I'm tired and in a real "lovey dovey lets all be friends" mode due to the amount of Absinthe I've drunk tonight but my advice genes usually stay sober at all times in case of somebody in need (kinda like a pissed St Bernard dog would be)
PM heading over to you, troubled thing !
Carpathian
Hi Heather
You say "Right Casey Jones this train terminates at the next pint. Please mind the gap whilst leaving this bar!!
Hiya Heather
To get the information you need, and, also to let the poor guy down gently, with his pride still in tact, you can always take the moral stance.
If he comes on to you then just gently explain that you really do like him, great guy etc. As much as you are tempted, you really need to go away and think about the situation as you're not comfortable with the fact that he is married.
At least then you will be doing it gently and not turning him down stone dead. Hopefully with a friendship and advisor still in tact.
Disclaimer: Everyone, please don't have a pop at me about the ongoing married/single debate. This is merely a suggestion. It might or might not be my opinion, and certainly not an attempt to bring the debate back to life.
Hello Heather
I think you mislead by by keep cutting to the chase !! Cannock Chase haha.
Many guys (perhaps like myself - but not necessarily) love to give a rare opportunity to help somebody. (rare because we (I mean they) have just a small endowment of knowledge/handiwork ability and like to balance the account for all the help they have had freely given to them.
They find they are giving help to a beautiful lady (or just a female) and their lower brain kicks in with a hard shout. They have suddenly found that they have got into reciprocal communication with a bird - something they have a great deal of difficulty doing. Make hay while the going is good, try to make a date. I mean, at least he has let you know where you stand with him. He is playing straight and simply needs to be told.
"Thanks for the useful information, but I really don't feel I want to break forum ranks and go so far as a meeting. I hope you will continue to support me in my search for the specialist knowledge which has been so helpful to me."
- Just another opinion, don't know if it helps balance the ideas
lol
please meet me tonight at 7pm - only joking, not cos I don't fancy you, just that I was taking on the idea of giving you some help and then demanding a date. O Hell, someone draw me a shovel so I can dig myself out of this.
ta ta 4 now
Heather.... just a wee question..... What is it that you do by way of employment that is so boring that you fancy becoming a train driver.... would have thought that staring down two parallel lines all day would drive you nuts.....
just wondering...
Gman
Hiya H,
Unlike the rabble, I have thunked and thunked, and come up with a plan which is sublime in its eloquence. It achieves both aims of obtaining the information, and preventing the shag.
Take one large hold all, filled with every sex toy you possess, incluidng the very biggest, meanest, ornery looking strap on you can find.
Once the conversation finishes, plonk the bag on the table, open it up, and say
"Right, time for you to get your reward."
:twisted:
lhk
Kat
Train drivers don't seem to be getting the appreciation that they deserve from this thread. It must be really difficult keeping a train balanced on top of those narrow rails.
Best of luck with your new job.
Gordon
This idea might have a bit to much of an "ewwwwww" factor, but!
Keep scratching your crotch, once you've got the information about filling in the form say, "I hope I get the apointment from the STD clinic soon" :crazy:
:rotflmao: 
) is a good old fashioned, no holds barred party!! :twisted: :twisted: 
