There have been lots of threads over time about preferences about who you would have sex with. I was wondering do people have preferences when knowing what they want out of meeting for sex. What I would like in a meet is to feel a man would want to meet me as he would like to enjoy sex and all its pleasures with me, because he in fact enjoys my company and it is me he would like sex with, and not just because I am a woman on a swinging site up for meeting.
I personally didn’t come here to have a shag, but that is my preference I come to enjoy great sex with people I also enjoy as friends where when trust and respect has been established are happy to explore each other boundaries etc.
Do you have preferences in what you would like to get from meeting people for sex?
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Do you have preferences about sex within meets?
I will talk to you about it later 
Sex God
We have made a lot of friends from doing this but have also had mad sex with lots of people who I couldnt even tell you their names and that is my preference.
Dont get me wrong, I enjoy the friendship and meeting people but that is not why we started this .... we could go the pub for that!!!
If I want to make love or have sensual sex then I make love to my husband.
When we meet people, I dont want hour upon hour of sensual touching and foreplay because to be honest I get a bit bored!! I prefer pure animalistic sex .... simples!!!
Mrs Fun xx
Dont get me wrong, I enjoy the friendship and meeting people but that is not why we started this .... we could go the pub for that!!!
If I want to make love or have sensual sex then I make love to my husband.
When we meet people, I dont want hour upon hour of sensual touching and foreplay because to be honest I get a bit bored!! I prefer pure animalistic sex .... simples!!!
Mrs Fun xx
Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Do you have preferences about sex within meets?
Yes! I would prefer it if there was some.
Thank you
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
We have made a lot of friends from doing this but have also had mad sex with lots of people who I couldnt even tell you their names and that is my preference.
Dont get me wrong, I enjoy the friendship and meeting people but that is not why we started this .... we could go the pub for that!!!
If I want to make love or have sensual sex then I make love to my husband.
When we meet people, I dont want hour upon hour of sensual touching and foreplay because to be honest I get a bit bored!! I prefer pure animalistic sex .... simples!!!
Mrs Fun xx
what she said :thumbup: just thought it would make me look shallow lol
i want to end a meet quivering with a large smile on my fave and the self satified glow of the postorgasmic
we have however already made some cool friends too
i am the same as you two
mrs lost xx
Making love to my partner is different to having a threesome but that doesn't mean I want a wham bam thank mama, I want to make it exciting, sensual and to make my partner like she has had a luxurious experience, mind blowing sex doesn't have to be all thrashing 
sometimes its nice though.
sometimes its nice though. 
Sex God
Quote by The_third_man
mind blowing sex doesn't have to be all thrashing .
No it doesn't .... but that's what we both want when we meet .... each to their own
I love this thread>
I couldnt decide whether to:
A)Post our kinkiest fantasy in the slim hope some other folk sent us a PM.
OR
B)Watch quietly and see if somebody posts something of enormous interest so I can send them a PM.
So I will go down the middle road. I want to meet people I like and have some fun. If this ends up being a cup of tea and a slice of cake or taking tea with the parson in the style of a tibetan tantric hanging from the lamp shade I will still be happy.
I couldnt decide whether to:
A)Post our kinkiest fantasy in the slim hope some other folk sent us a PM.
OR
B)Watch quietly and see if somebody posts something of enormous interest so I can send them a PM.
So I will go down the middle road. I want to meet people I like and have some fun. If this ends up being a cup of tea and a slice of cake or taking tea with the parson in the style of a tibetan tantric hanging from the lamp shade I will still be happy.
Sex God
Sometimes I will have arranged the meet with a specific 'thing' in mind - this will be based on prior communication etc etc. Mostly though, I just want great sex in a relaxed atmosphere.
Sex God
after reading all this... I am wondering is if was worth putting in all them hours practice in giving oral... I love it!!!
oh well... off to find ladies that like foreplay then.....
:lol:
oh well... off to find ladies that like foreplay then.....
:lol: 
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
after reading all this... I am wondering is if was worth putting in all them hours practice in giving oral... I love it!!!
oh well... off to find ladies that like foreplay then.....
Stand aside Sassy.
:D:D:D:D 
Orgasminator
this may sound strange coming from a swinger.. but sex is not my main drive when i want to meet someone.. i generally get to know someone on a personall level first, and meeting them is then a way of getting to know them better, and enjoying an evening(s) in their company... the sex for me is just an added bonus.
Master of Sex
If things go well, having sex with someone is an excellent way of making friends with them. It beats shaking hands and swapping business cards. In other words the intimacy and mutual respect that is so good for both people's self esteem can grow from the encounter even if it is absent at the beginning.
