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Do men sexually prefer women who dress like a tart?

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Quote by davej
Nope don't like it at all and actually find it an embarassment to be around. There's a world of difference in being sexy and tarty and I've very rarely seen the two combine well.

In the main I agree Dave, with maybe certain exceptions. There is one tarty look you might make an exception for:

A pineapple tart. lol :lol:
Personally, I like to see a woman in a short shirt, which shows off her shapely legs
And a very low top, showing lots of cleavage
So, yeah, I guess, I like a woman to dress slutty
NC
My lover must be a rarity then as he hates me to wear tarty clothes but likes me in a business suit ... I think he likes his presents wrapped and prefers to image whats in the package before unwrapping it rather than have the wrapping paper half off before he starts biggrin
But then again he may be just weird
DD
dunno, depends really, sometimes its a real turn on but others its going too far. depends on moods i think!
I think this is sort of like a guy asking if women prefer guys with big dicks. (Of course, judging by the SH Ads, the answer would be a resounding yes). Almost anything you'd say to that (ie, "sometimes", "it's a fantasy",etc would be true here.
Speaking as a guy, I'd say the answer is yes, but not always. Men are visual, and the instant impact can be arousing, but it's a very shallow, immediate kind of thing (nice, though). Doesn't mean I'm more attracted to such a person or the sex is better or anything, (unless it's a guy who totallly gets off on the sluttiness factor).
It can also be an ego thing for a lot of guys "Ooh..she's hot and tarty..I want her..but she's so hot..so I want to prove I can have her.."...
C
Personally, in a non-swinging situation, I'm most attracted to a woman who's dressed smartly, almost business-like. A blouse and a tight skirt that goes below the knee and is complemented by sheer stockings.
Basket Case
I really dont mind
if there's an attraction then any look will do biggrin
depends n the situation but a buisness suit can do it and there are lots of clothes that women look good in especially jeans
but yes i like the tarty look too its a time and a place thing
I try and have many looks from sexy, elegant and dressing like a tart sillyhwoar:
All are easy, fun and very useful :thumbup:
I have great fun with the hippy look :color:
I just cant stop buying underwear just for Dino of course.
Being naked is by far my favourite way to dress. lol
I dont like myself in a suit, Not for me. confused
I like my men to be rugged and ready looking :rascal:
Men in suits, not for me bolt
h, red x
much prefer subtlety....it makes the thrill of thechase more exciting
Depends on who it is dressing like a tart, it works so well for some people and is very alluring. Others will never make it work.
Quote by HornyRed
I try and have many looks from sexy, elegant and dressing like a tart sillyhwoar:
All are easy, fun and very useful :thumbup:
I have great fun with the hippy look :color:
I just cant stop buying underwear just for Dino of course.
Being naked is by far my favourite way to dress. lol
I dont like myself in a suit, Not for me. confused
I like my men to be rugged and ready looking :rascal:
Men in suits, not for me bolt
h, red x

i have to agree with you its called trial and error and most times whatever you have on men always try and undress you in there minds anyway lol
I don't think i dress tarty...........i may show a bit of clevage.....but i like to dress smart and classy!
now in the bed room thats a different thing! :twisted:
As for men..well i like smart casual wear..............and a bit trendy.......... but as for men in suits .........not my cupper of tea really............they look nice don't get me wrong but YEP prefer Ca's!
Oo and i like a good pair of shoes or boots on there feet....... ( hey daveJ ).....ooo and i do not like trainers.......
DaveJ loves his shoes if no one new!.........can see ya face in them :shock:
as long as the person is happy and comfortable with what they have on, then so am i.
as for the dreeing tarty, i think that is ok in the right circumstances...
but no preferences from me redface
Quote by norfolkbigirl
Whatever you have on men always try and undress you in there minds anyway lol

This is preciously what i trying and wanting to achieve :thumbup:
Then i can be so naughty and Flirttatious as i please.
H, red x
Quote by Debbiewebs
I don't think i dress tarty.
he he he your the biggest tarty dressed tart on SH, you must be really blind rolleyes
...i may show a bit of clevage..
OMG you have no idea. They dangle down to your knees, spilling out everywhere they are ...but i like to dress smart and classy.
Classy my :kissmyarse: :shock: do you know what it means, cos you dont show any at all :roll: your so funny to believe all this rubbish.
Quote by HornyRed
I don't think i dress tarty.
he he he your the biggest tarty dressed tart on SH, you must be really blind rolleyes
...i may show a bit of clevage..
OMG you have no idea. They dangle down to your knees, spilling out everywhere they are ...but i like to dress smart and classy.
Classy my :kissmyarse: :shock: do you know what it means, cos you dont show any at all :roll: your so funny to believe all this rubbish.

OI cow breath! smackbottom you wait till i get hold of ya at Marks!....you will not be wearing any clothes time i finished with ya
Hmmm...
Not sure I like tarty if we're talking Viv Windsor/Emmerdale tarty...
I am a bit of a voyeur though, and that hint of something sexy really gets me going...woman in a business suit with just that extra couple of buttons undone on the blouse during a meeting is a sure fire way for me to not get my job done!
I think its generally about the way it's carried off, and as has already been said in the thread, you can go out on a Friday night and see some examples of just waaaaay too much on show.
Classy and sexy for me then mostly, but thats not to say tarty hasnt got its place...
Quote by Debbiewebs
I don't think i dress tarty.
he he he your the biggest tarty dressed tart on SH, you must be really blind rolleyes
...i may show a bit of clevage..
OMG you have no idea. They dangle down to your knees, spilling out everywhere they are ...but i like to dress smart and classy.
Classy my :kissmyarse: :shock: do you know what it means, cos you dont show any at all :roll: your so funny to believe all this rubbish.

OI cow breath! smackbottom you wait till i get hold of ya at Marks!....you will not be wearing any clothes time i finished with ya
Now now ladies! I am assuming you are both jesting. biggrin
Quote by Debbiewebs
I don't think i dress tarty.
he he he your the biggest tarty dressed tart on SH, you must be really blind rolleyes
...i may show a bit of clevage..
OMG you have no idea. They dangle down to your knees, spilling out everywhere they are ...but i like to dress smart and classy.
Classy my :kissmyarse: :shock: do you know what it means, cos you dont show any at all :roll: your so funny to believe all this rubbish.

OI cow breath! smackbottom you wait till i get hold of ya at Marks!....you will not be wearing any clothes time i finished with ya
H'Red will be happy then :twisted:
I like a woman who is well turned out and where my imagination can go to work - "tartie" stuff doesn't do it for me generally!
Smart suits or blouses where the buttons are open just enough for a hint of breast. Skirts just above the knee with plenty of calf on show with a hint of what's above hte knee.......
Getting carried away now!
of course men like women to dress like a tart, but i think its more fun dressing in nice respectable clothing with sexy undies on, and that way you can keep them guessing smile
def depends on the mood and environment for work smart and classy a nice fitted suit etc, weekends jeans and a nice white fitted t-shirt can also look plain but with a hint of sexiness.
some peeps can get away with wearing anything whilst the rest of us struggle like hell
have to say for what its worth that good posture makes a whole world of difference to any outfit.
oh I think you'd get away with most things biggrin
If a tart dresses in high heels, short skirts and low tops, then I'm a tart..........even at work!!
Shame on me!
I prefer Tarts who dress like women lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by Baggy Boy
I prefer Tarts who dress like women lol :lol: :lol: :lol:

Dammy will be delighted :lol:
One males point of view, as the question said sexually, yes, I do prefer women who dress a little tarty, nice underwear and stockings add to the sense of a little mystery for me. That said, I know one middle aged lady who dresses in a smart jacket and skirt suit with a blouse , all supplied as a company uniform by a well known posh shop she works for. She hates tights, so wears hold up stockings and nice shoes. She is the first to admit she hasnt got a model figure, but lots of the guys she works with are tripping over themselves to get her attentions. Recently, she had some problems when one particular guy who is only still a teenager became totally obsessed with her, so maybe tarty isnt the way to go???????
Personally I believe a woman should dress as she feels comfortable and confident with. This way she will be far more relaxed, and this is far more attractive to me than someone who feels self concious and uncomfortable.
Quote by Vix
sad OMG Maia, you been looking at my pics again? :(

I think what you're wearing is lovely Vix, but I also like a woman in a nice tight dress (preferably black and low cut) or a business suit.
I ain't really got the body to be dressing tarty so a pair of old jeans and a jumper will have to do if you meet me :lol2: