Let's put it this way. I am not into spreading it about. If someone comes and puts up a poster on my street, I would be upset.
... but a chat among friends one evening, or two, a different thing altogether. As long as everyone talked about is there and happy.
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Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__
... though there is a big difference between indescretion, and conclusions drawn from unfounded assumption... then going on to share the assumption with others. Is there not?
lp
HUGE difference! :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__
... though there is a big difference between indescretion, and conclusions drawn from unfounded assumption... then going on to share the assumption with others. Is there not?
lp
You mean you and me aren't at it like rabbits lp?! :shock: Damn... I was almost believing my own hype
Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__
thought so.
then I might suggest that some who may cry 'indescretion' at times may be the very people who draw assumptions.
and by 'assumptions' I don't mean a cartoon-drawn version of a medical encyclopeadia's diagram depicting a bottom affliction.
lp
Fine suggestion!
Now talking of bottoms... where's that latex clad one from your avatar gone?
:rascal: I have no problems in naming the sin, but I would never name the sinners.
what I've been upto is totally my business as it is my choice to divulge any part of it, insofar as I don't name the people I've been doing it with, which is something I would only do with their consent.
it has nothing to do with bragging either and I would only talk about it in a spirit of exchanging experience and giving each other new ideas or stimulating thoughts..preferably in private conversations with my date of the moment. I've written pubblicly about things I've done in the past, that are not traceable to the person I've done them with..again in the spirit of public debate about sexuality and experience, not just for a joke.
I feel this is my right, and nobody should diss me for it.
what I've been upto is totally my business as it is my choice to divulge any part of it, insofar as I don't name the people I've been doing it with, which is something I would only do with their consent.
it has nothing to do with bragging either and I would only talk about it in a spirit of exchanging experience and giving each other new ideas or stimulating thoughts..preferably in private conversations with my date of the moment. I've written pubblicly about things I've done in the past, that are not traceable to the person I've done them with..again in the spirit of public debate about sexuality and experience, not just for a joke.
I feel this is my right, and nobody should diss me for it.
Quote by Melting_pot
I have no problems in naming the sin, but I would never name the sinners.
what I've been upto is totally my business as it is my choice to divulge any part of it, insofar as I don't name the people I've been doing it with, which is something I would only do with their consent.
it has nothing to do with bragging either and I would only talk about it in a spirit of exchanging experience and giving each other new ideas or stimulating thoughts..preferably in private conversations with my date of the moment. I've written pubblicly about things I've done in the past, that are not traceable to the person I've done them with..again in the spirit of public debate about sexuality and experience, not just for a joke.
I feel this is my right, and nobody should diss me for it.
Great post :thumbup: My thoughts exactly :P
Quote by __random_orbit__
... though there is a big difference between indescretion, Phwoar, I had a great time last night! and conclusions drawn from unfounded assumption...You shagged LP then? then going on to share the assumption with others. Witchy shagged LP last night. Apparantly, he's hung like a bull elephant underneath that latex. Is there not?
lp
Erm, like that? :giggle:
BTW, you owe me chocolate for the bull elephant bit.
as a footnote, on another website I've been specifically asked by a girl NOT to tell her anything I might have been upto with any other girl of said website, as that would put her off..(I reckon she would somehow feel like nr x of a list, or something like that..understandable..wrong to some extent, but understandable)...
since I haven't met her yet, I'm more than willing to shut my trap
anyhoo..
is this "don't tell me" something common to the ladies? and what are the reasons for it? is my assumption for her reasons anywhere near the mark, in your opinion?
since I haven't met her yet, I'm more than willing to shut my trap
anyhoo..
is this "don't tell me" something common to the ladies? and what are the reasons for it? is my assumption for her reasons anywhere near the mark, in your opinion?
Quote by Melting_pot
as a footnote, on another website I've been specifically asked by a girl NOT to tell her anything I might have been upto with any other girl of said website, as that would put her off..(I reckon she would somehow feel like nr x of a list, or something like that..understandable..wrong to some extent, but understandable)...
since I haven't met her yet, I'm more than willing to shut my trap
anyhoo..
is this "don't tell me" something common to the ladies? and what are the reasons for it? is my assumption for her reasons anywhere near the mark, in your opinion?
MP, you may find some answers here:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/292088.html?highlight=Sloppy%20seconds
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Sexlightened
Quote by Melting_pot
as a footnote, on another website I've been specifically asked by a girl NOT to tell her anything I might have been upto with any other girl of said website, as that would put her off..(I reckon she would somehow feel like nr x of a list, or something like that..understandable..wrong to some extent, but understandable)...
since I haven't met her yet, I'm more than willing to shut my trap
anyhoo..
is this "don't tell me" something common to the ladies? and what are the reasons for it? is my assumption for her reasons anywhere near the mark, in your opinion?
This particular post rang many bells with me. Maybe it's a little bit of an Ostrich mentality - but I like to feel special, and not just one of a great long list of conquests. I'm not stupid - I'm sure the guys I play with do have great long lists of conquests, but I just don't need them rammed down my throat over a post coital cigarette.
For me - everyone I chose to play with is special in one way or another - whether that's as a one-on-one meet, a quickie, out dogging or as part of a gang-bang. I've met people who have been really turned on by my telling them about my previous exploits - I don't mind doing that if it floats their boat, but if anything it just makes me feel a bit awkward - as each and every meet is personal and means something to me on some level.
I'm not one of these to brag that I, for example, give the best blow job in the world. I've given some pretty damn good blow jobs to the right person in the right situation - but it just cheapens it for me if, after I've put my heart & soul into giving the best blow job I can give, I'm then given a run down of all the much better blow jobs the bloke has ever had. That to me is indiscretion - as it's not taking into account my feelings or the fact that I'm a person and not just an open mouth.
Equally - when I tell someone afterwards that the sex was fantastic, I'm not lying to them - I don't say it unless it was - I may have said it to the last 10 people I've had, but that's because each one of them was fantastic, in their own individual and special way. Someone pulled me up on this once and said "Yeah - I bet you say that to everyone", I was quite offended - if I do say it to a lot of people it's only cos I mean it, and cos it was fantastic.
Having said all that - when in slut mode (and it's a very clear distinction for me in my mind) in a gang bang scenario for example, then I have no problem with being compared to other girls - because that's all part of it for me, the sluttiness and the being used.
Makes sense in my mind anyway - just hope it makes sense to anyone who reads this
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Quote by Witchy
thankfully everyone that I have had sex with in this thread agrees that discretion is the key.
thats quite funny.............did worlass login.....
did someone let you out ?
The "storage" compartment under my patio has been compromised. :roll:
I bet it has.................... :roll:
