what counts as preference and discimination is different for single males is it?
Quote by Calista
The reality is that you have to be here and get known, join in the posts instead of being the centre of attention, attend the socials, get known in the chatrooms, have an ad that doesn't alienate half the site and then, then you'll find that people are making arrangements that include you!

Trying to teach grandma how to suck eggs here sweetie x
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But of course, what would I know? I've only been here over 4 years, attended loads of socials, been in the chatrooms, a bit of posting on the forum, made some good friends and seen other single males, like you, tr the same approach, didn't work then either ;)

Have you ever been a single male during these four years?
Thought not x
Now where have I seen this posting style before? :undecided:
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Quote by Angel Chat
You don't really need lessons in the dynamics of swinging do you? Or does it genuinely have to be pointed out that a lot of couples are here to satisfy the female's bi curiosity.

Well as Cyndi says "time after time", "girl's just want to have fun ..."
I'll get my coat bolt