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do bi fems really play on their own?

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now! i'm not 1 complain,but from what i hear, most cpl's have the same problem of finding a bi fem to play on her own
i realise they hold all the cards and can pick and choose,but would be nice if just 1 nice bi fem would choose us lol.
this is the first time on ere,can u tell? confused
howay give it time blend in ,there are a lot of bi fems in here ,you just cant join and get a free 1,we have met few off here ,but its the way you sell yourselves get posting in forums ,get ya post count up join in be funny interesting don't try n piss ppl off get into chat its all about making new Friend's as well as playmate any way got to dash its my turn with the bi fem lol see ya
thanks for the advice,
better read up on how to win friends and influence people lol
must try harder not too piss people off lol
god i'ts a list!!
I am the bi fem half of a couple and yes i indeed do meet on my own as well as with the hubby.
lend us your mrs for the night and you can have ours wink
lol
Mine quite regularly plays without me, BUT i always drop her off and pick her up for safety.
And its normally only with people we have a rappor with, so the advise above is the best, get chatting, get to a munch too maybe (I haven't been to a munch yet, so haven't had that pleasure)
Mingle, mingle, mingle and before you know it, you'll be beating 'em off with a stick poke (I know thats more of a poke)
the trouble is,when you got 3 kids at home that won't leave you or the computer alone for more than 10 mins,it's hard to find the time to hav a decent chat with welsh bicpl there's too many strange people out there to let her go on her own to people you don't know,sometimes it's not about sex, summer has just played with a woman for the first time,as a mmff,and loved it,but thinks mff would be more intimate for her(does that make sense)? as long as she's happy,i don't care lol
what's a munch?
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what's a munch?

A munch is a purely social event held in a totally neutral environment, often somewhere like a pub, where members of Swinging Heaven get to meet each other. As there's no play involved everyone can relax which gives newbies a chance to ask questions of the more experienced without any fear of getting jumped on, and gives the regulars time to catch-up with old friends and make new ones.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html
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the trouble is,when you got 3 kids at home that won't leave you or the computer alone for more than 10 mins,it's hard to find the time to hav a decent chat with welsh bicpl there's too many strange people out there to let her go on her own to people you don't know,sometimes it's not about sex, summer has just played with a woman for the first time,as a mmff,and loved it,but thinks mff would be more intimate for her(does that make sense)? as long as she's happy,i don't care lol
what's a munch?

Well if you/your wife (whoever I am talking to there) won't go to a meet on their own then why expect others to do so???
I certainly wouldn't meet a couple I didn't know in their house away from where I lived for safety.
If you won't do it yourself then don't chastise others for having the same concerns as you do.
confused Gem. x
Do bi fems really play on their own?
No not all the time - it would get pretty boring. I always try to have other people involved :twisted: lol
aint chastising any1 and no! we don't expect anything from any1,
feeling very told off now! lol thanks gem xx lol
do you know when you wish u'd never said anything lol
hiya
im part of a cpl
and i play as a single bifem so yes they do play on there own smile
thanks jo x
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aint chastising any1 and no! we don't expect anything from any1,
feeling very told off now! lol thanks gem xx lol
do you know when you wish u'd never said anything lol

No probs. kiss
I feel like I wish I hadn't said anything many times. lol
now we know what a munch is, sounds like be gr8 to have a chat with people on or near the same wavelength lol
who came up with munch? lol
must c the doctor for some more pills for my chronic case of foot in mouth!! redface
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welsh bicpl there's too many strange people out there to let her go on her own

but your asking for single bi women to meet you alone :!:
so by your own standards single bi women should not play alone cause its unsafe??
Hmmm. Do bi fems play alone? rolleyes
Alone as in on my lonesome? - No. Never. Not once officer. :gagged:
Alone as in without a guy? - Absolutely not. Disgusting. And so slimy and slippery and wet..... sillyhwoar:
Alone as in with no chaperone? - Is it safe out there? :shock:
I play on my own every night :rascal: ........... but as has already been said, it is nice to play with others every now and again..... trouble is, I just can't get the staff these days rotflmao
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I play on my own every night :rascal: ........... but as has already been said, it is nice to play with others every now and again..... trouble is, I just can't get the staff these days rotflmao

or maybe your not off SH long enough biggrin
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maybe your not off SH long enough biggrin

Oh I think Blue can probably multitask.... lol
Quote by SunBunny
maybe your not off SH long enough biggrin

Oh I think Blue can probably multitask.... lol
Noooooooooo, I'm rubbish at multi-tasking, that's why I always wait for the adverts before I have a wank redface surprisedops: :oops: .......... amd hey, thank the great lord Mark for SH and my sex life :grin:
Plenty of bi fems on here - but, speaking from my own personal view, we like the time to get to know people a bit more. I HAVE to feel totally comfortable with both sides of a couple before I go any further. Just hang around and get to know people - let the fems find out a bit about you is my advice!
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oh i dont know bluexx i think your capable of multitasking....
ill ask denise when we meet up next....
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now! i'm not 1 complain,but from what i hear, most cpl's have the same problem of finding a bi fem to play on her own
i realise they hold all the cards and can pick and choose,but would be nice if just 1 nice bi fem would choose us lol.
this is the first time on ere,can u tell? confused

Surely that should be in LMU its obviously a veiled invite for pms from Bi Fems.
y is it obvous? it's just a simple fact!! it would be nice lol not saying it's going to or should happen of course,
Quote by Rainbows
Plenty of bi fems on here - but, speaking from my own personal view, we like the time to get to know people a bit more. I HAVE to feel totally comfortable with both sides of a couple before I go any further. Just hang around and get to know people - let the fems find out a bit about you is my advice!
:color: aRSexx

we're exactly the same, we would want to get to know people before ever thinking about meeting them,then just drinks to see how every1 gets along,
but thanks for the advice smile
sets personal reminder>>>>>>> keep big mouth shut in future!!
I play on my own but only with other females
and yeah i do like to get to know a person first, best way and saves embarrassment lol
Looks like there's plenty of us here
Just can't see each other :shock: lol
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im a bi f having trouble finding a couple to join in with !!

blimey! never thought i'd hear that lol but we'll do the honourable thing, and chat to ya if you like, who knows where it will lead lol