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Degrees of roughness in sex

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Was just wondering or is it just me!!
Started out having what I would call kinda normalish sex with my shagging partner but over the months its become harder and harder and rougher which quite frankly is fucking amazing, am having the best sex on the planet (in my planet anyway!) and it just seems to get better and better!
Although I do wonder at the stage we are at now how much further/harder/rougher could we go!??
Would be nice to hear of others views/experiences on this! rolleyes lol
When the glans of the penis starts to emerge head first out of your mouth, then you are going too far........ confused :? :shock:
Venusxxx
Are'nt you supposed to be studying??? :shock: :shock: :shock:
Get back to those books!! smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
hehehe I will just I had such a great shag last night Ive been wandering about all day thinking about how goooooooood it was!! Just making me so horny!! biggrin
VenusNMars hell I dont think it was far off that!! But hey if that was to happen?? If it still feels good should I stop?? rolleyes lol
Errr well there's rough and there's rough in't there? What sort of limit are we talking going beyond here? Not prying after detail ...... well fuckit I am really, but are we talking bondage, light/serious - is it spontaneous or ritualised e.g. spanking?
I always think that there is a place for rough stuff and a place for some real tenderness in between - sorta Jekyll and Hyde sex like - not on the same day though.
Anyway Fruity what you doing sounds great - and if you can't get enough it obviously ain't going far enough.
hehe nah Id say its pretty spontaneous and we just get carried away and just go further and furter (literally and Im not saying where!) but like wow wow and fucking wow again!!
Who knew I could be so flexible!! But as far as rough goes I wouldnt say rough in a bad way like im into a bit of spanking but not violemce or anything like that! biggrin
But what about the rest of you?? wink
Sex God
If you end up in hospital you know you've gone too far, but hey, as long as you're both enjoying it, why stop at all..... just go on and on :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Personally, I like rough sex. If someone wants to fuck me I would rather them put some effort into it :twisted: . Of course, it depends on the time, the place, and the mood, so that's only a general rule. Rough sex doesn't have to be about sub/dom games, it could be just good old fashioned fucking, but who cares what people call it if it's good hehehehehehehehehe :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
a few kidney punches never harmed anyone.... wink
but seriously it all depends on the other half...
Mrs Ant likes a bit of the slap on the ass etc..
Orgasminator
Quote by Sgt Bilko
Are'nt you supposed to be studying??? :shock: :shock: :shock:
Get back to those books!! smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: lol :lol: :lol: :lol:

well it does have "degree" in the subject, so it could be classed as study biggrin
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hehe nah Id say its pretty spontaneous and we just get carried away and just go further and furter (literally and Im not saying where!) but like wow wow and fucking wow again!!
Who knew I could be so flexible!! But as far as rough goes I wouldnt say rough in a bad way like im into a bit of spanking

I knew a woman who liked being treated rough during sex - being spanked, called a dirty slut, having toys pushed into her etc. It was a real turn on for me knowing she was getting turned on by it!
However we always made sure she had a 'secret' word she could say if it wasn't comfortable for her. Fortunately she never had to use it.
My advice would be to do the same... and enjoy yourselves!
Orgasminator
Fruity
If you are both happy with it, why worry?
And yes, it does get more and more or rougher and rougher till it reaches a peak and people come to their senses and take a break... then it starts all over again! ;)
Secret words!!?? (safe word! We dont need no stinking secret word lol
Nah we do have safe words but tbh never comes to that well not these days anyway! Must be getting more flexible in some areas! Does anybody else find that after a while you dont need lube either!!
As for a degree in shagging Id love to study that for 2 years!! Imagine applying to the SAAS for a HND in shagging!! Hmmmmmm just think they break it all down to modules now so you would probably have a timetable of oral(giving), oral (recieving!), G-spots, mutual masturbation, anal sex, pussy sex! hmmmmmm that sounds like a good start to me anyway not that I need a degree or anything but hell you canny beat plenty practical experience!!
haha wonder wher you would go for a placement on a shagging degree?? :twisted:
safe words work for me....
as long as it aint "fuck me like the bitch that I am" confused
Sex God
I get a bit fed up cos I love it a bit rough but my lady bits aren't so keen sad I have ended up with a couple of very embarrassing problems :shock:
A bit of rough sex is fun, hair pulling, spanking etc, its passionate, exciting, sometimes something new. When both of you are esp in the mood for it, its great! lol
Forum Virgin
When does it stop being rough sex and become S/M? Is it about what you set out to do or what you actually find yourself doing half way through?
Yeah had been thinkinbg about that too at the stage we've gotten to Im beginning to wonder! Im pretty sure whats its verging on not sure how much further it will go!?? But I dont like too much organisation, structure or rules, prefer to go with the flow which seems the best way so far!!
i just have the image of Fruity really going for it. You know the type, where sex has to be had and it has to be fast and hard. Its like you can't stop until you've broken a world record or a pelvic bone. :shock:
That is my interpretation of what I am reading. cool
Warming the Bed
he he i think MQ should explain more about her comment!!!!!
lol :lol:
Quote by mattmoleman
i just have the image of Fruity really going for it. You know the type, where sex has to be had and it has to be fast and hard. Its like you can't stop until you've broken a world record or a pelvic bone. :shock:
That is my interpretation of what I am reading. cool

hehe just doesnt seem right any other way!! Well for the moment anyway! :twisted: lol