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do all dominant women charge for their services?

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shaunnw
Warming the Bed
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!
Lil_Bunny
Sex God
Quote by shaunnw
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!

Definately not - some dominant women do it just for the sheer pleasure of it
shaunnw
Warming the Bed
there has been a few off this site, through the photo ads section- there seems to be a lot more timewasters that use that part!
kristof
Orgasminator
I'll float my boat along with you here steph, anybody as is trying to charge for services rendered needs a public booting .
And yeah, if they are with you it should be because they want to be with you
foxylady__123
Sex God
In this instance , is the paying of the money not part of the being dominated experience?
I dont know not my thing, but thought it may have been!!
well_busty_babe
Sex God
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.
Miss__Red
Sex God
btw its D for Dominant not d sorry just my correction head on
shaunnw
Warming the Bed
Quote by well_busty_babe
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.

is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
well_busty_babe
Sex God
Quote by shaunnw
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.

is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
anyway.. who the hell do you think you are questioning me?? just get on with it.. and dont speak till i tell you to!
shaunnw
Warming the Bed
Quote by well_busty_babe
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.

is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
anyway.. who the hell do you think you are questioning me?? just get on with it.. and dont speak till i tell you to!
sorry to question you.
i'll get the sandpaper....
Lil_Bunny
Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.

is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
anyway.. who the hell do you think you are questioning me?? just get on with it.. and dont speak till i tell you to!
Hurrah for WBB
now all u need is the butt plug, worn sweaty tights (for a gag) and a cane
Muahahahahaha the sadist in me wants to play
well_busty_babe
Sex God
Quote by Lil_Bunny
out of the goodness of my heart i will dominate you!!!!!!!!!!!
no charge
your first order is to post a picture of yourself taken in a public photo booth,
in it you must be wearing nothing but a set of rosary beads, and a toilet roll tube lined with sandpaper on your cock.
in order to prove to me that it was indeed a public photo booth.. i wantthe little curtain left open...... and the passers by left in the shot.
please also be holding a copy of todays newspaper.

is that all you want me to do??
you could atleast make it a bit more challenging!
rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
anyway.. who the hell do you think you are questioning me?? just get on with it.. and dont speak till i tell you to!
Hurrah for WBB
now all u need is the butt plug, worn sweaty tights (for a gag) and a cane
Muahahahahaha the sadist in me wants to play
butt plug check
worn sweaty tights last weeks will do
a cane was thinking more of a baseball bate confused lol
well_busty_babe
Sex God
shaun....if you have not yet left for the photo booth............
foxylady and myself have decided that you should also have a large frozen cod pushed up your arse for the photo.
cheers
x
Lil_Bunny
Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
shaun....if you have not yet left for the photo booth............
foxylady and myself have decided that you should also have a large frozen cod pushed up your arse for the photo.
cheers
x

Damn wish I'd thought of that! lol
Joking aside, Shaunnw u may have more luck on a site specifically for BDSM lifestylers, and there are plenty about, you may even have a local venue that holds ot's own fetish night
Tania
Orgasminator
Anyone can beat someone up or play mind games but who can do it without causing permanent damage? Sometimes it is worth paying to get what you want.
As for the guys who are proponents of 'I don't pay for services'... I bet you do! You pay for your haircut, you pay for your dry cleaning, you pay the waiter in the restaurant and the bartender at the bar, you pay your travel agent, insurance agent, doctor, taxi driver and so on.
As for people asking for money via this site, they are wasting their time. There are better places to hook up with a client and you won't be messed up either. wink
Vix
Sex God
Quote by Tania
Anyone can beat someone up or play mind games but who can do it without causing permanent damage? Sometimes it is worth paying to get what you want.
As for the guys who are proponents of 'I don't pay for services'... I bet you do! You pay for your haircut, you pay for your dry cleaning, you pay the waiter in the restaurant and the bartender at the bar, you pay your travel agent, insurance agent, doctor, taxi driver and so on.
As for people asking for money via this site, they are wasting their time. There are better places to hook up with a client and you won't be messed up either. wink

What she said!
foxylady__123
Sex God
Quote by Lil_Bunny
shaun....if you have not yet left for the photo booth............
foxylady and myself have decided that you should also have a large frozen cod pushed up your arse for the photo.
cheers
x

Damn wish I'd thought of that! lol
Joking aside, Shaunnw u may have more luck on a site specifically for BDSM lifestylers, and there are plenty about, you may even have a local venue that holds ot's own fetish night
We were NOT joking!!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
mistress_sassy
Sex God
I am a dominant woman (well in training anyway lol) and I wouldn't charge, although I was chatting to someone on the chatroom recently who offered to pay me (quite large amounts of money!) and I was shocked by the offer.
He said for him the paying was part of being dominated and that he did it regulary, at least once a week, and enjoyed the 'professional' experience.
I'm sure you will find someone eventually who will enjoy it was much as you, either on here or a specialist site. If you want a truly 'professional' experience tho, then according to this guy anyway, you will be paying a lot for it!
Good luck and happy hunting!
duncanlondon
Sex God
Professionals charge for their services. Women often dominate by collecting debts, financial, emotional, psychological.
Tania
Orgasminator
Quote by mistress_sassy
He said for him the paying was part of being dominated and that he did it regulary, at least once a week, and enjoyed the 'professional' experience.

He is BS you. Very few people can afford a session once a week. Those who canafford it are usually too busy making money to have time to spend with a pro Domme each and everyweek.
Be very careful of such men, especially since you are in training. What seems to you as a lot of money now is probably peanuts compared to what a pro would charge. And they know you are a newbie and WILL try and get advantage of you. It is very easy to get corrupted in this world and end up selling your soul. Be very careful, be alert and be a bit suspicious of men offering to help you find your feet.
Dave__Notts
Sex God
Quote by Tania
Be very careful, be alert and be a bit suspicious of men offering to help you find your feet.

I can help out here................
They are at the end of your legs........................ok ...........I'll get my coat
Dave_Notts
Unknown User
OOO FFS get you self on ya knees!..............NOW
duncanlondon
Sex God
So I guess that fucks up the foot fetishists tonight then.
redstilletto
Sex God
smackbottom
yeah what debbie said
and lick my boots clean........................... :welcome:
John_Lancs
Sexlightened
Quote by shaunnw
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!

As has already been mentioned Shaun, not all Dominant women charge for their services and if you keep looking (in the right places) you will eventually find what you are looking for.
I enjoy the D/s lifestyle and have been discovering it for over 2 years now. My advice is do to some reading on the subject matter before you actually throw yourself into anything especially if you are sure you will not enjoy it and no matter what anyone says it is supposed to be enjoyable.....it is still a two way thing even with a Dom/sub relationship.
I can pm you a few of the sites I use if you wish....just let me know
Tania
Orgasminator
Quote by duncanlondon
So I guess that fucks up the foot fetishists tonight then.

Mmm, foot fetishists! Best way to a woman's knickers is via her feet! wink
shaunnw
Warming the Bed
Quote by well_busty_babe
shaun....if you have not yet left for the photo booth............
foxylady and myself have decided that you should also have a large frozen cod pushed up your arse for the photo.
cheers
x

why dont we spice things up a bit and make it a swordfish?
shaunnw
Warming the Bed
Quote by John_Lancs
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!

As has already been mentioned Shaun, not all Dominant women charge for their services and if you keep looking (in the right places) you will eventually find what you are looking for.
I enjoy the D/s lifestyle and have been discovering it for over 2 years now. My advice is do to some reading on the subject matter before you actually throw yourself into anything especially if you are sure you will not enjoy it and no matter what anyone says it is supposed to be enjoyable.....it is still a two way thing even with a Dom/sub relationship.
I can pm you a few of the sites I use if you wish....just let me know
i'd really apreciate that, cheers!
Mouffe
Warming the Bed
Quote by shaunnw
hi, just wandering if there are any women out there who actually enjoy dominating men and dont just do it because they get paid to do it?
i've been looking for a dominant female to explore my submissive side but can't seem to find anyone genuine, and of the odd few that have been in touch , they have asked for money!
i've nothing against people that charge for their 'services' but it just doen't turn me on knowing that the only reason a woman is with you is because you are paying them!

As has already been mentioned Shaun, not all Dominant women charge for their services and if you keep looking (in the right places) you will eventually find what you are looking for.
I enjoy the D/s lifestyle and have been discovering it for over 2 years now. My advice is do to some reading on the subject matter before you actually throw yourself into anything especially if you are sure you will not enjoy it and no matter what anyone says it is supposed to be enjoyable.....it is still a two way thing even with a Dom/sub relationship.
I can pm you a few of the sites I use if you wish....just let me know
i'd really apreciate that, cheers!
I'd really appreciate it too if anyone could tell me where to begin.
Tania
Orgasminator
mouffe
If you are quite sure you want to get involved in such things, a good place to start is chatrooms. I am sure people there will be able to put you on the right path.