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Do women enjoy wearing lingerie as much as men enjoy lookin?

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personally, i am a drooling mess and putty in the hand of the woman if she is wearing some god damn sexy lingerie: Agent P, Janet Reger, etc but do women actually get turned on also? or do you just get turned on by seeing the man being so turned on?
Also do you enjoy receiving lingerie bought for you?
I love the kit, I am very visually aroused. Apres wear, I sniff used stockings etc. But many women just don't like it. They feel uncomfortable and put on the spot physically and emotionally etc. There are too many associations that they feel in conflict with.
I have often bought fancy skimpy items and wished the woman would suddenly transform on wearing them. This rarely happens.
A three pack of M and S black stretch cotton broadsides, are more likely to be appreciated. They are comfortable, hard wearing, easily cleaned etc.
It`s always nice to be bought lingerie, but to be honest I prefer to buy my own, because I think I probably get more enjoyment out of it than anyone else. I`m a total scruff, and rarely wear underwear, but when I dress upin lingerie, I go whole hog.
Venusxxx
Yes!
I love wearing lingerie for me. Mmmmmm.....makes me feel sexy.
I also love a woman to dress sexy for me.
And I love men in lingerie too
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And I love men in lingerie too
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Not a chance... :shock: Oh, go on then wink :wink:
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Yes!
I love wearing lingerie for me. Mmmmmm.....makes me feel sexy.
I also love a woman to dress sexy for me.
And I love men in lingerie too
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so is the feel of the fabric or just the fact you KNOW you look good, or both?
Also ive never really found lingerie for men any good, mostly tacky funny stuff rather than the quality garments you can buy for women.
my partner has asked my to stop buying lingerie for a while; as she has soo much she says she'll never wear it! ;)
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Not a chance... :shock: Oh, go on then wink :wink:

*Swoon*
passionkiss
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so is the feel of the fabric or just the fact you KNOW you look good, or both?

It's the feel of the fabric against my skin as well as feeling more feminine knowing I look sexy when I'm not playing the role of Domestic Goddess :P
And when someone is dressed for me, it's just how sexily horny they look and make me feel :twisted: :twisted:
I enjoy wearing lingerie when I'm in the mood for some fun, otherwise it's a bit uncomfortable and unnecessary. I think it's a mixture of all sorts which makes me enjoy it, the feeling of being confident and sexy and the effect that it has on others who like what they see. I get the same buzz from wearing a short skirt or a low cut top, knowing that I'm 'on show' but leaving a little to the imagination also.
Heeled boots do it for me too, although I can't often get a pair that fit me properly.
so is it silk, mesh, lycra, leather, pvc, or all of the above?? is the same of stockings & suspenders. Partner says they are uncomfortable and a bugger to wear. i however LOVE them rotflmao
I enjoy a moment of cross dressing with the kit, but I am just not used to it. So its a thrill for me not a necessity.
Regular wearers are more likely to have a more practical need for the kit. This comes down to skin intolerances, comfort, hygiene etc.
So when I see a woman wearing the kit, especially during the day, I don't always think, wow shes' on a hot date. I think she's got a sensitive fanny or skin, thrush, she's BEEN on a hot date and recovering.
I would not buy a pair of socks and continue to wear them if I got repeated athletes foot.
I love dressing in saucy underwear :twisted:
Not only does it feel good to me .............but I LOVE the reaction that I get !!! :twisted:
Which just makes me............. :twisted:
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I love dressing in saucy underwear :twisted:
Not only does it feel good to me .............but I LOVE the reaction that I get !!! :twisted:
Which just makes me............. :twisted:

i can see that from your photo! ;) you look damn good if i may say?
Love women in sexy underwear - not keen on basques though.
Usually they are to hide something
Libra-Love wink :wink:
look no further :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
id dress up for you in black lace top nylon stockings,black satin panties,black suspenders,black stilleto shoes and a black satin maids uniform.
then give you a lap dance :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
mmmm must admit to never thinking of wearing the lingerie myself...... ;) or am i showing how much of a newbie i am to all of this? Altho I have once worn my partners thong for a laugh.... does that count :shock:
so ladies, the next question is whether lingerie on a man does it for ya! confused:
mmmm must admit to never thinking of wearing the lingerie myself...... ;) or am i showing how much of a newbie i am to all of this? Altho I have once worn my partners thong for a laugh.... does that count :shock:
so ladies, the next question is whether lingerie on a man does it for ya! confused:
Lingerie is like pole dancing. Makes me feel as sexy as hell, I get off on what I *think* I look like, and the effect I think I`m having on an observer......
But in reality I probably look like an arse rotflmao
I should probably stop posting now. Too much red wine :uhoh:
Venusxxx
i love it when im bought lingerie
but i tend to drag him in the shop and choose it myself
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But in reality I probably look like an arse rotflmao
Venusxxx

well you def look very good in your avatar pic! :twisted:
Quote by redstilletto
but i tend to drag him in the shop and choose it myself

too bad...... i love shopping for lingerie.... regular big spender - altho partner now banned me! ;(
When you are dressed up to go out and feel sexy on the out side your sexy underwear on the inside just makes you feel wonderfull..
Been swinging for a while and have all kinds -lace, ect
It really turns me on seeing myself and watching my mans face lighten up.
never needed an excuse though to spend money on nice lingerie
not forgetting the shoes and boots of all lengths too match, and not forgetting my very own stocking mountain at home........
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but i tend to drag him in the shop and choose it myself

too bad...... i love shopping for lingerie.... regular big spender - altho partner now banned me! ;(
what you got banned
for spending money
:shock:
actually im banned from ebay for buying to many shoes and boots grrrrrrrrrr
Quote by tanqueraytim

But in reality I probably look like an arse rotflmao
Venusxxx

well you def look very good in your avatar pic! :twisted:
I would do. The cam was set to take a picture every 10 seconds, left running for ages, and still I was only able to pick out a rare few shots worth sharing. Plus it was sepiaed (sp?)
That`s a hell of a lot of effort to look good! :giggle:
No matter, I enjoy how if feels, and that`s what counts. I`m not the poor bugger who has to look at me without the tweaking :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
But ta anyway kiss
Quote by redstilletto

but i tend to drag him in the shop and choose it myself

too bad...... i love shopping for lingerie.... regular big spender - altho partner now banned me! ;(
what you got banned
for spending money
:shock:
actually im banned from ebay for buying to many shoes and boots grrrrrrrrrr
nah not ££, im banned from buying anymore lingerie - ive got an Agent P and two Janet Reger sets hidden away unused at the mo! im almost an addict!
yeh but i thought women buying shoes was allowed? something about being part of your dna? ;)
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I enjoy wearing lingerie when I'm in the mood for some fun, otherwise it's a bit uncomfortable and unnecessary. I think it's a mixture of all sorts which makes me enjoy it, the feeling of being confident and sexy and the effect that it has on others who like what they see. .

I love to wear lingerie somtimes like MQ says its a mixture of being confident and feeling sexy and i love the reation i get when i wear it.
I couldnt wear it all the time as it can be unfortable but its wirth the efort when i do wink
I have different sets, stuff I wear for special occassions :twisted: and then stuff I wear for days when I want to feel special and naughty and then general everyday wear, which is still often lingerie, unless I'm having a really lazy day and then it's Gap or M&S comfortables!
There's just something about wearing lingerie while at work, under my oh so serious suit and no-one knowing, that makes me feel a little decadent and frivolous and very feminine! lol Especially given that I work Iin a very male dominated environment and have to be tough and 'one of the boys' so often.
I really love dressing up.. especially PVC and thigh boots
And what I really like is going out dressed like that biggrin :D
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Libra-Love wink :wink:
look no further :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
id dress up for you in black lace top nylon stockings,black satin panties,black suspenders,black stilleto shoes and a black satin maids uniform.
then give you a lap dance :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

WHAY-HEY :bounce: :taz: :bounce: :taz: :bounce:
Now there's an offer no one in their right minds would refuse.
And one I never expected, and boy am I chuffed :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Just tell me when!!!!
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Looks like you've pulled Libra Love lol! I love wearing sexy undies - it makes me feel more sexy than usual. I also like to leave some of it on during sex - and no I'm not trying to hide anything!