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Disabled people have needs too!

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Going back to the issue of using professional services... biggrin
I met a working girl at a friend's BBQ some summers ago. At first I was shocked and did not know how to behave. Act cool? Act indifferent? But she brought me out of my misery with her effortless cheery chat and then I realised that she was just another human being and her job was not the sole thing defining her as a person.
I hired that girl some time later for a visiting friend of mine. I admired how she managed in the briefest period of time to find out so much about my friend, even things that I did not know and had never thought (or dared) to ask! I admit to feeling a bit jealous at some point. I wanted to wave my arms in the air and say 'hello? remember me? I am your friend, the one who is wonderful enough to care for your needs... please acknowledge my existence!'
The thing about this girl was that she really enjoyed meeting people and granting them their fantasies (within limits of course). She did not have to fake her excitement and pleasure because it was real. And her clients love her because even though they know they are one of her many admirers, they have her full attention for the time they are together. I met a few of her clients myself by chance. It is funny how small the world turns out to be in the end.
Anyway, nobody told our Welsh friend to go curb crawling (is that how you call it here?) He has the technology (internet) to seek out a classy lady who will fulfil his fantasies. And he should not be made to feel guilty for choosing this option till the right girl comes along. Besides, who said that pros can't form relationships with clients? It may be unethical and devastating but it can happen.
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Again I thank all those for their thoughtful views and understanding. They've been a big help and comforting at the same time. I'm dissapointed in myself for making a bogus claim in a previous thread (see above - a newbie @ the time) but stand by my decision for lieing about my age in this thread, so as to throw those who may know me off the scent. Obviously this decision has come back to bite me in the ass as another person has pointed out. I should know better @ my age (27 confused )I hope people understand why I did this and do not hold it against me as I'd hoped to cotinue using SH in the future. You seem like a great bunch of guys and I thank you once again. I'll be sure to report back to you when I've decided what to do.
ps any other views/opinions would be grateful but if the threads worn out no prob's.

Hi John, people here are not necessarily under any obligation to give their age at all (I don't) - if you had just said you were in your late twenties there would have been no problem at all, but obviously if you DO give your age you've got to be consistent - you'll be surprised how closely some people here scrutinise people's posts and suss out inconsistencies when they occur. Erm, well, you wouldn't be surprised now, you know! lol
Mike.
Mikenorth & Tania
Thanks for your posts but its time for bedtime now - I'm knackered - I'll be sure to post a reply tomorrow.
Have a good day - hope you don't have to work like me!
JBW
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Have a good day - hope you don't have to work like me!
JBW

I am a full time mum nowadays so my day has no timetables. I just take it as it comes - can't do otherwise. smile Have a good day at work tomorrow and enjoy the opportunity of interacting with people even if they can sometimes be obnoxious.