Define a BBW!

23 Nov 2005

Well, folk will just have to meet me at socials and munches and say it to my face then!!
(a) I take crap pics of myself (b) I cant do face pics due to morality claus and my line of work (c) it doesnt matter what angle I do a non-facial pic cos I have identifiable tattoos!
so, the label serves its purpose, I like it, it's me. I am a BBW. anyone have a loudspeaker?? lol

23 Nov 2005

oh FFS just typed this whole thing and my computer crashed!
i am pleased to see that we have got to the stage of admitting that all people who are fat (oooh sorry i meant big lol

:lol: :lol: ) are not attractive?
in fact we are coming close to conceding that some of them/us are down right mingers.
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh just like the general population then :twisted:
i am certainly big (well i ripple in all the right places anyway lol),
i am most definately a woman
and yeah i reckon i am the right side of beautifull
(where is the"smug" emote when you need it??).
however i am beautiful because i am, not because i am big.
i would be just as beautifull if i was a size 8.
anyway.
if this is the case surely it is time to come up with a phrase that people are happy to call themselves to point out that they are large, but does not
a) lie about the person using it (in the case of said minger)
and
b) does not demean anyone else who may assume that it suggests that anyone under a size 16 is not in the running.
like i said i would settle on fat.. but am happy to take suggestions. :lol:
personally someone who called them selves a BBW lover and claimed that they love all women over a certain size or suchlike would automatically be a no no for me.
they must be sooooo unselective if they have no criteria beyond a certain arse width and thigh span!
my partner fancies me because i am me! the people i meet for sex fancy me because i am me, NOT because i match the combined weight of two baby elephants and a lead balloon! rolleyes

fair enough, because i am big , by some peoples definition they must be BBW lovers but no... its THIS big woman they love.. not all of them!
i would prefer to call them "me"- lovers! wink

just cos they fancy this lardy arse is does not mean for one second that someone with an eaqually voluptuous bottom is going to stir them in the same way.
likewise i would not pressume i was able to snatch a BBW's date from under her nose just cos i am big too!
personally i would prefer to be an individual person, not in the same category as millions of other people who are nothing like me and share nothing but where the dial on the bathroom scales lies!
to suggest that women who call themselves BBW are more confident is a fallacy, i would actually suggest that people who were TRUELLY happy with themselves do not NEED to wrap it up in anything to be honest.
it also gets to me that men who put up posts saying "no woman over a size 14" or something like that get grief for staing their preference.
if it is ok for people to only be attracted to women over a certain size then its ok for it to work in the reverse.
i am not actually knocking anyones decision to call themselves a BBW, however due to the overuse and missuse of it, as a descriptive term its about as usefull as a chocolate firegaurd!
on that point WBB (well busty babe ) wobbles off to work.
xxxxxxxxxxxx

23 Nov 2005

Excellent post WBB :thumbup:
You are a beautiful young lady woman but more importantly, you have a most amazing personality and sense of humour kiss

6 Dec 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
I consider myself to be on the larger side.
I don't label myself as a BBW - because I'm not beautiful and I don't want to draw attention to the fact that I'm a larger woman.
I'd rather not label myself. Yes I have confidence issues and some of them are partly to do with my weight but I wouldn't like to be labelled in any way whatsoever.
I think if people are happy to use the term BBW then that's up to them - but just because you're big, it doesn't make you beautiful, same as just because you're slim, you're not necessarily beautiful.

i know all i've got to see is your avatar - but it does look gorgeous. i suspect youre doing yourself down more than a bit....

6 Dec 2005

BBW... hummm I thought that was something the Americans invented to make themselves feel better about eating too many McDonalds.
It's yet another label.. god save us from labels!! You are who you are big, small, tall, short, gay or straight... who cares life's too short.
You get on with people because of who they are not what they are.
M.b.

7 Dec 2005

:shock: :shock: :shock:
who the feck pulled this post back up? :taz:
Darkfires gunna kill ya :lol2:

7 Dec 2005

Just to chuck in our four-pennorth:
Heather does not feel comfortable with 'BBW'. She and I are who we are and we're not interested in being defined by some abstract label.
However, when we are contacted by folks who might want to play I always make sure they're aware she is a larger jolly lass and that I'm an ageing hippy with an ordinary sized 'ampton - that way no-one gets the wrong idea up-front. So, in those circumstances a label is a help, even though we actually avoid using it.
I wonder what set of initials describes a cheeful medium-hung 50-something with his own teeth and hair.
Our ad is 445727 and we're always keen to meet new friends in party, group, dogging and good old foursome situations.
Best wishes to those we know.
Have fun all
Terry

7 Dec 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
:shock: :shock: :shock:
who the feck pulled this post back up? :taz:
Darkfires gunna kill ya :lol2:

Sorry ... that was me redface

7 Dec 2005

Not sure if I will be jumped on for saying this but I am gonna say it anyway
I have met some very big women who are gorgeous and I have met some who arent
I have met some very little women who are gorgeous and I have met some who arent
I dont believe that just coz you are big makes you beautiful and I dont believe that just coz u r small makes you beautiful .
I think its more about the person you are .................
Yep ......... I know................. time to return to the naughty step
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

7 Dec 2005

WooHoo!!! ........ I get the chance to post a link to my fave parody of the Backstreet Boys again!!! ....................
>>>>> click here for "I want it that way" parody <<<<<
Steve

7 Dec 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
:shock: :shock: :shock:
who the feck pulled this post back up? :taz:
Darkfires gunna kill ya :lol2:

this is me, in 'restrained' mode :arrow: ...........................
rotflmao