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Jesus it's become evident that one has to get a dig, reply to a forum poster!
Sad or what?
We can all appear to better the previous poster despite some replies not making sense or just posting for the sake of boosting their popularity on here!
I now open the floor, have your say (no naming)
That's why most people don't bother with the forum I think, being shot down in flames is not condusive to wanting to frequent it!
Blimey you just keep chewing on this bone, put it down and lets move onto something else ffs.
Some of these people have been posting in here for years and probably been falling out with each other for years too, its the way of the world, its not all sickly-sweet and candy-like, that would just be boring.
People have different senses of humour and if you are new to the forum and don`t understand them then you might think they are being a tad snippy with you.
Now can we please leave it and move on, thank you.
Personally, and I can only speak for me, I think the topic is bollox as it has no bearing what I think of the person when debating a thread.
There are many people I have disagreed with, but if I met them in a social setting I would gladly have a pint with them. On the other hand, I have met people socially and got on very well with them yet we'll argue like hell over a thread.
Dave_Notts
Shut up amateutman your an asshole lol
And to the rest of the posters who have replied to this thread I think your comments are all bollocks (even those that either agree or disagree with the original poster).
See, amateurman, everyone gets on so well here and there is absolutely NO sniping, digging or bad feeling. The world is such a wonderfull place when there are contrasting attitudes and opinions.
Quote by Srne
Shut up amateutman your an asshole lol
And to the rest of the posters who have replied to this thread I think your comments are all bollocks (even those that either agree or disagree with the original poster).
See, amateurman, everyone gets on so well here and there is absolutely NO sniping, digging or bad feeling. The world is such a wonderfull place when there are contrasting attitudes and opinions.

You forgot to put nah!!nah!! nah nah nah!!!!!!! :grin:
Bah,
This forum is a big warm cuddly bunch of fun with icing on top lol
I know it's bloody terrible isn't .... I mean why oh why oh why do people do such things....:hangs head in a kind of more in sorrow than anger sort of way:
Bugger ..... admin can we please get that :hangs head in a kind of more in sorrow than anger sort of way: emote sorted ..... honest I'd use it
Coughs, who is amatuetman, some fake disguised as me?
Quote by Srne
Shut up amateutman your an asshole lol
And to the rest of the posters who have replied to this thread I think your comments are all bollocks (even those that either agree or disagree with the original poster).
See, amateurman, everyone gets on so well here and there is absolutely NO sniping, digging or bad feeling. The world is such a wonderfull place when there are contrasting attitudes and opinions.
yes like a pain in the arse emotion that would be a good one.:notes:
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yes like a pain in the arse emotion that would be a good one.:notes:

I may well find a use for one of those too lol
STAGGERLEE
Now with new added :lol:
For a short time only
maybe have a staggers pain in the arse emotion. i will pre order 60 :notes: :grin:
Quote by nostringsluton
make hay not war

Do you have to shag a farmer to do that? :twisted:
Quote by Funlovers2009
make hay not war

Do you have to shag a farmer to do that? :twisted:
Only when the sun shines out of his arse... wink
Quote by GnV
make hay not war

Do you have to shag a farmer to do that? :twisted:
Only when the sun shines out of his arse... wink
what about someone talking out of there arse? lol
I'm sure there is hope for you wink
Quote by starlightcouple
make hay not war

Do you have to shag a farmer to do that? :twisted:
Only when the sun shines out of his arse... :wink:
what about someone talking out of there arse? lol
I wouldn’t post on the forum again sorry, I posted a few weeks ago and had two or three in particular that just commented on my subject just to cause problems that in the end the moderator had to stop postings, I appreciate we are all entitled to opinions but I feel there is a minority that come on here just to cause problems !!!!!
Then have the nerve to say it was me and it was only a bit of banter they know that was BOLLOX it was to wind people up and cause a row.
It’s not a problem as it made my mind up not to subscribe to SH when my renewal is due, I don’t need shit like that.
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I wouldn’t post on the forum again sorry, I posted a few weeks ago and had two or three in particular that just commented on my subject just to cause problems that in the end the moderator had to stop postings, I appreciate we are all entitled to opinions but I feel there is a minority that come on here just to cause problems !!!!!
Then have the nerve to say it was me and it was only a bit of banter they know that was BOLLOX it was to wind people up and cause a row.

It’s not a problem as it made my mind up not to subscribe to SH when my renewal is due, I don’t need shit like that.

So, in the end you admit it then blink
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I wouldn’t post on the forum again sorry, I posted a few weeks ago and had two or three in particular that just commented on my subject just to cause problems that in the end the moderator had to stop postings, I appreciate we are all entitled to opinions but I feel there is a minority that come on here just to cause problems !!!!!
Then have the nerve to say it was me and it was only a bit of banter they know that was BOLLOX it was to wind people up and cause a row.

that is roughly what i said in another thred. this forum is being ruined by a few peeple and let us be honest here we all know who THEY are.
the same peeple that have been causing the trouble for the past three yeers or so. no wonder peeple choose not to post and the then few then start crying about it is there sence of humor. i wonder if the pope thred was there with humor in mind or just pure you dig down thew forums enough there are plenty of other examples to. :notes:
the owners need to put those problems to bed and then the forum would be a better place to post in but doing nothing about it is possibly just encouraging or condoning that behaviour dunno
i have been subjected to the same bullying bazza as you and i am a bit confused as to wether it is bullying or troling as i have found many other sites and examples of the same kind of peeple doing the same kinds of things and they are classed as bullys. and we all know that we should not give in to bullys bazza. wink
You know some of you really need to eat a spoonful of cement and harden the fuck up!!! It's a forum. People agree and disagree all the time. You can choose to ignore things you don't like and post on stuff that interests you. Get a backbone! If someone has a dig then give as good as you get or rise above it. To whinge about not posting again because you didn't like what someone said is pathetic. It's the people here who add the flavour and it's most likely the politically correct moaners who have killed this forum. We all know how to behave like adults, sometimes we choose to behave like children. It's the way of the world. Thicken your skin and ignore the niggling digs or think of a wittier retort.
In the grand old scheme of things, most people come here to escape the hum drum of real life for fun, not to listen to people whinging about 'he said' / 'she said'. Time to grow up.
Quote by Dirtygirly
You know some of you really need to eat a spoonful of cement and harden the fuck up!!! It's a forum. People agree and disagree all the time. You can choose to ignore things you don't like and post on stuff that interests you. Get a backbone! If someone has a dig then give as good as you get or rise above it. To whinge about not posting again because you didn't like what someone said is pathetic. It's the people here who add the flavour and it's most likely the politically correct moaners who have killed this forum. We all know how to behave like adults, sometimes we choose to behave like children. It's the way of the world. Thicken your skin and ignore the niggling digs or think of a wittier retort.
In the grand old scheme of things, most people come here to escape the hum drum of real life for fun, not to listen to people whinging about 'he said' / 'she said'. Time to grow up.

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does this mean we can have kenty back bolt
Quote by Dirtygirly
You know some of you really need to eat a spoonful of cement and harden the fuck up!!! It's a forum. People agree and disagree all the time. You can choose to ignore things you don't like and post on stuff that interests you. Get a backbone! If someone has a dig then give as good as you get or rise above it. To whinge about not posting again because you didn't like what someone said is pathetic. It's the people here who add the flavour and it's most likely the politically correct moaners who have killed this forum. We all know how to behave like adults, sometimes we choose to behave like children. It's the way of the world. Thicken your skin and ignore the niggling digs or think of a wittier retort.
In the grand old scheme of things, most people come here to escape the hum drum of real life for fun, not to listen to people whinging about 'he said' / 'she said'. Time to grow up.

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does this mean we can have kenty back bolt
Quote by Dirtygirly
You know some of you really need to eat a spoonful of cement and harden the fuck up!!! It's a forum. People agree and disagree all the time. You can choose to ignore things you don't like and post on stuff that interests you. Get a backbone! If someone has a dig then give as good as you get or rise above it. To whinge about not posting again because you didn't like what someone said is pathetic. It's the people here who add the flavour and it's most likely the politically correct moaners who have killed this forum. We all know how to behave like adults, sometimes we choose to behave like children. It's the way of the world. Thicken your skin and ignore the niggling digs or think of a wittier retort.
In the grand old scheme of things, most people come here to escape the hum drum of real life for fun, not to listen to people whinging about 'he said' / 'she said'. Time to grow up.

Dirtygirly I hear what you are saying but !!!!
I don’t have a problem with forums I think they are great for discussions when they are used in the correct way, and as I said we are all entitled to our opinions again not a problem, but what gets my goat is when the minority come on here to cause a problem, which they do.
My original question was a very straight forward one regarding the gallery, but in the end it turned around from the gallery to personal insults to me, from the said two or three users and yes don’t worry I gave and can give as good as I get, but that is not the point it should have remained a discussion about the gallery, that is why the moderator on the day stopped further post.
Now when I look through other post I find the same said few are doing exactly the same to other users, why can’t they discuss things in the normal manor, they can put across there opinions but they don’t have to be insulting with it, I don’t class that as banter I class that as shear ignorance, the said few people should really grow up and get a life.
Quote by Photobazza
You know some of you really need to eat a spoonful of cement and harden the fuck up!!! It's a forum. People agree and disagree all the time. You can choose to ignore things you don't like and post on stuff that interests you. Get a backbone! If someone has a dig then give as good as you get or rise above it. To whinge about not posting again because you didn't like what someone said is pathetic. It's the people here who add the flavour and it's most likely the politically correct moaners who have killed this forum. We all know how to behave like adults, sometimes we choose to behave like children. It's the way of the world. Thicken your skin and ignore the niggling digs or think of a wittier retort.
In the grand old scheme of things, most people come here to escape the hum drum of real life for fun, not to listen to people whinging about 'he said' / 'she said'. Time to grow up.

Dirtygirly I hear what you are saying but !!!!

Really? You really heard me? So why are you still wittering on about a thread that was closed down? You should be chewing cement right about now. No-one other than you gives a toss about your locked thread. We've all had threads locked cause they've turned into a bunfight. Get over it. Move on and start a new thread about something else. That's what makes forums go round.
Conversations don`t run in "the normal manner", you start off with one topic and end up with something else, thats how conversations run, thats how threads run, jeez :eeek:
Its stuff like this that kills the forum, not people with strong opinions and a sense of humour, although it can be somewhat "quirky" :silly:
Its like the old saying goes "sticks and stones", its words on a screen, DG is right man up ffs. Brucie posts threads about fat people all the time, I say my bit in reply but I don`t cry bully, and Starlight you even posted on the last fat people thread so please lets not have anyone playing the victim here.
I like the forum, I like the people who use it even if I don`t agree with everything they say.
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Really? You really heard me? So why are you still wittering on about a thread that was closed down? You should be chewing cement right about now. No-one other than you gives a toss about your locked thread. We've all had threads locked cause they've turned into a bunfight. Get over it. Move on and start a new thread about something else. That's what makes forums go round.

seams like great advice there not. how many threds over the yeers have been locked by a few members? look back at how many of those members are still around and you will find the same trouble members stil here whilst many others have left or do not post. work that one out.
many peeple i am sure do care as very good threds get locked and on many ocasions the peeple who go out of there ways to get it locked suceed in doing just that. they may well make the forums go around but it seams in big fat circles i am afraid. :sad:
peeple have had a moan and then you moan at those peeple for having a moan so from where i am sitting you are doing the same. dunno
Quote by Andy_Jules
Get a backbone! If someone has a dig then give as good as you get or rise above it.

Giving as good as you get would (on a forum at least) lead to complete chaos and meltdown and is perhaps not the best stance to adopt. The best method has to be to make your point/post and move along...
Andy
In my world that's known as banter. It's entirely possible to have a discussion without moaning, without having personal attacks and without breaking the AUP. Choosing to get personal is where it all goes wrong. This is precisely why I'm going to completely ignore the post above this. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, even if it is drivel, that's my opinion to which I'm entitled. It doesn't have to descend into chaos. When people talk shite, you either laugh at them (there's a very big difference to laughing with them) or you rip the piss. The defences will go up and that's when the abuse starts. It's all in the tone of the response really since we aren't able to have facial expressions on a forum. There's no need for abuse. Digs happen all the time, example included (and for the avoidance of doubt it is simply an example - untwist your knickers). It's how you respond that's important. wink
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the forums go around but it seams in big fat circles i am afraid. :sad:

They are not fat circles - they are Big Beautiful Circles :evil2:
That's what forums do, you cant really change peoples fixed opinions on here. That shouldn't stop you saying when you think they are talking bollocks, just do it without personal attacks or using purposely offensive statements or examples wink
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They are not fat circles - they are Big Beautiful Circles :evil2:
That's what forums do, you cant really change peoples fixed opinions on here. That shouldn't stop you saying when you think they are talking bollocks, just do it without personal attacks or using purposely offensive statements or examples wink

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And never forget the wink! :wink: