Do we stay or do we go?

7 Mar 2012

Hmmmm.... that time has come again and the renewal reminder has appeared on our home page.
In the current climate, we have to question whether we stay or go as have dabbled with the other site and found its not all that much different and a lot cheaper.
We have to say that SH was our first insight into swinging and has helped us to discover ourselves a bit more sexually and opened our eyes to alternative lifestyles. Along the way, we've met and played with some very lovely and sexy people and hope we dont lose touch with you all if we dont renew membership.
Got a couple of weeks to ponder but if we disappear - you'll find us on the other site or those that have us on our joint fb page - keep in touch
xxx

7 Mar 2012

STAY don't PAY
Nothing to lose then, we rarely find compatible couples here but when we do the meetings are always excellent, yes there are timewasters, dreamers, no-hopers and fakes but that is the rule for ALL sites.
Though we are "paid up" we are not sure why, the gains seems to be more for those just here for the cams and pic collecting but we will reconsider that when the time comes, but we won't leave the site just opt for the free membership unless things change in the meantime of course.

7 Mar 2012

Best to leave the account dormant for if/when you want to pop back. Many people have left, only to come back again a few months later. I'm sure a lot of them have been pleasantly surprised by the way the site has evolved while they were away. And it would be a shame to have to start all over again with a virgin account. ;)

7 Mar 2012

Quote by Cubes
Best to leave the account dormant for if/when you want to pop back. Many people have left, only to come back again a few months later. I'm sure a lot of them have been pleasantly surprised by the way the site has evolved while they were away. And it would be a shame to have to start all over again with a virgin account. ;)

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8 Mar 2012

i'll miss your contributions to the forum.....whether or not we were ever going to be in any way involved physically is neither here nor there, and not that we always agreed in the forum, but wtf....you are exactly the sort of people who swinging heaven was invented for....I'm probably not that....but just leave your account as an unpaid item..as my other forumites have pointed out, then if you decide to come back you can simply upgrade and get right back into the swing...the main difference between this site and others is the established community....but do what suits you, and if I never hear from you again i'll say it's been a priveledge sharing opinions with you. Take care, be safe and have fun xx

8 Mar 2012

As cubes says if you dont renew leave it dormant. Honestly though I wouldn't pay for this site. Just my personal opinion as there are other sites as you have said that do the same thing for free.

8 Mar 2012

We're in exactly the same boat Spacey .... Will prob leave it dormant for a few months then come back when we can afford it, it's what we did last year too.
xxxxx

8 Mar 2012

Quote by Andy_Jules
I guess everyone is feeling the pinch to some degree or another but at approx a week (a loaf of bed etc)and a site you can easily surf for a few hours each night without seeing the same people or reading the same text I'd say it represents excellent value for money.

See I don't drink, I don't smoke and I could stop buing shoes and handbags for a short time (I think).
So for me, broken down like that, I think I would pay a week. In all honestly, I didn't realise it was that price confused

A year banter for the price of a loaf of bread, yeah I think I would :thumbup:

9 Mar 2012

Quote by Dawnie
I guess everyone is feeling the pinch to some degree or another but at approx a week (a loaf of bed etc)and a site you can easily surf for a few hours each night without seeing the same people or reading the same text I'd say it represents excellent value for money.

See I don't drink, I don't smoke and I could stop buing shoes and handbags for a short time (I think).
So for me, broken down like that, I think I would pay a week. In all honestly, I didn't realise it was that price confused

A year banter for the price of a loaf of bread, yeah I think I would :thumbup:
but just think about the ink on carpet....
smile

9 Mar 2012

I`d go with the stay option ... sign up 4 another year.. :twisted:
n go to chams when parties from here r on

9 Mar 2012

Quote by twos_company
I`d go with the stay option ... sign up 4 another year.. :twisted:
n go to chams when parties from here r on

You can still read the forums and see what's on without having a full membership, and if you know enough people, then surely one will put names on lists etc
Just a thought but staying on the site just to go to socials seems a bit daft to me.

10 Mar 2012

Quote by Tinsoldier149
I`d go with the stay option ... sign up 4 another year.. :twisted:
n go to chams when parties from here r on

You can still read the forums and see what's on without having a full membership, and if you know enough people, then surely one will put names on lists etc
Just a thought but staying on the site just to go to socials seems a bit daft to me.
No offence - but if I was organising a social here I would give members a place before a non/ex member (I would put them on a reserve) in the situation above.

10 Mar 2012

take care