Ok first off, a single woman doesn't always get what she wants, or pulls everytime.
I'm a single fem and i have many factors going against me that prevents me from successfully getting what i want. I am more successful playing with another single fem then what i am with males or couples.
I think it was Blue who described swinging as "An Attitude".
It was getting involved with a couple and letting my bi side out that got me curious about this site and evertually join it.
Like you have said it's not that difficult to find a bloke and shag him, what I wanted to do was experience something different.
I do agree with you point De Sade, but I think it was Blue who said swinging is "an attitude".
What I mean is there may be straight single women who are looking to experience new things and accept the swinging lifestyle - yet happen to be single at this moment in their lives. All though this may not be the definition of swinging in some people's eyes, they have "the attitude" never the less.
Pullin a vanilla bloke in one thing. But wheres the fun in that, when as a swinger a single fem can go to a swingers club and have a 20 man bang bang or several m-f couples at the same time? Why bother going anywhere in vanilla land to pull at all when there are swingers clubs and sites like this to make the process more simple and to get the right sort of person? Pull a vanilla and they fall in love and watch their face when you say, "tonight darling I would like to watch you getting fucked by two blokes and two birds with strap ons" .
Nah, swingers for me every time.
LOL.
I agree that just because you are a single female you do not always manage to get what you want and pull. Men often don't get the hint in vanilla situations and these days they don't always make the first move (only saying that because I never could make the first move for fear of rejection!)
I think swinging is more than just a type of sexual preference, its the social side and the type of friends you make with the same attitudes to sex.
I've seen some stunning women in swingers clubs and I would imagine that they wolud have no problem pulling wherever they went. Perhaps they go to swingers clubs for no strings fun. It's more honest because everyone knows what you're there for whereas in a "straight" club, people might go for the music and dancing. They can always claim that and pretend, at least to themselves, that they aren't looking to meet someone.
I think as a single fem I was always the voyeur rather than looking to swing. I enjoy the naughtiness and build up of the scene rather than the idea of sexual encounters outside of my imagination if that makes any sense?????? I do far more in my imagination than I am ever likely to do in real life lol. However as a single fem in this world, like others have said, its not as easy to meet guys as you may think!!!! I know couples who find it hard to find other couples so its about making the time and effort to get to know someone and their partner/s I suppose?
) then I WOULD have more success but I'm afraid I'm a little more choosy than that. I don't see that single fems have to be involved with couples to become part of the swinging scene though. 
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