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Okay... I am always stuck at this time of year with one or two impossible present ideas.
I am seeking inspiration for my Mum - aged 70, but a youngish 70 - and my nephew, aged 15.
I have a budget for my Mum of about £50 and for my nephew about £15-20.
Any ideas? In fact, all ideas gratefully received...
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do either of them have a hobby or are really interested in something particular?, we have a 16 year old who is very hard to buy for but is very into guitars so this year we have done a years subscription to his favourite guitar mag lol
My nephew is quite arty and musical but is also a bit of a designer label freak.
My mum - hmmm... her family are her hobby really. dunno
My son always loved anything from the Gadget shop, guitar strings, music books, book tokens etc.
You can get swipe gift cards with so much money on from places like Top Shop (these can be topped up) and can be used at a number of other shops.
My Mum is just a bit older than yours - and she's a pain these days to buy for. I'm totally stumped this year! Over the past few years I've always made her things out of glass, I've now ran out of arty inspiration! I think I'm going to avoid xmas this year and pretend it isn't happening - its the only way out of it :lol2:
I have the same problem Nola... my folks are impossibly hard to buy for. They have pretty much everything they need and are in the fortunate position that if they need something they can buy it.
They have a little restuarant they like to eat at so I'm going to make them a gift voucher for there.
They're pretty keen gardners though so in the past though I've bought them stuff for the garden. My dad has a monkey puzzle which has grown quite a lot in the last three years considering how dinky it was when I bought it. I got them a coral acer on their coral wedding anniversary too which they appreciated. I guess it depends on what your mum likes to do.
For your nephew you could - they always have cool stuff!
What about a large frame for your mam with lots of smaller pictures of the family past and present in??
The wife and her Gran...
Her Gran is 90 odd and what do you buy for someone who has been around for so long dunno
Chances are they have had or do have pretty much everything they need/want....
Its very difficult....
As for buying for the wife well rolleyes
Results could be disasterous(sp) :lol2:
Lovely idea Tan but for some reason the year I did the photo album for a wedding anniversary it went down like a lead balloon. Odd.
My brother did the digital photo frame last christmas and it never gets switched on.
Hmmmm... restaurant vouchers would have been good DG but bought my Dad something already. Maybe will save that for anniversary in Feb.
My Mum and Dad are always difficult but this year we have bought them a beautiful eucalyptus tree as they had admired ours when they visited earlier this year.
As for me Steve..... Why do you think I make sure smallest child knows what I want?? rolleyes
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The wife and her Gran...
Her Gran is 90 odd and what do you buy for someone who has been around for so long dunno
Chances are they have had or do have pretty much everything they need/want....
Its very difficult....
As for buying for the wife well rolleyes
Results could be disastrous :lol2:

Ask her best friend/parents/siblings, One of them must know if there is anything special she wants??
Perfume? Jewellery? Voucher for her favourite clothes shop?
My rules are to never buy clothes or jewellery. Taste in these are far too personal to the recipient.
If in doubt DVD/Blu-Ray of a title I know they like, voucher at a shop I know they shop at, get them to do a wish list at Amazon.
Failing those default stand-bys I'd have to know the person to figure out what to buy them.
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As for me Steve..... Why do you think I make sure smallest child knows what I want?? rolleyes

Well you need to tell her its not a trade secret then :roll:
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As for me Steve..... Why do you think I make sure smallest child knows what I want?? rolleyes

Well you need to tell her its not a trade secret then :roll:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
That's really made me giggle! kiss
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As for me Steve..... Why do you think I make sure smallest child knows what I want?? rolleyes

Well you need to tell her its not a trade secret then :roll:
Swap kids? mine told me I am getting a brand new massive flat screen telly
Ok son but i hardly watch any telly
Yes I know mam but I do so I am asking santa for you
:giggle:
tan that really made me laugh.
bless him.
as I don't do crimble not a present bought nor a present received in the 'splendid' household so I am unable to contribute.
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tan that really made me laugh.
bless him.
as I don't do crimble not a present bought nor a present received in the 'splendid' household so I am unable to contribute.

You don't do Christmas? confused
Can I be nosey and ask why not? :mrgreen:
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tan that really made me laugh.
bless him.
as I don't do crimble not a present bought nor a present received in the 'splendid' household so I am unable to contribute.

You don't do Christmas? confused
Can I be nosey and ask why not? :mrgreen:
you can be as nosey as you like and ask as much as you like. It is a free country. :P
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tan that really made me laugh.
bless him.
as I don't do crimble not a present bought nor a present received in the 'splendid' household so I am unable to contribute.

You don't do Christmas? confused
Can I be nosey and ask why not? :mrgreen:
you can be as nosey as you like and ask as much as you like. It is a free country. :P
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Okay... thank you! kiss
Im getting a new ironing board from my parents lol (there's a hint in there somewhere)
A new mobile phone (already got that :P )
And a new laptop when I pick the one I want :doh: rolleyes :roll: :roll:
Bought my son a sound pillow from iwantoneofthose. Its a pillow you can plug your ipod/MP3 player into so you won't need to use ear plugs. Sounds another great way to ruin his hearing biggrin They have 2 varieties ... 1 a normal pillow and 1 is a memory pillow which remembers the shape. Good for music lovers perhaps?
I've given up buying my Mum things - she has everything she wants and better than I could ever afford!
I now buy her a ticket to something she'll enjoy and go with her. West Side Story in Jan, La Boheme for mothers' day, Sound of Mucus in the summer for birthday...
I've also given vouchers for massage or facial (the vanilla kind :shock: ) at a snazzy spa.
Don't know if that sort of thing would appeal to you or your Mum your Mum, Nola.
We stopped buying our parents 'material' presents a long time ago. Well, for most part anyway. What we do is get tickets to theatre shows and concerts.
As for kids, I usually bring them something from my (many) holidays. Cool t-shirts and things like that work well because they can't just go to the next shop and get them.