After reading another thread it seems that a lot of people seem to attend socials or munchies. We have never been to one as it isn’t something we feel we need to find guys to meet and have fun with.
It seems a lot of people seem to need this as to fit into the scene, maybe that is why I have never needed to attend one as I don’t feel I need to be accepted but am just here to do what we came to do, and have a laugh with people along the way.
Do you feel to attend a social or a munchie is a way to be accepted on here?
Or are you like me just have a chat with people on here and a laugh but are happy to plod along on your own?
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Do you feel munchies and socials are important to you?
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Sex God
Never once have I gone to a munch feeling I need to be accepted by anybody or to find guys to meet. I have attended a few mainly... to have a laugh & natter face to face with the people I chat and get along with in the chatrooms but lives miles away.
I was single and came here to explore other things and have fun... Which is exactly what i have done.
Munches a great way to socialise.
Lil
I was single and came here to explore other things and have fun... Which is exactly what i have done.
Munches a great way to socialise.
Lil
Sex God
although i dont use munches and socials to prove anything to anyone else i use then for a number of different reasons first is to meet up with friends and second is to meet new peeps i aint met before and other reasons is to dance have a drink(cola honest 
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Sexlightened
we have been to a few munches and a few socials and have really enjoyed them. a few 
a few good laughs and met lots of really nice like-minded people. our reason to go to them is exactly what i've just described as our reason for enjoying them is. we talk to loads of people in the chatrooms and socials and munches are a really good way to put names and faces together. if a meet comes about by going to them then fair enough but that is not our main reason for going. we went to the leeds social on saturday and had soo much of a laugh just by meeting friends we have made by going to various munches and socials in the past and meeting loads of new people to chat to in the chatrooms now. we have never felt that by going to them it was a way of fitting in here cos we were well established in chat before we ever went to a social or a munch. it got too much for me being a nosey git wanting to know what people looked like in real life 
a few good laughs and met lots of really nice like-minded people. our reason to go to them is exactly what i've just described as our reason for enjoying them is. we talk to loads of people in the chatrooms and socials and munches are a really good way to put names and faces together. if a meet comes about by going to them then fair enough but that is not our main reason for going. we went to the leeds social on saturday and had soo much of a laugh just by meeting friends we have made by going to various munches and socials in the past and meeting loads of new people to chat to in the chatrooms now. we have never felt that by going to them it was a way of fitting in here cos we were well established in chat before we ever went to a social or a munch. it got too much for me being a nosey git wanting to know what people looked like in real life Quote by Theladyisaminx
After reading another thread it seems that a lot of people seem to attend socials or munchies. We have never been to one as it isn’t something we feel we need to find guys to meet and have fun with.
I've lost count of the number of socials and munches I've attended. Maybe I should have my card stamped at the door by the acceptance committee? Strangely I go to them to meet up with many of the people I wouldn't want to have fun with. I'll have a drink in a bar with virtually anybody. My "having fun with" standards are much higher (or is it their standards are higher
).Seriously though, there are people who can't see the point of the chatrooms, others don't read the forums, so the fact that you, or others don't see a need for socials or munches is to be expected. I only hope that you believe me when I say its not just a room of people bigging each other up for the night.
Ian
Sex God
Munchies are very important... very important indeed!
Can't beat a scooby snack after a shag! :giggle:
Okay okay... I'm going!
Can't beat a scooby snack after a shag! :giggle:
Okay okay... I'm going!
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
After reading another thread it seems that a lot of people seem to attend socials or munchies. We have never been to one as it isn’t something we feel we need to find guys to meet and have fun with.
It seems a lot of people seem to need this as to fit into the scene, maybe that is why I have never needed to attend one as I don’t feel I need to be accepted but am just here to do what we came to do, and have a laugh with people along the way.
Do you feel to attend a social or a munchie is a way to be accepted on here?
Or are you like me just have a chat with people on here and a laugh but are happy to plod along on your own?
I don't see Munches as a way of being "accepted" or "fitting in." As others have said, I see them as a good night out with mates; a chance to put faces to usernames and avatars.
They are, for me, separate to meeting people. I don't use munches/socials as a means of meeting people. I have played with folk I've met at socials/munches but I've played with far more I have met through the adverts or in chatrooms.
I'm not here to be accepted fullstop. I'm here to have NSA sex.
The added bonus that this site offers however is the social/munch side of things - that is an add-on for me, not the means of being part of the place.
I can see that for some they wouldn't be interesting, whilst for others they might only like the social thing... each, as they say, to their own.
And roll on Wigan - can't bloody wait! :happy:
I've attended the occasional Munch or Social... but believe me, it does absolutely nooo good for my being accepted in any way.
Just a personal thing.
It seems I can bearly function in noisey social situations... and shrink into corners slowly filling to the brim with self loathing, before doing a runner and no doubt offending a few folk along the way.
But I persist.
maybe that's the idea?
anyhow...the theory of the social/munch is great
enjoy
lp
Just a personal thing.
It seems I can bearly function in noisey social situations... and shrink into corners slowly filling to the brim with self loathing, before doing a runner and no doubt offending a few folk along the way.
But I persist.
maybe that's the idea?
anyhow...the theory of the social/munch is great
enjoy
lp
Sex God
like the socials ...good chance to catch up with peeps n have a laugh....
made some nice friends...
ooh and it gives all the girls he`s wound up in chat to give mr twos a slap.....
made some nice friends...
ooh and it gives all the girls he`s wound up in chat to give mr twos a slap.....
Quote by noladreams30
After reading another thread it seems that a lot of people seem to attend socials or munchies. We have never been to one as it isn’t something we feel we need to find guys to meet and have fun with.
It seems a lot of people seem to need this as to fit into the scene, maybe that is why I have never needed to attend one as I don’t feel I need to be accepted but am just here to do what we came to do, and have a laugh with people along the way.
Do you feel to attend a social or a munchie is a way to be accepted on here?
Or are you like me just have a chat with people on here and a laugh but are happy to plod along on your own?
I don't see Munches as a way of being "accepted" or "fitting in." As others have said, I see them as a good night out with mates; a chance to put faces to usernames and avatars.
They are, for me, separate to meeting people. I don't use munches/socials as a means of meeting people. I have played with folk I've met at socials/munches but I've played with far more I have met through the adverts or in chatrooms.
I'm not here to be accepted fullstop. I'm here to have NSA sex.
The added bonus that this site offers however is the social/munch side of things - that is an add-on for me, not the means of being part of the place.
I can see that for some they wouldn't be interesting, whilst for others they might only like the social thing... each, as they say, to their own.
And roll on Wigan - can't bloody wait! :happy:
Agree with everything Nola has said.
Sex God
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Agree with everything Nola has said.
Eeeeh... what's going on there then Kenty?!?!
:smug:
Only joking chicken - I talk sense rarely, but am glad it has an appreciative audience when I do!
Sex God
I don't think that Munches and socials are there for meets as such... if you wanted to do that you could advertise in ads as you do, or go to clubs...
I think what socials and munches are there for is a chance to interact with people who share a common interest... a chance for people to let there hair down knowing that you can talk to people about stuff that you may not be able to do so otherwise........
I always say that munches and socials may not be for everyone..........but what do you have to lose
I think what socials and munches are there for is a chance to interact with people who share a common interest... a chance for people to let there hair down knowing that you can talk to people about stuff that you may not be able to do so otherwise........
I always say that munches and socials may not be for everyone..........but what do you have to lose
Orgasminator
Minx come to the Coventry social on 13th dec. and see for yourself what a social/munch is like. Cyber people become real people when you meet them face to face.
