Does anybody out there use dental dams when performing oral? Or are they these mythical beasts spoken about in medical journals?
I've never seen one before.
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I've never seen them used, and if these such thing as a passion killer - thats it!
What on earths the point?! The girl gets no pleasure compared to it being not there, and the lad is left just caressing a piece of rubber basically with his tongue.
If i wanted to do that, i'd go and buy an eraser!!!
What on earths the point?! The girl gets no pleasure compared to it being not there, and the lad is left just caressing a piece of rubber basically with his tongue.
If i wanted to do that, i'd go and buy an eraser!!!
Just googled & found this too!! 
FUN????
What are these little squares of latex and what am I going to do with them?
Please realize that dental dams were not originally designed for what you have in mind. Dentists use them to isolate a tooth from the tongue, other teeth and gums during dental procedures. However, some sensual individual (perhaps a creative dental hygienist), thought of using dams for cunnilingus (oral contact with female genitals) and analingus (oral/anal contact). And so, a new method of playful, safer sex was born.
How do I use them?
Hold the dam against your partner's genitals while you lick, kiss or suck the covered area. Either of you can hold the dam in place during these activities. This may sound easier than it actually is, since it's sometimes difficult to hold the dam firmly in place once the juices start flowing. But with a sense of humor, and a little patience, you can have a lot of fun practicing.
What if the dam slips off?
Because dams tend to become slippery and slide around, we recommend that you have several dams nearby and ready for use. Mark the dams on one side with a pen, so that if the dam gets set aside during passionate foreplay, you'll know which side is for the licker and which for the lickee. Better yet, use a fresh dam and avoid the possibility of exchanging body fluids. We strongly advise that you throw the dam away after one use.
Now the real challenge: How can I get my partner to use the dams? I'm not so sure about them myself.
Practice alone first. Put the whole dam in your mouth. Lick it. How does it taste? Better you should make that funny face now than when your face is between your lover's legs. If the dam's flavor bothers you, wash it with a mild soap and rinse it thoroughly.
Touch yourself with the dam brush it against your face, tickle and rub your genitals with it, snap it against your skin. We encourage you to play with the dams until you are embarrassed by how much you are enjoying them.
How can I start talking with my partner about using dams?
Dams are a great tool for starting a conversation about safer sex. Having them handy and being able to talk about using them shows a concern for yourself and others. When you feel the time is right -- we suggest a non-sexual setting, for instance during dinner -- tell your lover or potential lover about the fun you've been having with dental dams.
Have a dam handy so you can show the person what you're talking about. Spark curiosity -- offer to share your toy and be the safer sex coach. Ask this person's feelings about safer sex and listen to the response. Often just talking about your feelings, whether you're shy, embarrassed, intimidated or excited, can ease any tensions. Be prepared to negotiate around safer sex alternatives which are acceptable to both of you.
Explore and have fun!
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Quote by burnie
Sounds about as appetising as licking through a bin bag, doesn't it?
Bin bags would be cheaper wouldn't they?
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shall we say i went with a girl in a store room of her works, she had been there since and this was
anyway they had these things in her shop (large chemist) and she insisted i use it as she was embarrased :cry:
didn't bother me - bit like going to the theatre and they don't open the curtains.....
anyway they had these things in her shop (large chemist) and she insisted i use it as she was embarrased :cry:
didn't bother me - bit like going to the theatre and they don't open the curtains.....
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you can use cling film for the same purpose
Has to be a non-microwave-able version tho, to have any safer-sex use (no holes in it!) - (apparently there is such a thing which is specifically for microwave use and has holes!)
Hmmm used to give these out as part or safe sex promotion work, you can also use a cut up condom. Must say tho, despite doing the promotion work, I've never used one and don't know many people that have.
