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Well that made me say - Stuff that made ya say "Fuck me!!!, Really?" lol
Somehow i imagine a bunch of old duffers in some club armchairs looking up over their Daily Telegraph and saying:
'I say that fellow Flower411 has finally thrown in the towel'
much harrumphing follows and an order for a fresh round of scotch.
I kind of concur Flower but then like us you cant be getting anything from the rest of the site?
Do we ever get a meet from here: No
With the exception of last years munch do we ever get worthwhile numbers at events we try to host: No
This is basically to me a forum and I say me as Mrs Tweeky has no interest here at all. Must say it was dead for a time but seems to have picked up a bit over the last week or so dunno Thats just how I treat this now as a forum, it has little relation to swinging in my mind. Just a forum where people talk about dirty stuff once in a while lol
I have thought about bogging off! but I never do it. I'll keep thinking about it for now :lol: As I have said before if there are people that find the idea of posting the word cat because the word dog was posted before as an interesting subject then let them get on with it. As is said .... Simple minds .....
Have a good one
Quote by Mr-Powers
Can we have Kenty back now then?

Kentie, Kentie, Kentie, OI! OI! OI!
I find it hard to believe that anyone could take such offence to threads that they refuse to post in the forum instead of just ignoring that such threads are there!!
I did used to post in the JFF forum but soon got bored of them. I just scroll down past the threads now. I really dont see what the issue is dunno The forum is here for everyone to use and some people obviously still enjoy these threads, if they didn't the threads would have died a death a long time ago.
is this going to be won of the famos swinging heven flounce things that I have been told about?
where someone leves and then comes back in about a weeks time?innocent
Quote by starlightcouple
is this going to be won of the famos swinging heven flounce things that I have been told about?
where someone leves and then comes back in about a weeks time?innocent

Hope not :giggle:
Quote by woohoo
is this going to be won of the famos swinging heven flounce things that I have been told about?
where someone leves and then comes back in about a weeks time?innocent

Hope not :giggle:
funny as you are not the first persen to say that to me today. i was told to go over the forum pages of many a yeer to find out why. cant be bothered with that i said.
Quote by Mr-Powers
Can we have Kenty back now then?

:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:
First and foremost, sorry to see you leave what you believe to be your kingdom.
I've always enjoyed, giggled at you forum posts, but I guess that there comes a time when you realise, take a step back.
Now for my rant:
" Dullards "
" dullard idiot moron stupid dolt fool dummy retard dunce dumbass bore simpleton doofus imbecile dipshit boring ignorant drone "
What an offensive way to describe fellow forumites, just because their tastes of posts does not fit into your style of topic posts!
I'm not having a pop at you here, just stating the obvious, as sites progress, new people join - fresh blood, opinions etc..
I hope you'll come back to the forums, I for one will miss your posts.
Paddy
Quote by flower411
OK ...that`s it ...
Having been knighted as "thread starter" and having totally failed in the mission to remove the dullards threads....I`m off to pastures new ...
Don`t get excited lol I`ll not do anything stupid like cancel me account rolleyes
But I can`t be bothered with trying to fight the obvious determination of a few people to keep this forum dull.
Nice to see that with obvious help from tweeky and many others that some dullards threads got pushed so far away that they got locked before a dullard managed to resurrect them .....
Unfortunately, some dullards spotted what had happened and have kept the last remaining ones alive.
Long live the dullards
RIP Swinging Heaven forums
Should I stay or should I go? - The Clash

Sorry couldn't resist!! :happy:
Don't worry, he'll be back when he's gathered in the hay....
Maybe he feels the need to harangue more members to leave the site through one way or another has been sated for now, or maybe his care in the community order has come through and he's now at large on the streets of Britain.:scared:
wave flower :moon:
Quote by amatuerman
First and foremost, sorry to see you leave what you believe to be your kingdom.
I've always enjoyed, giggled at you forum posts, but I guess that there comes a time when you realise, take a step back.
Now for my rant:
" Dullards "
" dullard idiot moron stupid dolt fool dummy retard dunce dumbass bore simpleton doofus imbecile dipshit boring ignorant drone "
What an offensive way to describe fellow forumites, just because their tastes of posts does not fit into your style of topic posts!
I'm not having a pop at you here, just stating the obvious, as sites progress, new people join - fresh blood, opinions etc..
I hope you'll come back to the forums, I for one will miss your posts.
Paddy

I agree, igonre the posts simple as. Though I still think as I have said many times that having one word threads at the top of a forum on an almost daily basis brings the fourm down and makes it look thick/dullard. If I were to open a forum and see this on the first time I looked I would think what a bunch or bored facebook living arseholes use that forum and not bother to come back for a second time. So I am glad when I arrived here many moons ago those kinds of threads did not exist
Quote by tweeky
First and foremost, sorry to see you leave what you believe to be your kingdom.
I've always enjoyed, giggled at you forum posts, but I guess that there comes a time when you realise, take a step back.
Now for my rant:
" Dullards "
" dullard idiot moron stupid dolt fool dummy retard dunce dumbass bore simpleton doofus imbecile dipshit boring ignorant drone "
What an offensive way to describe fellow forumites, just because their tastes of posts does not fit into your style of topic posts!
I'm not having a pop at you here, just stating the obvious, as sites progress, new people join - fresh blood, opinions etc..
I hope you'll come back to the forums, I for one will miss your posts.
Paddy

I agree, igonre the posts simple as. Though I still think as I have said many times that having one word threads at the top of a forum on an almost daily basis brings the fourm down and makes it look thick/dullard. If I were to open a forum and see this on the first time I looked I would think what a bunch or bored facebook living arseholesuse that forum and not bother to come back for a second time. So I am glad when I arrived here many moons ago those kinds of threads did not existAhh so that's what people do on Farcebook lol I've always wondered?!
Quote by SinSi
First and foremost, sorry to see you leave what you believe to be your kingdom.
I've always enjoyed, giggled at you forum posts, but I guess that there comes a time when you realise, take a step back.
Now for my rant:
" Dullards "
" dullard idiot moron stupid dolt fool dummy retard dunce dumbass bore simpleton doofus imbecile dipshit boring ignorant drone "
What an offensive way to describe fellow forumites, just because their tastes of posts does not fit into your style of topic posts!
I'm not having a pop at you here, just stating the obvious, as sites progress, new people join - fresh blood, opinions etc..
I hope you'll come back to the forums, I for one will miss your posts.
Paddy

I agree, igonre the posts simple as. Though I still think as I have said many times that having one word threads at the top of a forum on an almost daily basis brings the fourm down and makes it look thick/dullard. If I were to open a forum and see this on the first time I looked I would think what a bunch or bored facebook living arseholesuse that forum and not bother to come back for a second time. So I am glad when I arrived here many moons ago those kinds of threads did not existAhh so that's what people do on Farcebook lol I've always wondered?!
Its totally pointless 99% of the time. Trust me, you would love it!
Seriously though, any attempt at "firing up" a thread seems to end up - particularly in the CA Forum - in tears and threats of a life ban (although, thankfully, that hasn't happened in a while, SFAIK).
There have been some impassioned threads in the past which have been really enjoying to watch develop and contributors like kenty, whilst always sailing particularly close to the wind, often with his tongue in cheek, were dealt blows by the "dullards" intent on making the place as boring and as PC as possible.
Even Markz no longer punctuates the end of his postings (which are sadly rare these days) with his trademark rolleyes
I enjoy being a contributor to the JFF type threads. The Word Association game introduced by Theladyisaminx (in March 2009) continues to run and is probably the longest running thread on SH and no amount of "dumbing down" by the anti-dullard faction of SH will prevent me from making a contribution. If you take a moment to look at some of the responses rather than just castigate people for single word posts, you will occasionally see a certain subtlety in the development of the sub-thread. Indeed, there are occasions where I mischievously post the next word with a view to who the likely responder will be. Doesn't always happen, but its there Just For Fun, all the same wink
In the meantime, I will continue to generate thought provoking and "near to the knuckle" threads in the CA Forum and whilst I miss the contribution of some of the more passionate posters of the past, at least we tend to be nice to each other now and smile sweetly as we stick the knife in :grin:
after reeding some of the comments on here i was just wondering if the person who started this thread is in fact a dullard himself?
after seeing some of the coments this poster has made over many a year, will the forum be a better place without him i wonder?
what does SFAIK meen?
Quote by starlightcouple
what does SFAIK meen?

So Far As I Know
Quote by woohoo
what does SFAIK meen?

So Far As I Know
OOOO... I thought it was Shag Fooking Arses In Kilts up there in Bonnie Scootland....
Ahem. But that was another so called "dullard" game in the JFF thread, wasn't it :lol2:
bolt
Quote by GnV
I enjoy being a contributor to the JFF type threads. The Word Association game introduced by Theladyisaminx (in March 2009) continues to run and is probably the longest running thread on SH

Very sadly this is probably true. But dont try to write it like an achievement FFS. This is a standard thread from one million internet forums that was probably just coppied and pasted from elsewhere. Could have been started by anyone including my 7 year old daughter.
Ill try my best to subtly (that is spelt right but looks soooooo wrong biggrin) undermine the spirit of the dullards - not done the forums here much - for good or bad thats gonna change now!
Quote by tweeky
This is basically to me a forum and I say me as Mrs Tweeky has no interest here at all.

Awww - at least the profile pic is still her!! and gawjus too! wink
Quote by tweeky

I enjoy being a contributor to the JFF type threads. The Word Association game introduced by Theladyisaminx (in March 2009) continues to run and is probably the longest running thread on SH

Very sadly this is probably true. But dont try to write it like an achievement FFS. This is a standard thread from one million internet forums that was probably just coppied and pasted from elsewhere. Could have been started by anyone including my 7 year old daughter.
On SH :shock:
Quote by GnV

I enjoy being a contributor to the JFF type threads. The Word Association game introduced by Theladyisaminx (in March 2009) continues to run and is probably the longest running thread on SH

Very sadly this is probably true. But dont try to write it like an achievement FFS. This is a standard thread from one million internet forums that was probably just coppied and pasted from elsewhere. Could have been started by anyone including my 7 year old daughter.
On SH :shock:
wink
Quote by Mr-Powers
Can we have Kenty back now then?

I vote for this one, personally, I always enjoyed Kentys well balanced views and threads
Quote by Bluefish2009
Can we have Kenty back now then?

I vote for this one, personally, I always enjoyed Kentys well balanced views and threads
I enjoyed them too but balanced! Kenty was never balanced lol Always controversial never dull and certainly missed.
Actually I think if Kenty reads this from the outside I'm sure he'll be chuffed that a flower leaving thread turned into a shame Kenty went one. There's an irony in there somewhere :lol:
Quote by Lost
Can we have Kenty back now then?

I vote for this one, personally, I always enjoyed Kentys well balanced views and threads
I enjoyed them too but balanced! Kenty was never balanced lol Always controversial never dull and certainly missed.
Actually I think if Kenty reads this from the outside I'm sure he'll be chuffed that a flower leaving thread turned into a shame Kenty went one. There's an irony in there somewhere :lol:

i liked kenty too i thought at times he kept the forum alive
its funny that those whom tried hardest to get him banned have since left dont you think innocent
Quote by Lizaleanrob
Can we have Kenty back now then?

I vote for this one, personally, I always enjoyed Kentys well balanced views and threads
I enjoyed them too but balanced! Kenty was never balanced lol Always controversial never dull and certainly missed.
Actually I think if Kenty reads this from the outside I'm sure he'll be chuffed that a flower leaving thread turned into a shame Kenty went one. There's an irony in there somewhere :lol:

i liked kenty too i thought at times he kept the forum alive
its funny that those whom tried hardest to get him banned have since left dont you think innocent
My tongue was firmly in cheek as I wrote the word "ballanced"
Certainly missed :thumbup:
Kenty was a cunt!......But he was our cunt!