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Dating a cuckold man
Quote by winchwenchYou know I have never considered it 'cuckold' W going of to play. I simply consider her to be as free as I am. So yes please in knowing she can have fun away from me, but no pain.
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For the cuckhold male- , the "torture" of knowing his wife/oh is going to be with someone else is the ultimate pleasure/pain trip. :thumbup:
Like you said winch, it is different for everyone.
I think the "cuckhold" element rests on there being pain with the pleasure though, T. I wouldn't consider you a cuckhold either.
Mr W does get a little jealous- but it's jealousy tinged with excitement (otherwise it wouldn't happen) so I'd consider him to be mildly cuckhold. In some way, the pain enhances the pleasure, and in some more "extreme" relationships humiliation becomes part of the fantasy.
Kent wrote:
Could not have put that better myself Winch.
Obviously.
You're a bloke!
:giggle:
And a very nice one too, may I add.
Casanova
Well it's been a week since I met this guy and I seem to be turning into an evil bitch. He says I'm a natural. This concerns me slightly as I always thought I was nice, but I guess I am going by his reaction, which eggs on the next comment.
He I would say at this point is the real McCoy, but of course we will see for sure as time goes by.
He I would say at this point is the real McCoy, but of course we will see for sure as time goes by.
Sex God
Quote by venus68
Well it's been a week since I met this guy and I seem to be turning into an evil bitch. He says I'm a natural. This concerns me slightly as I always thought I was nice, but I guess I am going by his reaction, which eggs on the next comment.
He I would say at this point is the real McCoy, but of course we will see for sure as time goes by.
Now I made a bit of a daft comment on page one, which was quite rightly ignored (not too good at the light-hearted stuff at the mo'). But reading this and your original post, Venus, I am a bit confused.
In my book a cuckold is the husband of an adulteress. Historically that was assumed to be an unwitting husband but in modern sexual play terms then the husband induces the situation, presumably to get some thrill out of seeing his wife/partner being fucked by another man/woman.
You allude to a threesome but other references seem to relate more to a dom/sub type of activity.
I guess there are a lot of swingers, who are closet cuckolds - so I'm not sure whether I've got the significance of your question, which fascinates me.
Is it that you are placing it in context of your seeking a vanilla relationship?
I'm not having a dig here. It has been gnawing at me each time I see the thread.
Anyway, whatever it is you're seeking good luck.
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Quote by winchwench
Mr W does get a little jealous- but it's jealousy tinged with excitement (otherwise it wouldn't happen) so I'd consider him to be mildly cuckhold. In some way, the pain enhances the pleasure, and in some more "extreme" relationships humiliation becomes part of the fantasy.
Jealous or envy?
When my FWB (we are both single) has an arrangement with someone else, knowing she is off being naughty, knowing she with someone else has me thinking non stop about what they are up to, how that other person gets to see what I see, and it gets me turned on, it also has me worried.
"Is it going well for her?"
"Is she ok?"
"Is it something she would like to do again?"
I don't always get to know what goes on, or even if she is meeting someone, after all, as I have said, we are both single, what she does outside of what we do has nothing to do with me, but when I get to hear of experiences, whether before or after she has met me, whether I had prior knowledge or not, I enjoy what I am hearing, because someone who turns me on so much, is appealing to a side of me that no other can, and the bottom line is "my (not literally) woman is out being naughty with someone"
