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do single guys get much on here??

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what i really mean is that most on here seem to be couples who are looking for couples. ive read some posts on single guys on here and think that some see them as a nuisance..is this true??
My god laddie you are going for it big time with your posts tonight! lol
Everyone has their own opinions and experiences with single guys. I for one have had no problems with them.......except for that irritating Happy Cats.... wink
Its up to you to make a good impression.
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must be all my nervous energy amber....as i say i have a gf who is open minded but isnt wanting to swing at the moment but maybe in the future...the good thing for me is that she will let me swing...hooray
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My god laddie you are going for it big time with your posts tonight! lol
Everyone has their own opinions and experiences with single guys. I for one have had no problems with them.......except for that irritating Happy Cats.... wink
Its up to you to make a good impression.
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Read the sig Scots lad and ignore the bed wetter!
The single guys I have met off this site have a wonderful time :P :P
Some have even been known to have 3somes :shock:
I like single guys :twisted:
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I think it would be wise when entering such a thriving board as this to actually read through it a bit before making a statement like that . It get a bit dull hearing 'pre-complaints' from people who havent really made any effort.
i would be gutted if i thought people thought i was a nuisance !! :cry:
Yes some couples & females do want to meet up with single guys
Everybody has there personal prefrances that they want to meet up with each to there own
granted some people are a bit blunt when they let you know they are not interested in you because you do not have a female partner
Lots of couples & females meet single guys but most do not avertise or openly admit it as they prefer to get to know guys first with out the rush and pressure
1 of the problems genuine guys face is lots of other guys think that swingers sites are instant sex shops and go about it in a rushed crude disrespectfull fashion
This then makes couples & females a bit more weary about letting the new guys get to know them
The best way to meet people is chat regular in the MAIN chat room post regular in the forums and get to a few munches they are superb
I find if you get to know people with out any pressure & over a period of time you can tell if they are interested in meeting up with you or not before you broach the subject
Yes
Best of luck
Bi-Guy-Notts
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i would be gutted if i thought people thought i was a nuisance !! :cry:

Well of course you're a damn nuisance 34fun .. wouldn't have you any other way lol
DD
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what i really mean is that most on here seem to be couples who are looking for couples. ive read some posts on single guys on here and think that some see them as a nuisance..is this true??

Yes, all single guys are a nuisance... end of wink
You get back what you put in, in my experience.... so to speak :twisted: smile
I meet single guys but its like anything in life, you get out of it what you put into it.........most people on here like to get to know people a little b4 they meet so if your looking for quick meets the chances are it wont happen unless your very luck and find a woman/couple after the same, if your willing to take your time and get known then some guys do very well wink
Personally I'm not really interested in meeting single guys online, because if I do want to meet up with a single guy they're not that tricky to get - go to any club or bar and I can find a random guy to go to bed with.
When I'm looking for ppl online I tend to look for single f, or ff, mm or mf couples as these tend to either be harder to find or from smaller populations, particularly when its just recreational sex - the lesbian scene isn't nearly as cruisey as the gay male scene sad
be patient is what im getting back from most on here , thanks for the help as i said im new to swinging so you have all been great helping
When I'm looking for ppl online I tend to look for single f, or ff, mm or mf couples as these tend to either be harder to find or from smaller populations, particularly when its just recreational sex - the lesbian scene isn't nearly as cruisey as the gay male scene

true true. When i was in a swinging r/ship it wasn't difficult getting a single man to join us but now that the table is turned, i quite appreciate the situation and as such i take this site with a pinch of salt. Just going with the flow and if i get anything, then it's a bonus but am not pushy, just chillin!!!.
My present g/f wants to try female love but as it will be her 1st time, she is quite fussy and we 've been talking about this for close to a year now but neither one of us is desperate to actualise her fantasy and mine. if it happens it happens amd if it doesn't......well life goes on!
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i would be gutted if i thought people thought i was a nuisance !! :cry:

Well of course you're a damn nuisance 34fun .. wouldn't have you any other way lol
DD
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be patient is what im getting back from most on here , thanks for the help as i said im new to swinging so you have all been great helping

Nope, being patient is something you do in a queue or become in a hospital. Joining in getting known and making yourself known is much better.
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in answer to the title of this thread
YEP
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I can only say this from my own experience, but I think single guys profiles seem to be fair game for every pay-to-view web cam site on the plannet and every fake female profile trying to get you to go to another web site to see them. !

Then use anonymous email on your advert and take your email address out of you advert blurb... simple as. rolleyes
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I can only say this from my own experience, but I think single guys profiles seem to be fair game for every pay-to-view web cam site on the plannet and every fake female profile trying to get you to go to another web site to see them. !

Then use anonymous email on your advert and take your email address out of you advert blurb... simple as. rolleyes
Did that kitten wink at me or am I just drunk and ready for sleep?
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I can only say this from my own experience, but I think single guys profiles seem to be fair game for every pay-to-view web cam site on the plannet and every fake female profile trying to get you to go to another web site to see them. !

Then use anonymous email on your advert and take your email address out of you advert blurb... simple as. rolleyes
Did that kitten wink at me or am I just drunk and ready for sleep?
Be careful or you'll have everyone staring at postie's pussy again. lol
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what i really mean is that most on here seem to be couples who are looking for couples. ive read some posts on single guys on here and think that some see them as a nuisance..is this true??

I think some people do look down upon single guys for being single. I remember at a meet once being asked if I had a girlfriend and honestly replying "no, not currently", to then be treated with a slight contempt (if no other woman wants you, why should I).
There are a multitude of reasons why some guys are single. Mine is I don't believe I've met the right person, even though I meet lots of single women everyday, I rarely feel I want to be in a relationship with them.
Oh...... how could someone be that disparaging of someone else????? There really is no need for anyone to do that. If someone said to me that they didn't currently have a girl-friend..... it means nothing, certainly not that they're un-wanted, or not good enough.... thats just sheer cruelty..
equi-princess xxx
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i would be gutted if i thought people thought i was a nuisance !! :cry:

Your not a nuisance.....well ok maybe a little lol ..........no your a good chap!
Shaz x
i have never had any problems in the past,
but now i have a very special friend with whom i swing with on a regular basis, not exclusivly, we do like to share wink :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: