Hi all,
My instincts tell me there will be a resounding 'NO' in response to this but I have to ask. It seems like there is an actual army of timewastiers out there. Not just single males either. I have been strung along by five couples in the last year all of whom have lost their nerve after putting me through an intense round of 'you better not be a timewaster.. etc'.
I am a 24yr old guy and I'm not bad looking either. I never thought something like swinging would be much harder than just going at the weekend and hoping for the best. Alas, that has proven far from the truth. I had hoped to meet like minded down to earth type with an open minded approach to sex. Thus far it has failed to happen.
Single females just don't seem to even reply! Worse still, most of the adverts I've answered in the last little while (and I don't just answer them all thank you - I am as picky as the next person) have been bogus ads designed to harvest your email then send you some crap about how you should abandon swinging heaven and come to a dodgy pay site.
Any input?? anyone at all?
Cheers
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Does anybody in Edinburgh actually swing with males??
Casanova
Quote by Vix
Mmmm, I'm in E'n'brugh in a couple o' wereks.
Are there any males there?
"in a couple o' wereks" are they like wellies?
Males, in Edinburgh, aye those are the ones reeking of shortbread, wearing a skirt with an octopus under their arms
ps whilst in Ed. you better duck at 1:00pm
Vix, you are vague about your visit - without meaning to contravene rules on here, I checked your site and you appear to be getting your tits out for charity.
I am sure that I speak for many Edinburghers when I say that you can expect plenty of support when you get here.
PS
I like shortbread, only wear skirts when she insists upon it, and I check my watch at 1pm.
I am sure that I speak for many Edinburghers when I say that you can expect plenty of support when you get here.
PS
I like shortbread, only wear skirts when she insists upon it, and I check my watch at 1pm.
Quote by jack_daniels72
Having chatted and met plenty of decent people from here I can answer your question with a resounding YES
I've noticed this is your first post on the forums - if you don't get to know people via here or the chat rooms then its possible your ad reply may get lost in the crowd
What he said ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
First of all :welcome:
and secondly it takes time to get to know people, and you have just joined John, so chill and participate in the chatroom or forum It's a great way to becoming known..Im sure in the long run it will open doors for you and get more responses ...
Good luck
Lucy xx
Sexpert
You are impatient aint ya lol.
You have only been on a day,give it time and if you are polite to people and they get to know you then hopefully you will find people from your area to meet up with.
Good luck.
You have only been on a day,give it time and if you are polite to people and they get to know you then hopefully you will find people from your area to meet up with.
Good luck.
Sex God
Quote by John_Edinburghlike they say YES ,you want to start posting get yourself known you will get known if you join in with threads instead of asking in your first post WHY
Hi all,
My instincts tell me there will be a resounding 'NO' in response to this but I have to ask. It seems like there is an actual army of timewastiers out there. Not just single males either. I have been strung along by five couples in the last year all of whom have lost their nerve after putting me through an intense round of 'you better not be a timewaster.. etc'.
I am a 24yr old guy and I'm not bad looking either. I never thought something like swinging would be much harder than just going at the weekend and hoping for the best. Alas, that has proven far from the truth. I had hoped to meet like minded down to earth type with an open minded approach to sex. Thus far it has failed to happen.
Single females just don't seem to even reply! Worse still, most of the adverts I've answered in the last little while (and I don't just answer them all thank you - I am as picky as the next person) have been bogus ads designed to harvest your email then send you some crap about how you should abandon swinging heaven and come to a dodgy pay site.
Any input?? anyone at all?
Cheers
Quote by HungryP
Mmmm, I'm in E'n'brugh in a couple o' wereks.
Are there any males there?
There is one on the way there. Tyneside is a good place to break your journey.........
I'll be in Newcastle even sooner than I'll be in Edinburgh, as it goes. Gosh, what a metropolitan working life I lead.
Thanks to all who replied to my post.
In truth I don't really have a lot of time to be on forums all that much lately. I am a musician and that can take up much of my time, which is why no strings encounters really appeal to me really.. Yes I am only a new member here but I have been a paying member of swinging sites (though I won't risk breaking any forum rules by naming them).
It's heartening to at least hear that others are having more success than I am though. Thanks all for replying.
Keep on keepin' on guys
In truth I don't really have a lot of time to be on forums all that much lately. I am a musician and that can take up much of my time, which is why no strings encounters really appeal to me really.. Yes I am only a new member here but I have been a paying member of swinging sites (though I won't risk breaking any forum rules by naming them).
It's heartening to at least hear that others are having more success than I am though. Thanks all for replying.
Keep on keepin' on guys
