We don't have pictures on site, due to us not wanting them there.
But I am happy to show my face on cam.
We do have a private collection at home, guys still ask if I would send them a copy and some get a bit miffed when I say no.
We have had genuine meets without me having to parade my whole body on cam or send priavte picures or show them.
So would you need to see all the goods before a meet?
Or are you like me, I don't need to see all of the goods before I meet, if the mind connects and I like someone I like to leave a little bit to unwrap on the day?
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Do you need to see all the goods before a meet?
Sex God
I like to establish some sort of face pic/cam/phone contact before a meet for saftey reasons, but very definitely do not want to have seen it all. If there is chemistry there then for me it has to be a combo of mental and physical.
I would never meet someone purely on the basis of what I had seen of them in pics.
I would never meet someone purely on the basis of what I had seen of them in pics.
We like to see what people look like if we have been in touch by messaging,we're happy to show what we look like and expect the same...I may be shallow but a physical attraction is important to me
We don't mind saying hi on cam but are not into playing on cam for anyone
We don't have a great deal of time to play and would hate to waste anyones time if we turned up and we were not what others were expecting,and likewise it works the other way
I will also add that for us all the emailing and chatting on msn is no match for actually meeting in person where you can really feel what people are like,or when you meet people at socials and they blow you away with their personalities even though they are not what you would class as your type
We don't mind saying hi on cam but are not into playing on cam for anyone
We don't have a great deal of time to play and would hate to waste anyones time if we turned up and we were not what others were expecting,and likewise it works the other way
I will also add that for us all the emailing and chatting on msn is no match for actually meeting in person where you can really feel what people are like,or when you meet people at socials and they blow you away with their personalities even though they are not what you would class as your type
We would at least ask for a face picture, like alot of others there has to be some sort of physical as well as mental attraction. Definatley wouldn't arrange a meet with anyone without it, I understand why people don't want to put a picture on their profile but if you have got as far as the meeting stage what harm is there to a picture?
I must admit I do like a picture before we get to involved because I don't want to waste anyone's time and I don't want them wasting mine.
Samndave
I must admit I do like a picture before we get to involved because I don't want to waste anyone's time and I don't want them wasting mine.
Samndave
A face and/or body picture is a good start, but lets be fair, anyone can upload any picture from the net and say it's them. So we usually move to msn/cam.
It's not just about being shallow, but there has to be an attraction and there are certain things that just don't do it for me, i.e. overweight and particularly hairy (sorry, my own preferences), so I like a bit of a look-see on cam :evil2:
I love a good sense of humour and a bit of sexy talk if we're talking about a meet to get the old imagination working.
So would I meet on the strength of a picture ......... well the answer has to be a no. I'm up-front and will show myself on cam so expect the same courtesy.
Mrs 777 xxxxxxxxxxxxx
It's not just about being shallow, but there has to be an attraction and there are certain things that just don't do it for me, i.e. overweight and particularly hairy (sorry, my own preferences), so I like a bit of a look-see on cam :evil2:
I love a good sense of humour and a bit of sexy talk if we're talking about a meet to get the old imagination working.
So would I meet on the strength of a picture ......... well the answer has to be a no. I'm up-front and will show myself on cam so expect the same courtesy.
Mrs 777 xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sex God
Dont have to see everything (but never refuse if its offered :rascal: )
A simple face picture if I have not met the person in question is fine by me :-)
A simple face picture if I have not met the person in question is fine by me :-)
I don't have face pics on here but if I chat with someone with a view to meet then I'll send one via email or msn. I always insist on a social meet first though even if we have seen each other's faces ( and other bits 
) I've seen photos of people I fancy a night with but they've turned out to be a bit too dull for my liking so we go no further.
Fussy mare
) I've seen photos of people I fancy a night with but they've turned out to be a bit too dull for my liking so we go no further.Fussy mare
Sex God
I don't need to see the bit's and bob's but I do need to see faces. A face makes so much difference to my impression of people that it is very important to me .
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Sex God
Quote by GnV
I'd like to see Fire's "someone elses gadget I can't do without!" :grin:
I'll get Stormy to pm you a pic...
Sex God
I like to see at least one face pic, it save me walking up to the wrong person at a motorway service station 
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I like to see at least one face pic, it save me walking up to the wrong person at a motorway service station
Sarah I have as story from years ago of meeting a guy for a coffee in a service station without first seeing pic. My one and only blind date never to be repeated
:lol: :lol: Sex God
I wlaked up to a female thinking she was the one I was meeting......................how wrong, and she almost ran away from me.................
but then it could of been me saying:- hi I'm Sarah from swinging heaven are you (xxxxx)?
I now ask their name FIRST then say I am Sarah from SH
but then it could of been me saying:- hi I'm Sarah from swinging heaven are you (xxxxx)?
I now ask their name FIRST
then say I am Sarah from SH Quote by corrie2008
I like to see at least one face pic, it save me walking up to the wrong person at a motorway service station
Sarah I have as story from years ago of meeting a guy for a coffee in a service station without first seeing pic. My one and only blind date never to be repeated
:lol: :lol:I only ever did it once on a vanilla date and the poor guy had a face only a mother could love. Thankfully my phone rang while we were having a drink so I made up some excuse and got the hell out of there!
Sexpert
I like look at all types of pics on peoples profiles but would like to see a face pic before meeting but I get more of an idea of a person from what they say about themselves and what they want.
All goods not necessary..a face pic is nice, but really, as someone said earlier, it's usually far better to just have a quick social meet before playing or something - it tells you all you need to know in minutes, in ways a picture just can't (I appreciate this is a bit tricky if you're a woman getting loads of messages).
But as long as the person isn't coming across as crazy on email..has read the ad, etc..social meet is the way to go
But as long as the person isn't coming across as crazy on email..has read the ad, etc..social meet is the way to go
Sex God
dDpends on the quantity of alcohol i guess 
If I'm just meeting for sex with people I don't really know or need to know, I need to see their faces beforehand and I prefer to see the 'goods' too - there are penises I don't like and penises I do ...
If it's meeting people I've grown to like - then I don't need pictures because I'll already be irretrievably attracted to their minds.
If it's meeting people I've grown to like - then I don't need pictures because I'll already be irretrievably attracted to their minds.
A face pic is always nice though it is never a deal breaker. Looks are not all that high on my sexiness priority list.
I don't think much of 'butcher's catalogue' pics though and are never necessary.
A face pic and/or a full length clothed shot is nice so that I can see who I'm meeting, not so that I can decide who I'm meeting.
I don't think much of 'butcher's catalogue' pics though and are never necessary.
A face pic and/or a full length clothed shot is nice so that I can see who I'm meeting, not so that I can decide who I'm meeting.
Sex God
Interesting thread this.
I have recently decided that - in some cases - face pics are unnecessary.
Sexy just is.
However, I have also been on a kind of pre-meet drink thingy recently, and the pics I had been sent prior to the meet were waaaaay out of date.
In that case, sexy just wasn't.
I have recently decided that - in some cases - face pics are unnecessary.
Sexy just is.
However, I have also been on a kind of pre-meet drink thingy recently, and the pics I had been sent prior to the meet were waaaaay out of date.
In that case, sexy just wasn't.
