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Sex God
I would class you as more, well, Amazon cool
You certainly had me at your feet Derby
Personally nope your not a bbw....your just a bw lol......i know im glassed as a bbw cause im a size 20 5"2 and a 40 d so most men and women would say im "large"....i feel it at time but i dont care i was a size 10 5 years ago and i love being who i am now....sod everyone else im happy with what i have i warm all winter :P ....the only bloody thing is the price of clothes..... rolleyes
Orgasminator
I'd say your a BBW when you truly feel like one- a Big Beautiful woman!
So can I have a feel?... lol
the beautiful has nothing to do with your looks really its just a tearm used by men (mostly) who think big IS beautiful, don't mean your pretty lol
i would say at 5ft8 and a size 14/16 your not a BBW, but everyones idea is diffarent as you say, i'm a size 18 and far to big for most on here but when i used to go on the BBW sites was told i wasn't big enough to be a BBW confused so you go figure :lol:
Orgasminator
Hi Jane - it sounds like in your case BBW should mean Big Breasted Woman!!
Difficult to say - not being an expert - but from experience your size in my book does not label you a BBW - but then who is to say!!??
Jane, in my opinion BBW stands for big breasted women, as for the beautiful bit, that's in the eye of the beholder, I have seen women that classed themselves as bbw that were not beautiful, at least not to me and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I personally, having met you wink; would not call you big.
Does that help?
Chris
passionkiss should I have asked for another? :twisted:
I think personally BBW means nothing more that over weight, to me its just a 'nice' name thats used as many people don't like the word fat, does not actually mean your beatiful, when someomes says they a BBW we don't honestly expect them to be stunning looking just big.
Sex God
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I think personally BBW means nothing more that over weight, to me its just a 'nice' name thats used as many people don't like the word fat, does not actually mean your beatiful, when someomes says they a BBW we don't honestly expect them to be stunning looking just big.

I think it has become a generic term as well.
I always refer judgement until I meet someone, when they say they are BBW.
Large, small or inbetween, doesn't really matter, it's the person.
I have to say that because of lack of head hair and age - but it is true
and where's my kiss Jane confused:
I'll get to meet you at Wigan, NN
I've always thought the term has strong feminist implications, it's a statement not just about size, but about beauty. To announce yourself as a BBW says more about your rejection society's portrayal of beauty as something only posessed by stick-thin models than about your size.
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I'll get to meet you at Wigan, NN

i'll be the quiet fat women in the corner lol
Warming the Bed
My hubby loves bigger women but never refers as BBW not sure if its a horrible thing or what suppose it depends on how the person wants to be referred too.
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My hubby loves bigger women but never refers as BBW not sure if its a horrible thing or what suppose it depends on how the person wants to be referred too.

thats true, personally its not a tearm i care for, i'm a call a spade a spade type person, if your fat say your fat :lol2:
i want people to like or dislike me for me not a label wink
Sorry to get right down to it but if yer bum's anything to go by - I'll settle fer the second B - beautiful.
Warming the Bed
As a newbie on here I was wondering what the term meant. I had in my mind from some of the pictures in the adverts that it could be big bouncy woman, perhaps not what a lass might say about herself, then I settled on bubbly big woman, or big bubbly woman.
Can I say that my wife is size 18/20 and I love every fraction of every inch of her and wouldn't want her to lose any weight, if she wanted too, then so be it. I really like larger women, large boobs, tummy bottom, she says I have a pregnancy fetish, whatever. I don't find size 8/10/12 attractive at all, sorry ladies.
Well i dont really care im fat so :P but then i dont really care what other people think now...im me and thats what your going to get.....
Abit like u NN u what u see is what u get
Sex God
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Is that Sophie Dahl?

Well, she can dahl my number anytime :lol2:
Orgasminator
I really don't understand why women should be thin/average to be considered beautiful. To me, if a woman would be attractive as a thin person, then I'd still find her attractive as a cuddly female too.
Actually I kind of like women being anywhere between a size 12-16.
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I think personally BBW means nothing more that over weight, to me its just a 'nice' name thats used as many people don't like the word fat, does not actually mean your beatiful, when someomes says they a BBW we don't honestly expect them to be stunning looking just big.

Hi, I'm Darkfire and I'm fat.
or Hi, I'm Fat, Frumpy and have an ass like the back end of a double decker bus
or Hi, I'm a BBW - which means I eat too much, dont do enough excerise but can shag like the best of em....
kinda doesnt have the same ring to it does it? lol
I use "BBW" cos it means any of the above, and being big, i'm obviously a lazy cow ( rolleyes) and its just easier to type BBW than any of the above, so at least folk know what to expect when they meet me! I dont use it cos I think I'm beautiful etc etc - its for convenience! and really, what you see is what you get - if others dont like fat, that's cool, as with anything on SH, its each to their own, I use "BBW" to say 'dont be expecting a size 10'. But yeah, I agree, I dont like using the word 'fat' either!
and NN, I hate the way you keep referring to yourself as 'big' and 'overweight' and 'fat' and 'too big for most people on here' etc etc, cos quite frankly I think you're lovely! biggrin, I know you're gonna argue that 'well its true' ' i tell it like it is' and all that - but you dont half put yourself down unnecessarily sometimes.
Sex God
I don't care, I'm a fat arsed cow :lol2:
NN where's the fat girls corner dunno
Sex God
If you think you're beautiful, fine, but why tell anyone else? Do big beautiful women think nobody will know they're beautiful unless they tell us? Or do they think the label will cause us to change our mind if we don't think they're beautiful?
Is it political correctness? Is it thought policing? Or is it just a label people feel they have to use because everyone else does? I think it's any or all of those depending on who says it and how they mean it, and it used to bug the hell out of me, but I don't mind anymore, I can ignore it because I realise I'm quite capable of knowing you're beautiful without you having to tell me. smile
Ice
I'm with Ice on this one!
I consider I am overweight but I would never use the label BBW.
In fact I would not use any labels - unless I did so very tongue in cheek.
People will form their own opinions of me when they meet me - either on cam or IRL.
I do not feel the need to do a description or saddle myself with a label.
Because it's a statement that big can be beautiful. As I understand the usage of the term, if you are not reasonably happy with your size, then you are not a BBW.
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Is that Sophie Dahl?

It WAS her before she caught Hollywood disease :cry:
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Is that Sophie Dahl?

It WAS her before she caught Hollywood disease :cry:
well i bloody well hope you didn't put that pic up as a example of a big women cause if you did i'm just going to kill myself right now lol
*wispers...'pppssssttttt over here' to dawn while waving her strap on wink