we often fantasise about a girl joining us (my girl would only want another girl) but worry the reality is not as good as the fantasy.
what do you think?
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Do 3somes ruin your relationship?
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:Quote by bailiffs
i want ffm with me and my partner he's not too keen on the mmf
just do what u both mutally agree on
happy :swingingchair:
I would like mmf and ffm, but my partners not too keen on the mmf either...but as said before, make sure your 100% sure before doing anything, as theres no going back once done.
Lindaxxx
Sex God
Quote by johnsfzr
we often fantasise about a girl joining us (my girl would only want another girl) but worry the reality is not as good as the fantasy.
what do you think?
Impossible to generalise. Only you can be the judges of whether it is appropriate in your relationship. If you're not sure then I'd say don't do it.
Sex God
You should both do what you feel happy with.
I have always enjoyed any mmf or ffm I have had,
And many there be many more to come :twisted:
I have always enjoyed any mmf or ffm I have had,
And many there be many more to come :twisted:
didnt damage ours,weve had i think three threesomes,(it was a party 9 people came 
Warming the Bed
dont do anything that you dont both agree on . If your unsure but would like to talk to people who have tried 3 somes 4 somes or somtimes more somes ( sorry my poetic licence getting the better of me there 
) then try to attend a munch and meet people in a non pressure enviroment , there are always people who will gladly offer advice and answer questions for you so ask . Anyway what ever you decide just have fun .
) then try to attend a munch and meet people in a non pressure enviroment , there are always people who will gladly offer advice and answer questions for you so ask . Anyway what ever you decide just have fun . Quote by johnsfzr
we often fantasise about a girl joining us (my girl would only want another girl) but worry the reality is not as good as the fantasy.
what do you think?
Tell you what... send her round to us and she can try out the FFM thing. If she likes it Mrs Cueball might come round to you and return the favour
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BTW.... :welcome: to the site!
Quote by Kit-Off
I found having a three some helped our relationship. The sex was even better and we seemed more relaxed with each other. Take some time to think about what you will and will not do with the other person. I WOULD recomend it. Next time I am hoping for more to join in any offers?
hope you didnt break the bed
Quote by Ice Pie
we often fantasise about a girl joining us (my girl would only want another girl) but worry the reality is not as good as the fantasy.
what do you think?
Impossible to generalise. Only you can be the judges of whether it is appropriate in your relationship. If you're not sure then I'd say don't do it.
What he said! No -one can tell you what is right or wrong for your relationship - becuase only you can know that! It may be wrong for some, it may be great for others. We are all different!
Quote by Ice Pie
we often fantasise about a girl joining us (my girl would only want another girl) but worry the reality is not as good as the fantasy.
what do you think?
Impossible to generalise. Only you can be the judges of whether it is appropriate in your relationship. If you're not sure then I'd say don't do it.
Agreed, to generalise about a threesomes as being 'good for' or 'bad for' a relationship is foolish. It depends entirely on the individuals involved.
I suppose the fact that there are some 20 million adults in this country and only a scant handful have threesomes (someone work what percentage of adults are members of the site for me please) is an indication that the only really sensible answer is "No, as a rule threesomes are not good for a relationship."
lhk
Kat
lhk
Kat
Sex God
Weve been doing mmf of late ,which is our preference at the moment (that will change soon no doubt) last month it was ffm , before that mfmf, and it has been as good if not better than our fantasies . Personally the mmmmf was the highlight of my swinging career to date 
But as mentioned earlier , if in doubt dont do it . You need to be 100% sure that it is right for you both before doing anything . Talk , make it clear to each other what your limits are. Dont put pressure on anyone to do something that they may not want to do , things can happen in the heat of the moment that could upset either one of you and that could end your swinging days for ever, so try and cover every eventuality. talk , talk , talk, and that way you`ll have loads of fun :D :D :D
But as mentioned earlier , if in doubt dont do it . You need to be 100% sure that it is right for you both before doing anything . Talk , make it clear to each other what your limits are. Dont put pressure on anyone to do something that they may not want to do , things can happen in the heat of the moment that could upset either one of you and that could end your swinging days for ever, so try and cover every eventuality. talk , talk , talk, and that way you`ll have loads of fun :D :D :D 
Orgasminator
We have tried and enjoyed all permutations lol! fmf mfm mfmf mmmf, etc etc. Depends entirely on our mood. We arranged a 3some (fmf) for our wedding night - it was awesome!
Threesomes haven't harmed our relationship in any way - might even have enhanced it! Reaility is much better than the fantasy too but only if you keep a realistic head on your shoulders. Communication is the key; if you aren't really talking - and listening, especially listening - to each other you have a good chance at doing something disasterous to your relationship but it will always be a risk until you try it for real - but some risks are worth taking! Have fun! :happy:
Reaility is much better than the fantasy too but only if you keep a realistic head on your shoulders. Communication is the key; if you aren't really talking - and listening, especially listening - to each other you have a good chance at doing something disasterous to your relationship but it will always be a risk until you try it for real - but some risks are worth taking! Have fun! :happy: 