Do you ever feel guilty???

23 Feb 2005

I am Guilty!
I admit it! worship

I hide things from Mr Debs sad

And i hate doing it! :(
But I am fed up with his checking up all the time mad

I donâ€™t mean going be hide his back and meeting men .. That is a thing I will and truly couldnâ€™t do!...
Or camming behind his back!
But I have to admit ....... if I feel like a extra boc of wine at night .......... as he will no as I buy mine for the week................ I tip out some off in to me empty boc that I have drunk and fill the rest of it with water!,,,,,,,,,,,and put it back carefully pressing down the metal top so he donâ€™t notice!
Also me fags............!i buy a pack full to last me a week 5 packs of 20....... its if I smoke to many............... what I do is............ pinch some out a new packet... very carefully and hide them and put the packet back........... making sure it donâ€™t look like its been touched!
I have had many arguments with him checking out how much I drink and smoke
And yet he drinks the same as me and smokes more!
His excuse is that I have had me probs with health......and he cares about me........but I am 45 and I donâ€™t want to live with some one that acts like me Mum
Well I told him this............ a week ago and bingo.............. he donâ€™t nag...but I no he still checks........... driveâ€™s me mad! banghead

I can here ya...that itâ€™s because he cares about me
But let me put it this way. If......... I was to do the same with him............. he would not like it!
Has anyone else done this to keep the other half quit!
Or experienced the same prob????

23 Feb 2005

As Glenn Quagmire in Family Guy once said:
"I felt guilty once, but she woke up"

23 Feb 2005

Im Guilty

of washing my hair in the shower and leaving loose hair in the plug hole, sorry hun!!

23 Feb 2005

Aaah Debs - tell him to stop being a nag!!! kiss

23 Feb 2005

Do I ever feel guilt? Where would you like me to start?
Guilt at not being a stay at home mum?
Guilt for having a social life?
Guilt for not living up to others expectations of you?
The list goes on .......................................................
My motto is "fuck it"........................ I am who I am at people have two choices, they either like it or they dont, very simple.

23 Feb 2005

It sounds silly I know but I feel guilty if I throw a sicky and skive of work for a day redface

23 Feb 2005

upps he just come in from the pub redface

better go before he tells me .....YOU ON THERE AGAIN
And hows rainbow is she getting her asres around here to meet!
kiss

:giggle:
be back when he has gone to bed
Catch you soon wink

23 Feb 2005

sometimes you gotta tell little white lies to the man in ya house...............i hate being nagged at drives me bonkers
dont worry about it debs
i do it all the time
bought a pair of new shoes
hid them in the wardrobe
pull them out in a few weeks and when he says oooooooo are they new
i justsay these old things o no had them ages
:twisted:

23 Feb 2005

Quote by Debbiewebs
I am Guilty!
I admit it!
I hide things from Mr Debs
And i hate doing it! :(
But I am fed up with his checking up all the time
I donâ€™t mean going be hide his back and meeting men .. That is a thing I will and truly couldnâ€™t do!...
Or camming behind his back!
But I have to admit ....... if I feel like a extra boc of wine at night .......... as he will no as I buy mine for the week................ I tip out some off in to me empty boc that I have drunk and fill the rest of it with water!,,,,,,,,,,,and put it back carefully pressing down the metal top so he donâ€™t notice!
Also me fags............!i buy a pack full to last me a week 5 packs of 20....... its if I smoke to many............... what I do is............ pinch some out a new packet... very carefully and hide them and put the packet back........... making sure it donâ€™t look like its been touched!
I have had many arguments with him checking out how much I drink and smoke
And yet he drinks the same as me and smokes more!
His excuse is that I have had me probs with health......and he cares about me........but I am 45 and I donâ€™t want to live with some one that acts like me Mum
Well I told him this............ a week ago and bingo.............. he donâ€™t nag...but I no he still checks........... driveâ€™s me mad!
I can here ya...that itâ€™s because he cares about me
But let me put it this way. If......... I was to do the same with him............. he would not like it!
Has anyone else done this to keep the other half quit!
Or experienced the same prob????

Hey babes, understand where you're coming from, but guilty of the same thing as your hubby too. redface

Except I do it with my teenager. confused

No, I don't go snooping through his draws and stuff or search his room. We have an open and honest enough relationship for me not to have to do that. He's sensable enough to make the right social and moral decissions, I think/hope/trust/plead with the Gods.
I search his college back-pack. surprised

ops:
I'm worried about his studies.
I even spoken to his tuitors and found out what work he's behind on :oops: rolleyes

He'd Kill me if he knew.
And would be calling me more than just a NAG
The worse thing is, I don't even know why I do it. He could have a good education and amount to nothing, or he could drop out now and be one of the fortunately blessed in life.
Who's to know?
It's just that I feel confident of the character I see within the man within my boy (did you get that? :? He makes me proud of him already. Don't get me wrong, he has his moments. Sometimes he hates his mum. Sometime I feel I could throttle him and counting to ten just aint gonna do it this time. But all round I KNOW he's a good kid.
And I want good things for my good kid. And a good education is priceless in the long run. (Or is that just in an ideal world)
Like I said, hands up I'm as guilty as your man of doing the "checking up thing".
But it's because I love him.
That's just how love makes some of us behave I guess.

23 Feb 2005

Quote by Alex_Female
Do I ever feel guilt? Where would you like me to start?
Guilt at not being a stay at home mum?
Guilt for having a social life?
Guilt for not living up to others expectations of you?
The list goes on .......................................................
My motto is "fuck it"........................ I am who I am at people have two choices, they either like it or they dont, very simple.

Never a truer word spoken - same here - I am who I am
No point in trying to change cos I'll just rebel and I've always been the same.

23 Feb 2005

Quote by redstilletto
sometimes you gotta tell little white lies to the man in ya house...............i hate being nagged at drives me bonkers :twisted:

Works both ways, nag nag bloody nag, but I love her!!

24 Feb 2005

Debs,I thought that you HAD to quit smoking beacause of your health,so for that i can understand him being that way to a point,he's probably just trying to look after you.
As for the other things well just bloody tell him and tell him that he's the same and unless he wants you going on at him in the same way to let you get on with it!

24 Feb 2005

Quote by Libra-Love
It's just that I feel confident of the character I see within the man within my boy (did you get that? He makes me proud of him already. Don't get me wrong, he has his moments. Sometimes he hates his mum. Sometime I feel I could throttle him and counting to ten just aint gonna do it this time. But all round I KNOW he's a good kid.

06:45 - sat on a Motorway Service Area waiting for the clock to turn so I can start work.
Libra-Love, that is the 'warmest' thing I've heard/read for a long while. Thank you for reminding me just how precious our kids are.

24 Feb 2005

Quote by Clare_Lincs
Debs,I thought that you HAD to quit smoking

Sorry Clare forgive me worship

i started again! innocent

24 Feb 2005

Quote by dambuster
06:45 - sat on a Motorway Service Area waiting for the clock to turn so I can start work.
Libra-Love, that is the 'warmest' thing I've heard/read for a long while. Thank you for reminding me just how precious our kids are.

:P That they are hun.
We should be honoured that they chose us to parent them.
I know I am mine - Not all the time mind, but most of the time :P

24 Feb 2005

Hi Debs, sometimes its the small ones that keep us going, we all have different values, its a case of doing the ones you like, and making sure you don't do the ones that would really make you feel bad!