Do They Know My Secret ??

20 Jan 2007

Just got back from spending the night havin a few tinnies an the like with my Best Mate,,
His GF turns up, an we have nice evenin gettin merry(Not Pissed), just merry!!
We watched some films inbetween havin a giggle or two, then out of the Blue she pipes up to me..... 'Do you fancy a threesome?' :shock: Fook Me! where did that come from????
My best mate lookin all sombre???? I said Fook Off, she said 'No he thinks it's a good idea if you're up for it' !!!
:confused2:
I say Sod off the pair of you you're Pissed!! :huh:
It never happened.... They went to bed I crashed on sofa!!! redface

Got up and left,,, WTF do I say to him later??? We were not that drunk I swear, Do they know I on this fuppin site or what??? confused

Plese Help me...This is my bestest mate in the whole wide world, I love him to bits an we Never had an argument in 38 years! Do not want to spoil that an that's probably the main reason I couldn't have done it anyway, so do I just get on with things and forget about it...? Make a lighthearted joke or comment...? WHAT THE F**K shall I say??
I know I know him well, but this has thrown me quite a bit!!
Really Freaky that I should become a member of a swinger's site an then the first time the three of us on our own since I joined, this happens!!

20 Jan 2007

You laugh about it with him on his own... and explain that he is your best mate in the whole world.. and you aint interested.
simple.
and then you come round my house and I will make it all better for you
:twisted:

20 Jan 2007

You could just comment that you were worried it was the drink talking and it could have ruined a bloody good friendship, you wouldn't take that risk dunno

20 Jan 2007

Quote by splendid33
and then you come round my house and I will make it all better for you
:twisted:

and you say I'm naughty :eeek: :twisted:

20 Jan 2007

Just ignore it for now.
If your mate or his g/f mention it, just say you are not interested.

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Dawnie
and then you come round my house and I will make it all better for you
:twisted:

and you say I'm naughty :eeek: :twisted:
redface

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Sarah
Just ignore it for now.
If your mate or his g/f mention it, just say you are not interested.

You probably right hun, thanks. x

Quote by splendid33
and then you come round my house and I will make it all better for you
:twisted:

and you say I'm naughty :eeek: :twisted:
redface

Splendid you are a naughty girl.......but i like it!! smackbottom

Dawnie you are naughty too so whip

Both of you behave wink

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Argt05
Splendid you are a naughty girl.......but i like it!!
Dawnie you are naughty too so
Both of you behave

Why do I suddenly like being naughty dunno

:rascal:

20 Jan 2007

Leave mentioning it to him.
If he does, just say you thought it was the beer talking.
If he says it wasn't and they do want to try a threesome explain to him how important he is as a friend to you, and that you be worried about compromising that friendship.
Then tell him about the wonderful SH and suggest he has a look around here for volunteers. :thumbup:
Jas
XXX

20 Jan 2007

Yes wait for him to mention it and maybe have a joke and carry on as you were.
If any of them brings it up again say look ya me mate i'm not going there.
Thats what i'd do.
And like jas said maybe its a good time to tell them about SH and how great it is
IN EDIT
Oh and best of luck

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Jas-Tim
Leave mentioning it to him.
If he does, just say you thought it was the beer talking.
If he says it wasn't and they do want to try a threesome explain to him how important he is as a friend to you, and that you be worried about compromising that friendship.
Then tell him about the wonderful SH and suggest he has a look around here for volunteers. :thumbup:
Jas
XXX

:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Jas-Tim
Leave mentioning it to him.
If he does, just say you thought it was the beer talking.
If he says it wasn't and they do want to try a threesome explain to him how important he is as a friend to you, and that you be worried about compromising that friendship.
Then tell him about the wonderful SH and suggest he has a look around here for volunteers. :thumbup:
Jas
XXX

This is spot on.
And you did the right thing in saying no. :thumbup: Introducing sex into a friendship when there's more than two people involved can mean real trouble.
.

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Dawnie
and then you come round my house and I will make it all better for you
:twisted:

and you say I'm naughty :eeek: :twisted:
She’s become totally rampant hasn’t she Dawn, I don’t know what’s got into her :shock:

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
and then you come round my house and I will make it all better for you
:twisted:

and you say I'm naughty :eeek: :twisted:
She’s become totally rampant hasn’t she Dawn, I don’t know what’s got into her:shock:
Me! :twisted:
Ok I'm sorry. redface

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
and then you come round my house and I will make it all better for you
:twisted:

and you say I'm naughty :eeek: :twisted:
She’s become totally rampant hasn’t she Dawn, I don’t know what’s got into her :shock:
I have no idea what you mean....
I am shy and innocent. I am the original, halo wearing :angel:

20 Jan 2007

Quote by splendid33
I am shy and innocent. I am the original, halo wearing :angel:

*Experiences another coffee meets monitor moment*

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Mallock2006

I am shy and innocent. I am the original, halo wearing :angel:

*Experiences another coffee meets monitor moment*
Splendid is gettin worse me thinks....She definately needs to go over my knee smackbottom

Thanks Guys for you're help...
Mate phoned me earlier an didn't mention it at all!!! So, will leave it and Maybe as said enlighten them both to the world of SH, but only if it comes up rolleyes

(no pun intended)
Or maybe leave my SUPERDOOPER Munch Badge on his coffee table.. lol

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Dawnie
Why do I suddenly like being naughty
:rascal:

It's because you want me really, doncha? :rascal:
Argt hunni, I agree with the others and don't mention it unless they do first. It could have just been the drink talking but it might have been their way of trying out a 3some with someone they both trust and like. Wait until HE mentions it and have a chat about swinging and stuff, see just how interested they are then you can mention this site and leave them to it.
One of my good mates admitted to me that she is bi-curious a while back and as much as she's a very sexy lady, I wouldn't sleep with her. That'd be asking for trouble :scared:

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Scandal
out of the Blue she pipes up to me..... 'Do you fancy a threesome?' :shock: Fook Me! where did that come from????................................
My best mate lookin all sombre???? I said Fook Off, she said 'No he thinks it's a good idea if you're up for it' !!!..........................................
Really Freaky that I should become a member of a swinger's site an then the first time the three of us on our own since I joined, this happens!!

Slightly off topic and without wanting to teach anyone to suck eggs..........
Do people assume that just because other people aren't part of websites and the so called "community" they are not interested in swinging? I suspect that most couples have discussed having sex with other people. Your friends obviously have. I think sometimes people think SH is the B all & end all. Casual sex is a national phenomena it's all over the media. Once the agony aunt of the red tops start suggesting it as a wholesome healthy pastime it makes it mainstream.
I remember about 15 years ago knowing two sisters who shagged the same guys and way before that me and a GF had fun with other couples. Sometimes, being part of the "community" makes some people feel insular and special, when in fact I'd say we're all pretty normal! lol

Totally agree with you mate, but if they are curious and want to take it further then sites like this one can be of great help, comfort and just maybe a chance to assess their needs. confused

Sex is IMO an exceptable pastime, and has to my knowledge been going on for at least 50 years now in it's various guises, so it's about time we all embraced this phenomenon and rejoice in it's Glory.. I for one will try my best to please ALL my Slags!!! hump

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Scandal
out of the Blue she pipes up to me..... 'Do you fancy a threesome?' :shock: Fook Me! where did that come from????................................
My best mate lookin all sombre???? I said Fook Off, she said 'No he thinks it's a good idea if you're up for it' !!!..........................................
Really Freaky that I should become a member of a swinger's site an then the first time the three of us on our own since I joined, this happens!!

Slightly off topic and without wanting to teach anyone to suck eggs..........
Do people assume that just because other people aren't part of websites and the so called "community" they are not interested in swinging? I suspect that most couples have discussed having sex with other people. Your friends obviously have. I think sometimes people think SH is the B all & end all. Casual sex is a national phenomena it's all over the media. Once the agony aunt of the red tops start suggesting it as a wholesome healthy pastime it makes it mainstream.
I remember about 15 years ago knowing two sisters who shagged the same guys and way before that me and a GF had fun with other couples. Sometimes, being part of the "community" makes some people feel insular and special, when in fact I'd say we're all pretty normal! lol

Totally agree with you mate, but if they are curious and want to take it further then sites like this one can be of great help, comfort and just maybe a chance to assess their needs. confused

Sex is IMO an exceptable pastime, and has to my knowledge been going on for at least 50 years now in it's various guises, so it's about time we all embraced this phenomenon and rejoice in it's Glory.. I for one will try my best to please ALL my Slags!!! hump

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Argt05
. I for one will try my best to please ALL my Slags!!!

Belatedly puts forward application to be an Argt05 slag :rascal:
Fee
XX

20 Jan 2007

Quote by LadyFeeBee
. I for one will try my best to please ALL my Slags!!!

Belatedly puts forward application to be an Argt05 slag :rascal:
Fee
XX
ABOUT BLOODY TIME!!!!
smackbottom

And for you're late application please come into my Orifice(PM) and explain to me why I should let you be my SLAG!!! innocent

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Scandal
Sex is IMO an exceptable pastime, and has to my knowledge been going on for at least 50 years

I'd say it's been going on a bit longer than that! lol

No way..really?
Jeez my Dad's a lyin sod then!!! :lol

20 Jan 2007

Quote by Argt05
No way..really?
Jeez my Dad's a lyin sod then!!! :lol

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
PS Check your pm's wink

Fee
XX

20 Jan 2007

If it were me....personally....I would chat to my best mate and explain that I didn't want to ruin the friendship by introducing sex....but that's just me cause I can't let anything go unmentioned...LoL.
But it might be a good idea to just let it lie and see what he says to you....

20 Jan 2007

Who is to say they know your secret.... maybe they have one of there own??? Mm Lots of sites lots of people eh??
Mike

20 Jan 2007

Dont do it redface

talk about it if he mentions it as ppl say it may have been the drink confused

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& your regret it in the cold light of day :cry:
But I spo's if they ever split up :!: :!: :!: she's game with a drink inside her :cheers:

20 Jan 2007

Quote by sword
But I spo's if they ever split up :!: :!: :!: she's game with a drink inside her :cheers:

20 Jan 2007

I know Mallock2006 redface

but I just could'nt resist

20 Jan 2007

I`m sure i would`nt know what to say either if it were happening to me, i do agree with mdr2000 they may have there own secrets, that have been held for a while, but i think its unfair of them to put you on the spot like they did.
If it happens again just say your not interested, and if they say they know about your secret, just say that you`d rather have their friendship than their body`s
r1rider