Do meet-ups truly happen?

Totally with you on single guys being scared of clubs .. we frequent a few, and find a club invite is a good filter, we also invite guys for socials .... that filters a fair few out......

4 years and only one meet so far so not that successful for me

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4 years and only one meet so far so not that successful for me

Took me 11 years to get my first meet but it was my last as Im now married to her.

This is my second registration to this site. The first produced one meet in 4 years until I met a lady to live with (not from this site).

This time I am some years older and I rate the chances of a meet as zero, unless anyone has other ideas.

As has been discussed before I have had 1 meet with a lovely couple in 2 years. I understand why couples and ladies are reticent but it’s always about being respectful thoughtful and genuine.

I have met twice from this site and had a great time, I’m would like to start meeting again

Quote by Geordiecpl2001

Going back a lot of years SH meets and munches etc were excellent. Unfortunately the "critical mass" of the active members has dissipated and faded to nothing. We still get, very rarely a meet from here.

Our problem is that we only meet new people at clubs. So many people might contact us, then we say OK, meet you at xyz club and play there....................................then.....................................tumbleweed.

So many "single" men are scared to go to a club it seems.

I've been curious about clubs in the past, but always thought the competition would be so high that I wondered if it's worth it.

Let's face it, single women are the ticket for most couples, or so it seems.