As a couple we have attended some clubs but up until now "played alone" (other than a one off same room) we do the role play thing and and are still generally new to the scene. our own sex life involves role playing and using close friends in regards to certain scenarios , including the thought of K sleeping with the guy (we both enjoy this thought) he often flirts with her and she would flirt back.....here's the dilemma: he has now contacted her and asked her to meet up for a drink , should she meet or is this too close to home.
Go for a drink and who knows what might be talked about.
When you say to too close to home what do you mean, this guy lives round the corner, or they might be spotted out?
Ta for the reply...too close to home meaning the fact that we are all close friends :-)
oh for heavens sake, the solution is incredibly simple. Use me! Me me me me me. Ok, or someone else.
It's a hell of a turnon knowing your partner is out with someone, 'just for coffee' perhaps, but not knowing for sure. But close friends? No chance.
I guess its all down to what you are seeking? Are you cuckold? as in you want to watch or want to know your partner is being with someone else? How secure is your relationship? Is this 100% A sex thing or could your other half be tempted away? All things to consider!
Good luck
For us strangers and people we have met through SH etc are one thing. People we are 'close friends' with etc are another thing entirely and are not even considered.
Out of interest, how close is this mate of yours if he is inviting your partner out for drinks and not you? Doesn't sound like much of a mate to me.
Close friends outside of swinging would be too close for us
thanks lost. See, once again it's a simple solution. Use ME! ME! How simple can it be,
ok, or someone else. Soddit, bummer and shite. Anyone but someone up close and personal.
Yes, someone other than me. However much it hurts to say so..........
Do I get brownie points for this post?
but they will very firmly stay fantasies. 
