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We're wondering if it's something new, but just lately we've been getting single guys replying to our advert saying things like ' I've seen your pics and read your profile and would really like to meet you'
So, they know roughly what we look like and want - we reply in the affirmative to say we'd like to meet you - and bingo! We never hear from them again. These are a new addition to the terrible one liners of 'lets meet and fuck' so I suppose it is some small improvement lol.
We're beginning to wonder if it's something we've done? oh well, back to the drawing board I suppose.
now, where's me cider...
Nothing you've done, they're just tossers, forget them and move on.
that part dont bother us - what we cant understnd is why bother replying to the advert if you've got no intention of accepting a favourable reply - seems weird to us lol
:crazy:
Quote by A+D
that part dont bother us - what we cant understnd is why bother replying to the advert if you've got no intention of accepting a favourable reply - seems weird to us lol
:crazy:

Don't waste energy dwelling on it. The question's been asked before with (as far as I can remember) nobody coming on to explain why they did it, so it's unlikely to happen this time. Forget them, move on.
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that part dont bother us - what we cant understnd is why bother replying to the advert if you've got no intention of accepting a favourable reply - seems weird to us lol
:crazy:

Wife`s gone out with a mate for the evening...he watches some porn or pops into chat and checks out some cams...
Has a couple of beers....starts looking at the ads and just forgets himself !!!
Starts thinking "phwoar !! look at her .. I could sneak out one night and get some gratuitous sex "
Your reply arrives in the cold light of day when he`s sober !!! :shock: :shock:
you know me so well Flower :-)
Simple answer -- free members can send winks but not messages -- you won't hear any more from them unless they pay up and join, but they can show an interest -- if you fancy them, write back and tell them to join so you can chat properly.
Flower -- some people are here because they are shy and afraid of their own shadow -- I think you must have found one of them
Quote by A+D
that part dont bother us - what we cant understnd is why bother replying to the advert if you've got no intention of accepting a favourable reply - seems weird to us lol
:crazy:

It really is easy and risk-free to play fast and loose with other people who want something on-line.
It comes with the territory. The internet is a great opportunity to connect but it also enables people to behave poorly. Accept that and get on with the next (possibly genuine) contact.
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Quote by HJ47

Simple answer -- free members can send winks but not messages -- you won't hear any more from them unless they pay up and join, but they can show an interest -- if you fancy them, write back and tell them to join so you can chat properly.

I think they've had replies, not winks.
yup it was replies - we stopped answering winks ages ago. it doesn't bother us - I was just pondering as I was drinking my cider (bad combination lol).
I'm just amazed at what things people do, like others I think it's cold feet - just seems like such a waste of their time lol.
And dont get me started on one liners where the guys dont even bother to add their name.... :twisted: