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Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
For me, a tongue wrestle is just that - a tongue wrestle. It's not a big deal for me personally. It can be done with tenderness and passion, but mostly I find it rather crude and tacky when I'm on the receiving end. Mind you, crude and tacky does have its appeal occasionally. smile
There are ways of kissing that I regard as far more intimate, and those are not for just anybody.
Would I do the tongue tango with a casual acquaintance? Yes. Would I kiss a stranger's neck or bite a stranger's lip, or allow a stranger to do those things to me. No.

... or that place just behind the ear???
mmmmmmmmm ice ice baby! wink
*sigh* and from that place behind the ear, a featherlight, slooooow tracing down the side of the neck....
Damn, scuse me, cold shower time. I'll be back shortly...
Quote by neilinleeds
my reaction to a full blown snog is fairly obvious, as one or two people know full well! redface
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When he stopped crying. I gave him back his tongue.
Neil cries like a baby.
Venusxxx
Quote by Ice Pie
*sigh* and from that place behind the ear, a featherlight, slooooow tracing down the side of the neck....
Damn, scuse me, cold shower time. I'll be back shortly...

Fuck me! Ice got horny! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Venusxxx
Sex God
Quote by VenusnMars

*sigh* and from that place behind the ear, a featherlight, slooooow tracing down the side of the neck....
Damn, scuse me, cold shower time. I'll be back shortly...

Fuck me!
You need to work on your approach hun. ;)
Quote by Ice Pie
You need to work on your approach hun. ;)

And you need to work on your showers......
Venusxxx
I find this very interesting because a guy I used to see suddenly decided to stop kissing me - after a year of full-on snogs whenever we met.
As this happened in tandem with a few other things that made me feel uncomfortable, I thought he didn't like me, and ditched him.
When he weedled his way back a few weeks later to apologise for being a dick (he was), he also mentioned that he had stopped kissing girls six month ago. Any girls.
After slapping him for not telling me sooner he told me he couldn't cope with the intimacy of it as an active single man.
I think it's both realistic and sad, but have seen it starting to happen as men disassociate their emotions from the matter in hand. Maybe they are right to protect themselves, but where does that leave the women who just love to snog their lips sore rolleyes
Kissing on a first meet? Not sure. I think the guy (or girl) would have to think about whether they would be welcomed or spat on.
BRING BACK KISSING. kiss
Quote by Rainbows
I find it more difficult to kiss men than I do women.

Is it the beards?
Personally, I think kissing is better than sex, and I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone I couldn't kiss. kiss I mean, that's more than half the fun of it! passionkiss
Master of Sex
I'm easy, I just go with the flow. I do like kissing though. cool
Master of Sex
I have never made love to a woman without kissing but then I've never made love in the swinging sense so my input may be gibberish.
Surely NOTHING should be taken for granted.
Any and all actions should, in theory be worked out beforehand so that both/ get what they want.
I suppose that if a guy kisses a womans neck and she turns her head to a suitable position for a lip to lip kisss that would be a clue, but if she didn't, that would also be a clue.
I'll get back in the corner now and shut up, lol
is this not the differance between making love and having sex.
If you making love then kissing indicates to me a certain level of emotion....where if it is just raw sex then you don't need any of the emotional input !!!
Kissing is such a turn on. Personally i find it difficult not to kiss someone i am getting intimate with. It kinda leaves me feeling a bit cold if i don't have the intimacy of a good kissing session.
Del is bi but doesn't kiss guys so that's double snogs for me :twisted:
Gill x
Sex God
Quote by Parrot
I suppose that if a guy kisses a womans neck and she turns her head to a suitable position for a lip to lip kisss that would be a clue, but if she didn't, that would also be a clue.
I'll get back in the corner now and shut up, lol

Get out the corner, its a good point biggrin
I don't snog anyone and everyone, I'm fussy redface You don't find me at munches snogging anyone who passes dunno
However, in a swinging situation kissing works for me big time lol
Dawn :silly:
Quote by Dawn_Mids
You don't find me at munches snogging anyone who passes dunno

What if I asked you nicely, then resorted to begging? confused wink
Sex God
Quote by Rainbows
What if I asked you nicely, then resorted to begging? confused wink

lol thats different :lol:
Quote by Dawn_Mids
You don't find me at munches snogging anyone who passes dunno

You will me! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by VenusnMars
You don't find me at munches snogging anyone who passes dunno

You will me! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
I must've missed mine then. Must've been in the toilet or something :dunno:
Sex God
I'm not snogging anyone at the Leicester munch anyway, I have a stinking cold :shock:
Quote by Rainbows
You don't find me at munches snogging anyone who passes dunno

You will me! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
I must've missed mine then. Must've been in the toilet or something :dunno:
nowt to add at all. just wanted to have venus, dawn and rainbows snogging in a single post with me in it! :cool:
:lol2:
n x x x :P
lol :lol: I feel a "has the forum changed?" thread coming on here!!
Look at the answers this thread got 2 years ago or so - and look at the way this one degenerated in one evening!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:
rotflmao :rotflmao:
Quote by Rainbows
Look at the answers this thread got 2 years ago or so - and look at the way this one degenerated in one evening!!!!! lol :lol: :lol:
rotflmao :rotflmao:

I can degenerate quicker than that love wink
Orgasminator
I like to kiss, but only on a hotel meet with a guy we,ve arranged to meet with smile especially if we know meet again ...i think its part of the turn on and helps me lead into other things wink but i don,t kiss stangers in a club ( don,t know where their mouths been ) :wink: lol i did have a passionate kiss with a lesbian though on a darts trip...quite enjoyed it :lol: redface :wink:
Just got to add out two pennies worth in. Me and Mr Tiggs loves kissing, not just snogging but playing with the lips and kissing them all over.
To us its part of the enjoyment of having sex. If someone is a good enough kisser I can actually cum just from the kissing.
We had thought about this before we started to play cause we just was not sure if it was the DONE thing. Now we just go with the flow and hope that the recepient or couple that we are with offer their lips to us. If they do, and they dont mind then they get snogged and kissed silly. biggrin :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
Quote by tigersgobounce69
If someone is a good enough kisser I can actually cum just from the kissing.

Wow :shock:
Venusxxx
kissing can make or break the night for me.
if someone is a goood kisser.. then it can turn me on loads.
but if someone kisses me in a horrid way - then regardless of how much fun i am having with them.. it totally turns me off.
and wow betide anyone who comes at me with bad breath.................... evil
ffs!
i cant get that song out of my head now - i only kiss kiss kiss when the sun goes down...
i have to go to bloody work in a few mins.,., and am gonna be singing it all day lol
Sex God
Quote by VenusnMars
You don't find me at munches snogging anyone who passes dunno

You will me! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
makes mental note: if I fancy a snog, Venus is my girl :twisted: lol
I dont mind kissing my shagging partner and vice versa but wouldnt be too keen on strangers.
Not sure exactly why Ive never been a touchy feely person I think and cant be arsed with peoople hanging all over me unless I can be arsed + some people are just minging kissers anyway!
I love a good snog.....but will always let the lady take the lead and just go with the flow!
Master of Sex
i go anlong with the majority and say it's a deffinate no no for me, maybe once i get to know them yes but to start with no chance.
Orgasminator
Some considerable time ago I believe that I replied to a thread similar to this with the thought that I did not like blokes (and that is terrible because I would not mind a woman) kissing Carolyn).. At the time I thought that it was more to do with the fact that our relationship had moved on from the pure sex angle to something stronger.
Seeing this thread reminded me of that. I still prefer that Carolyn does not get involved with full on snogging as, maybe perversely , I find 'tongue level snogging' more intimate than some guy sliding his cock in her or applying a bit of mouth to clit stimulation.
I will never feel comfortable with others snogging Carolyn - but will accept it (just)_ with a couple of very good friends.
Paul xx