DO SINGLE MEN NEED HELP??????

21 Mar 2005

OK hi all
time to post my first topic havent checked so could be a duplicate.
I have noticed that all no! most new single men apeare to be kept at arms length until thay get " known",on the sit. Yes I must admit I can see why,
MY question is whot is the best way to get known,i ask this qu. for all newbies out there.
ok let ripe,time I think to put on my body armer,please constructive posts pls
phil
P.S posted in wronge section redface

ops: dont now haw to move help.

21 Mar 2005

i really think we should start a single mans Union the SMU would be ideal
where we can discuss and help other guys so we don`t fell like outcasts

21 Mar 2005

Good question, chaps.
I think the 'proof' that is required comes in many forms: Being able to hold a conversation, without it generating into "When am I gonna get laid?" ; When meeting IRL, not expecting it to be a guaranteed fuck; showing respect and courtesy to everyone else; not thinkng the world owes you anything, let alone everything;
Oh, I think I'll stop now, but if you get to know some of the single guys who are accepted and loved, on here, you might get the gist... read their stuff, look back at their old posts...
Good luck!

21 Mar 2005

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21 Mar 2005

vix if you where a bloke you could join are union :P

21 Mar 2005

We don't need help mate, we need less of us! I therefore suggest that ALL other single straight guys bugger off now. That way big Pete from Brighton gets a chance! biggrin

You all take care now!!! lol

21 Mar 2005

I don't think I need any help. I just act like myself. I'm sure some people like this while I'm equally sure that others think I'm a bit of a prick. C'est la vie.

21 Mar 2005

Quote by philg
MY question is whot is the best way to get known.

Crimewatch!

21 Mar 2005

Quote by nomis123
vix if you where a bloke you could join are union :P

Awww, and I would.
On the other point.. I like single men. As has been said, I wouldn't get very far in my quest for MMF's without 'em.
Some single women scare the hell outta me, as I know how aggressive they can be, but it always takes me by surprise!

21 Mar 2005

DO SINGLE MEN NEED HELP??????

Yes, and there are a lot of lovely ladies on this site who do help them :twisted: :twisted:

21 Mar 2005

Ok I know i'm not hugley regular on here but being gyourself and not acting like an arse probably goes along way!! biggrin

Also taking part and contributing and as Vix said not expecting to get instantly laid :shock:
NCB lol

21 Mar 2005

act myself and be part of the SH
not just read and get off.
i think few know me just by my name and once i am in a munch it will be a chance to know ppl personally.

21 Mar 2005

I think Vic is right on. biggrin

i Ithink there is no need for a smu as sugested, this will only drive a biger wedge in and couse more lets see whot posts come :D
Philg

21 Mar 2005

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21 Mar 2005

Quote by cricket68
What do you women think of cock pics? Yes or no? soft or erect? because someone mailed me to tell me I was wasting my time without a cock shot!

Cocks are great, aren't they?
Cock shots are fine, as long as that's not the only pic in yer advert/reply.
I get annoyed if there is not facial or body shot, but not if there is no cock shot. Dissappointed, burt not annoyed. lol

21 Mar 2005

Quote by cricket68
What do you women think of cock pics? Yes or no? soft or erect? because someone mailed me to tell me I was wasting my time without a cock shot!

Personally I prefer to see a facial and body pic, but then again I wouldn't look for a man with a huge willy.
Everyone's answer to the cock pic question differs, some like to see them, some don't

21 Mar 2005

Quote by cricket68
What do you women think of cock pics? Yes or no? soft or erect? because someone mailed me to tell me I was wasting my time without a cock shot!

Some women hate them, some women love them, some prefer soft, some prefer hard.
If you want an example of why things can be so difficult for a single bloke, that is it. So many single blokes seem to be looking to pin swinging down to a fixed set of rules that lead to success. Everyone is different, and what they respond to is different. If you spend your time trying to second guess what others want, you will end up going round in smaller and smaller circles until you disappear up your own urethera.
Decide what you want to do, what pictures you want to send, and only send pictures to those who ask for that type of picture. That way, you increase your chances of being compatible with the person you are talking to, and so increase the chances of success.
Be yourself, and it will either happen, or it won't.
lhk
Kat

21 Mar 2005

Most people on the photo ads pages want to see face, body, and cock pics. Some even say they will ignore any messages recieved without them. My solution was to place my own photo ad with all three and provide a link in my signature and in my replies. This saves me the time of uploading them everytime I email other swingers.
There is absolutely no chance of me posting a pic of it when it is non erect. I wouldn't dare!! redface

21 Mar 2005

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21 Mar 2005

i know then you get these ladys who send you photos of there fannys all out.. wheres the face shot... i know they say you dont look at the mantlepiece when poking the fire ..
it takes the piss
then the single ladys all add u to msn with out even asking... its uncalled for

21 Mar 2005

Quote by cricket68
It had me fooled!!

Not my intention, though obviously not difficult. Still, I'm not advertising for men.
I can bitch too.

21 Mar 2005

Would all single males seeking help form an orderly queue this way please :twisted:

21 Mar 2005

Quote by Libra-Love
Would all single males seeking help form an orderly queue this way please :twisted:

Can I be first in the queue?

21 Mar 2005

Quote by marmalaid
Would all single males seeking help form an orderly queue this way please :twisted:

Can I be first in the queue?
You know you're first in line passionkiss

I was talking to the newbies! :twisted:
*here's hoping they don't fall asleep too

21 Mar 2005

The queue start hear :shock: lol

Queue for whot?? confused

:shock:

21 Mar 2005

I would appreciate any help I am given.
Im always to worried about doing the wrong thing that I end up doing nothing and miss out on all of the fun
steve

21 Mar 2005

Quote by cricket68
When I see a profile with the words "STRICTY NO SINGLE MEN" at the foot of the ad I feel like a native South African under Aparthied. I know its a bit different but I have never seen "STRICTLY NO SINGLE WOMEN" attached to an ad.

I used to have an ad on another site that said "No single women"
It takes all sorts.
Plenty of couples on this site only want single guys - some want bi ones, some prefer the straight variety, some don't care.
The point is, that polite, reliable single guys are successful on here time and time again, regardless of all the dickheads and timewasters that give all single guys a bad name.

21 Mar 2005

libra-love said
Would all single males seeking help form an orderly queue this way please
wheree do i queue and whats ym position
look at my profile and advice libra love

21 Mar 2005

Quote by marmalaid
Would all single males seeking help form an orderly queue this way please :twisted:

Can I be first in the queue?
That makes a change. You normally fuck your way through the queue first, and still go back to rejoin the end when you`re done.
Venusxxx

21 Mar 2005

Quote by bluexxx
When I see a profile with the words "STRICTY NO SINGLE MEN" at the foot of the ad I feel like a native South African under Aparthied. I know its a bit different but I have never seen "STRICTLY NO SINGLE WOMEN" attached to an ad.

I used to have an ad on another site that said "No single women"
It takes all sorts.
Plenty of couples on this site only want single guys - some want bi ones, some prefer the straight variety, some don't care.
The point is, that polite, reliable single guys are successful on here time and time again, regardless of all the dickheads and timewasters that give all single guys a bad name.
Thanks Blue I think you have hit it on the head. So be my self. biggrin

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Phil.