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Distance - is it a passion killer?
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Master of Sex
Distance isn't a factor when one uses words to arouse someone. Sensual intimate talk can be conducted half a world away.
Of course it's not the same thing as warm flesh and loving caresses but it does have its charm all the same.
Of course it's not the same thing as warm flesh and loving caresses but it does have its charm all the same.
Quote by ToshUK
Distance isn't a factor when one uses words to arouse someone. Sensual intimate talk can be conducted half a world away.
Of course it's not the same thing as warm flesh and loving caresses but it does have its charm all the same.
True but it's a shame when the real life stuff doesn't live up to the phone talk
Sex God
Quote by Ms_Whips
Distance isn't a factor when one uses words to arouse someone. Sensual intimate talk can be conducted half a world away.
Of course it's not the same thing as warm flesh and loving caresses but it does have its charm all the same.
i agree. there's nothing like sexual chat to build up tension. cams also have a fine place for distance play. the build up is foreplay for us and the results are fantastic.
whips
Always seems to go fantastically wrong for us! The amount of times web cams or the net dont seem to function correctly at the wrong time I find astounding. Dont even have the web cam hooked up anymore
I always end up wanting to stamp on it. 
Sex God
Sorry Nolls xxxx, I know this topic deserves more than this but it's 'stupid' o'clock in the morning and if i attempted to read 4 / 5 pages of posts I really would be giving it the big zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
so, i'll give you my angle on this from a purely personal perspective, and here it is, love it or hate it, at least it's honest.
I often see stuff on adverts and profiles that say "Prepared to travel" and then some that say "cannot travel."
Yep, and it’s nice when people are honest about that!
Now, I know there are sometimes practical reasons for not travelling long distances for a meet but do you think distance per se is a passion killer?
I find that a bit of a loaded question to be honest. I have met many ladies online that I have been very passionate about in a purely sexual way :rascal:, and given half a chance would travel half way around the world to meet them. Now in days gone by, there was an old saying that I’ll try to clean up a bit here, but the basic concept from a blokes point of view was ..... ,
“Fanny will draw you further than dynamite will blow yaâ€
Which I'm sure back then was very true. Now in my case, and most that I know. That whole scenario has changed tremendously. I don’t know about anyone else on here, but I can hardly afford to venture into town once a week to buy the weekly survival rations, let alone pay a kings ransom just to bugger off to a neighbouring town for a bit of what you fancy!!
Do you automatically discount anyone over a certain mileage away from you if searching for a playmate or reading PMs or responses to adverts?
Unfortunately ...Yes
(( .... but only through necessity, or to be brutal, lack of funds. :cry:
How far would you/have you travelled? Can you sustain a long-distance arrangement?
To the ends of the earth, if I had the funds.
I can't accommodate at present so always travel to meets. I've travelled as far north as Newcastle way and as far south as London and pretty much all points in between. I'm not averse to travelling.
My PM BOX is over there>>
Luckily for me, I can accommodate, and to be honest, it’s been my saving factor as far as the whole scene is concerned, ....... oh, and the fact that I have a very large bed and can cook!
What say you, good forum folk?
Read the above and then come bang my brains out??
What?...
OH :shock:
so, i'll give you my angle on this from a purely personal perspective, and here it is, love it or hate it, at least it's honest.
I often see stuff on adverts and profiles that say "Prepared to travel" and then some that say "cannot travel."
Yep, and it’s nice when people are honest about that!
Now, I know there are sometimes practical reasons for not travelling long distances for a meet but do you think distance per se is a passion killer?
I find that a bit of a loaded question to be honest. I have met many ladies online that I have been very passionate about in a purely sexual way :rascal:, and given half a chance would travel half way around the world to meet them. Now in days gone by, there was an old saying that I’ll try to clean up a bit here, but the basic concept from a blokes point of view was ..... ,
“Fanny will draw you further than dynamite will blow yaâ€
Which I'm sure back then was very true. Now in my case, and most that I know. That whole scenario has changed tremendously. I don’t know about anyone else on here, but I can hardly afford to venture into town once a week to buy the weekly survival rations, let alone pay a kings ransom just to bugger off to a neighbouring town for a bit of what you fancy!!
Do you automatically discount anyone over a certain mileage away from you if searching for a playmate or reading PMs or responses to adverts?
Unfortunately ...Yes
(( .... but only through necessity, or to be brutal, lack of funds. :cry:How far would you/have you travelled? Can you sustain a long-distance arrangement?
To the ends of the earth, if I had the funds.
I can't accommodate at present so always travel to meets. I've travelled as far north as Newcastle way and as far south as London and pretty much all points in between. I'm not averse to travelling.
My PM BOX is over there>>
Luckily for me, I can accommodate, and to be honest, it’s been my saving factor as far as the whole scene is concerned, ....... oh, and the fact that I have a very large bed and can cook!
What say you, good forum folk?
Read the above and then come bang my brains out??
What?...
OH :shock:
Sex God
Sadly the no travelling due to lack of funds is going to affect me in the next cpl of weeks as well Pete :-(
Sex God
Quote by Pete_sw
Now in days gone by, there was an old saying that I’ll try to clean up a bit here, but the basic concept from a blokes point of view was ..... ,
“Fanny will draw you further than dynamite will blow yaâ€
Oh Pete, that is soooo funny! I'd love to know what the pre-clean up saying was! :rotflmao:Thanks for the rest of your post too though, much food for thought.
Distance is a factor in our relationship purely for because BMW works in the far east rather a lot, he can be gone for 2 weeks out of 4, but this doesnt dampen the relationship or my feelings for him infact it makes me want to be with him even more when he is home, i look forward to seeing him and being with him, it always turns into some adventure and if i`m honest i`d travel 10 times round the world to see him if thats what it took
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Distance isn't a factor when one uses words to arouse someone. Sensual intimate talk can be conducted half a world away.
Of course it's not the same thing as warm flesh and loving caresses but it does have its charm all the same.
True but it's a shame when the real life stuff doesn't live up to the phone talk
Aaahh, wise words from both - I've been in both situations in the past. And I'm hoping that a current telephonic affairette doesn't fall flat in the flesh! 
Sex God
Quote by varca
A 6 hour, 400 mile round trip by train as often as I can to see one of my lovely lady friendsI always head home with a big grin on my face :twisted:
Years ago I would fly up to Edinburgh a lot to see a couple that I played with.
I seem to remember several trips down south too
Sex God
Quote by varca
A 6 hour, 400 mile round trip by train as often as I can to see one of my lovely lady friends
Years ago I would fly up to Edinburgh a lot to see a couple that I played with.
I seem to remember several trips down south too
:D 400 mile round trips via planes, trains and automobiles
Might be heading for Anglesey in the next few weeks, stand by yer kettle :wink:
Sex God
Quote by varca
A 6 hour, 400 mile round trip by train as often as I can to see one of my lovely lady friends
Years ago I would fly up to Edinburgh a lot to see a couple that I played with.
I seem to remember several trips down south too
:D 400 mile round trips via planes, trains and automobiles
Might be heading for Anglesey in the next few weeks, stand by yer kettle :wink:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Distance isn't a factor when one uses words to arouse someone. Sensual intimate talk can be conducted half a world away.
Of course it's not the same thing as warm flesh and loving caresses but it does have its charm all the same.
True but it's a shame when the real life stuff doesn't live up to the phone talk
There are some people that *can talk the talk* and crap in real life.... myself included
Sex God
Quote by travlinmanukok
I love to travell and accom .........
distance is no problem for the right people .........
for fun the right people distance should allways not be a problem
trav..
Thats all fine and dandy....If you can afford to travel....
Quote by varca
A 6 hour, 400 mile round trip by train as often as I can to see one of my lovely lady friends
Years ago I would fly up to Edinburgh a lot to see a couple that I played with.
I seem to remember several trips down south too
:D 400 mile round trips via planes, trains and automobiles
for varca i would travell to wherever .....she calls i come xxxx
I think i am smitten xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
trav..
Orgasminator
Have car can travel................
Sex God
Quote by Steve
Sadly the no travelling due to lack of funds is going to affect me in the next cpl of weeks as well Pete :-(
Crap innit mate :cry:
Quote by noladreams
Now in days gone by, there was an old saying that I’ll try to clean up a bit here, but the basic concept from a blokes point of view was ..... ,
“Fanny will draw you further than dynamite will blow yaâ€
Oh Pete, that is soooo funny! I'd love to know what the pre-clean up saying was! :rotflmao:Thanks for the rest of your post too though, much food for thought.
Sexpert
Travellings a no no for me cos sat nav says stay in the left hand lane but really means carrry on ahead till u bear left ffs
:confused:
:confused:
Sex God
Quote by sexy1
Travellings a no no for me cos sat nav says stay in the left hand lane but really means carrry on ahead till u bear left ffs
:confused:
LMAO , don't you just love those things?
I have to say the only time mine confuses me is in the city, out in the sticks it's easy peasy. I love putting mine on shortest route and exploring tiny single lane tracks in the middle of nowhere lol.
means you drive slower so use less juice, and see some amazin countryside ;o)
Sexpert
Hte the thing Pete_sw far too distracting lol
and as for exploring the single lane tracks in the middle of nowhere .....well good if your a dogger lol
and as for exploring the single lane tracks in the middle of nowhere .....well good if your a dogger lol
Sex God
Quote by Crashnnix
I travelled when i met nixy - took me 2 hours and i gotta say was worth every mile. I even drove from Aberdeen to see her once after a job had finished and now we're engaged - I say worth it and so does nix if the sex is great and the friendship is there....
:thumbup: Cool story: congrats!
