hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!
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Quote by shaunnw
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!
Definately not - some dominant women do it just for the sheer pleasure of it
Sex God
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.
Quote by well_busty_babe
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.
is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
Sex God
Quote by shaunnw
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.
is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:anyway.. who the hell do you think you are questioning me?? just get on with it.. and dont speak till i tell you to!
Quote by well_busty_babe
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.
is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:anyway.. who the hell do you think you are questioning me?? just get on with it.. and dont speak till i tell you to!
sorry to question you.
i'll get the sandpaper....
Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.
is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:anyway.. who the hell do you think you are questioning me?? just get on with it.. and dont speak till i tell you to!
Hurrah for WBB
now all u need is the butt plug, worn sweaty tights (for a gag) and a cane
Muahahahahaha the sadist in me wants to play
Sex God
Quote by Lil_Bunny
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.
is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:anyway.. who the hell do you think you are questioning me?? just get on with it.. and dont speak till i tell you to!
Hurrah for WBB
now all u need is the butt plug, worn sweaty tights (for a gag) and a cane
Muahahahahaha the sadist in me wants to play
butt plug check
worn sweaty tights last weeks will do
a cane was thinking more of a baseball bate
Sex God
shaun....if you have not yet left for the photo booth............
foxylady and myself have decided that you should also have a large frozen cod pushed up your arse for the photo.
cheers
x
foxylady and myself have decided that you should also have a large frozen cod pushed up your arse for the photo.
cheers
x
Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
shaun....if you have not yet left for the photo booth............
foxylady and myself have decided that you should also have a large frozen cod pushed up your arse for the photo.
cheers
x
Damn wish I'd thought of that! lol
Joking aside, Shaunnw u may have more luck on a site specifically for BDSM lifestylers, and there are plenty about, you may even have a local venue that holds ot's own fetish night
Orgasminator
Anyone can beat someone up or play mind games but who can do it without causing permanent damage? Sometimes it is worth paying to get what you want.
As for the guys who are proponents of 'I don't pay for services'... I bet you do! You pay for your haircut, you pay for your dry cleaning, you pay the waiter in the restaurant and the bartender at the bar, you pay your travel agent, insurance agent, doctor, taxi driver and so on.
As for people asking for money via this site, they are wasting their time. There are better places to hook up with a client and you won't be messed up either.
As for the guys who are proponents of 'I don't pay for services'... I bet you do! You pay for your haircut, you pay for your dry cleaning, you pay the waiter in the restaurant and the bartender at the bar, you pay your travel agent, insurance agent, doctor, taxi driver and so on.
As for people asking for money via this site, they are wasting their time. There are better places to hook up with a client and you won't be messed up either.
Quote by Tania
Anyone can beat someone up or play mind games but who can do it without causing permanent damage? Sometimes it is worth paying to get what you want.
As for the guys who are proponents of 'I don't pay for services'... I bet you do! You pay for your haircut, you pay for your dry cleaning, you pay the waiter in the restaurant and the bartender at the bar, you pay your travel agent, insurance agent, doctor, taxi driver and so on.
As for people asking for money via this site, they are wasting their time. There are better places to hook up with a client and you won't be messed up either.
What she said!
Quote by Lil_Bunny
shaun....if you have not yet left for the photo booth............
foxylady and myself have decided that you should also have a large frozen cod pushed up your arse for the photo.
cheers
x
Damn wish I'd thought of that! lol
Joking aside, Shaunnw u may have more luck on a site specifically for BDSM lifestylers, and there are plenty about, you may even have a local venue that holds ot's own fetish night
We were NOT joking!!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Sex God
I am a dominant woman (well in training anyway lol) and I wouldn't charge, although I was chatting to someone on the chatroom recently who offered to pay me (quite large amounts of money!) and I was shocked by the offer.
He said for him the paying was part of being dominated and that he did it regulary, at least once a week, and enjoyed the 'professional' experience.
I'm sure you will find someone eventually who will enjoy it was much as you, either on here or a specialist site. If you want a truly 'professional' experience tho, then according to this guy anyway, you will be paying a lot for it!
Good luck and happy hunting!
He said for him the paying was part of being dominated and that he did it regulary, at least once a week, and enjoyed the 'professional' experience.
I'm sure you will find someone eventually who will enjoy it was much as you, either on here or a specialist site. If you want a truly 'professional' experience tho, then according to this guy anyway, you will be paying a lot for it!
Good luck and happy hunting!
Orgasminator
Quote by mistress_sassy
He said for him the paying was part of being dominated and that he did it regulary, at least once a week, and enjoyed the 'professional' experience.
He is BS you. Very few people can afford a session once a week. Those who canafford it are usually too busy making money to have time to spend with a pro Domme each and everyweek.
Be very careful of such men, especially since you are in training. What seems to you as a lot of money now is probably peanuts compared to what a pro would charge. And they know you are a newbie and WILL try and get advantage of you. It is very easy to get corrupted in this world and end up selling your soul. Be very careful, be alert and be a bit suspicious of men offering to help you find your feet.
Quote by shaunnw
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!
As has already been mentioned Shaun, not all Dominant women charge for their services and if you keep looking (in the right places) you will eventually find what you are looking for.
I enjoy the D/s lifestyle and have been discovering it for over 2 years now. My advice is do to some reading on the subject matter before you actually throw yourself into anything especially if you are sure you will not enjoy it and no matter what anyone says it is supposed to be enjoyable.....it is still a two way thing even with a Dom/sub relationship.
I can pm you a few of the sites I use if you wish....just let me know
Orgasminator
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So I guess that fucks up the foot fetishists tonight then.
Mmm, foot fetishists! Best way to a woman's knickers is via her feet!
Quote by John_Lancs
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!
As has already been mentioned Shaun, not all Dominant women charge for their services and if you keep looking (in the right places) you will eventually find what you are looking for.
I enjoy the D/s lifestyle and have been discovering it for over 2 years now. My advice is do to some reading on the subject matter before you actually throw yourself into anything especially if you are sure you will not enjoy it and no matter what anyone says it is supposed to be enjoyable.....it is still a two way thing even with a Dom/sub relationship.
I can pm you a few of the sites I use if you wish....just let me know
i'd really apreciate that, cheers!
Quote by shaunnw
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!
As has already been mentioned Shaun, not all Dominant women charge for their services and if you keep looking (in the right places) you will eventually find what you are looking for.
I enjoy the D/s lifestyle and have been discovering it for over 2 years now. My advice is do to some reading on the subject matter before you actually throw yourself into anything especially if you are sure you will not enjoy it and no matter what anyone says it is supposed to be enjoyable.....it is still a two way thing even with a Dom/sub relationship.
I can pm you a few of the sites I use if you wish....just let me know
i'd really apreciate that, cheers!
I'd really appreciate it too if anyone could tell me where to begin.
Orgasminator
mouffe
If you are quite sure you want to get involved in such things, a good place to start is chatrooms. I am sure people there will be able to put you on the right path.
If you are quite sure you want to get involved in such things, a good place to start is chatrooms. I am sure people there will be able to put you on the right path.
