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Do you really know the people you call friends?

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You think you know the people you call friends and how wrong can you be yes, it has happened to me I called someone friend then I find they are doing completely the opposite to what they tell me they are doing. That is ok fine I can take a hint but I wish they had the decency to tell me in the first place. Should I stay or should I go now? :karaoke: bit of a dodgy song but hey its at times like this that I like it.
you never have a hand full of real friends
dont waste your time on people who wont waste them time on you
In a world where you cant even rely on family, the issue of friends become more upfront. A friend is someone you judge to be close to you by your own wishes. We all fail and let down people in some way, so accept it as part of life. Real friends are few and far between...
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You think you know the people you call friends and how wrong can you be yes, it has happened to me I called someone friend then I find they are doing completely the opposite to what they tell me they are doing. That is ok fine I can take a hint but I wish they had the decency to tell me in the first place. Should I stay or should I go now? :karaoke: bit of a dodgy song but hey its at times like this that I like it.

I can only really honestly say that I have one friend ... my best friend and I married him.
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You think you know the people you call friends and how wrong can you be yes, it has happened to me I called someone friend then I find they are doing completely the opposite to what they tell me they are doing. That is ok fine I can take a hint but I wish they had the decency to tell me in the first place. Should I stay or should I go now? :karaoke: bit of a dodgy song but hey its at times like this that I like it.

I can only really honestly say that I have one friend ... my best friend and I married him.
Awwww shucks redface surprisedops: :inlove:
friends come and go...as time goes by they fade into memories that return to us through rose tinted glass....friends are defined by the emotional attachment we have to them at a certain time and a certain place, so it goes without saying that as time goes by you are distanced from that time and place. So is it any wonder that friends come and go?..........the only person who stays with you throughout your life is yourself. So be true to yourself and you will be in the place and the time you want to be, so in time when you look back at that time and place you can say you had GREAT friends.....for a time!
Make sense?
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Friends come & go in our lives it's the ones that stick with you through good times & bad that are the true ones biggrin
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you never have a hand full of real friends

:twisted: :twisted: WANNA BET!!!! :twisted: :twisted:
Sometimes you can get both full!!!! And then some extra for the mouth!!! heee heee heee!!!
Sorry couldn't resist that one!!!
Hi OneoftheDamned4ever
It is said that if you can count your true, close friends on the fingers of one hand then you are truly lucky !!
I often think that this statement has a great deal to offer at times like this !! dunno
Take care, wink regards Dan
As others have said true friends are such a rare commodity.
Cherish those you have and remember to ackowledge the high regard in which they are held.
My best mate goes across the pond in 4 weeks time never to return and I'll miss him hugely.........in a very masculine way of course.
sad :( :(
A friend in need, is a pain in the arse. wink
Might sound a tad cynical but just about everybody on this planet is out for themselves. Quite often people are your friends becausetheylike being with you (which is good) - and so It is really for them they are doing it.
There are people who are there for you when things go bad and are unpleasant. They are good people but I think it is more likely that they do it because they are good people rather than necessarily being a friend.
Speaking as someone with a surfeit of friends (I often have to tell groups of them to F**K OFF) - I am of course an expert. lol
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Might sound a tad cynical but just about everybody on this planet is out for themselves. Quite often people are your friends because they like being with you (which is good) - and so It is really for them they are doing it.
There are people who are there for you when things go bad and are unpleasant. They are good people but I think it is more likely that they do it because they are good people rather than necessarily being a friend.
Speaking as someone with a surfeit of friends (I often have to tell groups of them to F**K OFF) - I am of course an expert. lol

No I don't agree Tunnessence.............. rolleyes ...................People that take time to listen to you are friends, well ones that you trust to tell your intimate things too. I would never talk to anybody that I did not trust. So a friend you have here, a silent one if that.
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You think you know the people you call friends and how wrong can you be yes, it has happened to me I called someone friend then I find they are doing completely the opposite to what they tell me they are doing. That is ok fine I can take a hint but I wish they had the decency to tell me in the first place. Should I stay or should I go now? :karaoke: bit of a dodgy song but hey its at times like this that I like it.

Im sorry to hear about that One of but unfortunately that is life!
Just appreciate the real friends you know are true friends and the others you were talking about you are obviously better off without!
Clare,xxx
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Just appreciate the real friends you know are true friends and the others you were talking about you are obviously better off without!
Clare,xxx
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I have 1 really special friend
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I have 1 really special friend

Same here,Steve is my best friend and the only person in the world that i can wholeheartedly trust.
Clare,xxx
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Thank you all for your comments ladies and gentlemen (yes I know but I am in a poite mood :twisted: ) seriously, I feel and think I am in the wrong I expected to much from this person and I have put them under pressure I am the one at fault, I hope they in time will forgive me my mistakes I am not perfect even though for them I try to be. If you do read this my darling friend I am sorry please understand I am hurting at the moment and I am not sure what to do about the situation, I know too that your not sure as well. I will give you the space you need if you wish and I will wait for you to want me back in your life. I will always care for you I will walk into hell and back if it would keep you safe and well. Your my friend and I love you very much.
Aww! OOTD :therethere: kiss
Come over and join little old me in the "I'm in a sad mood today" corner. Sittin' here feeling sad about stuff :cry:
Maybe we could find something to cheer ourselves up with wink
Tracy-Jayne xx