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does anything actualy come of being on this site
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Well hi :welcome: but no one really knows who you are ....
trying getting known in the forums or the chatroom ....
there are mentors available .. see post at the top of the page.
There are advice and help sections available on teh left hand menu ...
Loads of ways
Have a read, join in a few posts and I'm sure you'll have some success.
Those who are proactive in getting help are better than those who are reactive ;)
C x
trying getting known in the forums or the chatroom ....
there are mentors available .. see post at the top of the page.
There are advice and help sections available on teh left hand menu ...
Loads of ways
Have a read, join in a few posts and I'm sure you'll have some success.
Those who are proactive in getting help are better than those who are reactive ;)
C x
Your ad probably doesn't stand out and you might come across as desperate. The best thing we can suggest is get to know people through the forums and enjoy the friendship and see what happens. If you still want to go with the ads there will be info in the topics but we can't use the search thing very well but one of the oldies of the site might be able to help you there.
Yes the ads work but the forum is better, much better.
of the site might be able to help you there.Yes the ads work but the forum is better, much better.
Quote by flapjackboy
Well, you could start by getting a bit more involved in the forums and chatroom. Get yourself known amongst the community and attend a few munches.
i totel agree! :thumbup:
1 Debbiewebs point goes to you flapy!
Debs day of giving out points
at the end of the day who every gets the most .getssss
a spider! :D
Sexlightened
well as a newbie in terms of the past posts i would suggest that you post a topic which will encourage others to comment and respond to, this in my opinion helps to break the ice and get into the swing of things, sorry for the punt.
also just be honest and respect others opinions, we all have differant views but to be tactfull is another ball game.
also just be honest and respect others opinions, we all have differant views but to be tactfull is another ball game.
Sex God
Quote by tigermoth
can anyone tell me what i am doing wrong, never met up with any 1 in over 2 years thru ads on s.h.
Bloody hell, even I have managed to meet up with a couple for a threesome twice as a result of my ad on here and I'm an ugly twat who doesnt shag (but very nice and respectable with it) but I did have to drive for hours to meet them. Was worth it though she was very very sexy.
As everyone says forums and munches are the places to get known and make friends as was clearly shown in action yesterday teatime (Those of you who know what I am on about know and the rest of you can either wisely not sit there pondering what the hell Harry is on now or use your incredible post searching skills)
Regards
Harry Jones
Tigermoth,
As with most things on life - the more effort you put in, the greater the reward.
I've been a forum member for about a month now, and have been posting for a couple of weeks. I'm starting to appreciate that SH is engendered with a sense of community that you will benefit from if you participate in.
I've not swung with anyone from here yet, but I already do so in other spheres and the best times I've had are with people I've connected with prior to swinging, whether it's via emails, phone conversations or face-to-face chats.
Immerse yourself in the Swinging Heaven community spirit and reap the rewards.
Basket Case
As with most things on life - the more effort you put in, the greater the reward.
I've been a forum member for about a month now, and have been posting for a couple of weeks. I'm starting to appreciate that SH is engendered with a sense of community that you will benefit from if you participate in.
I've not swung with anyone from here yet, but I already do so in other spheres and the best times I've had are with people I've connected with prior to swinging, whether it's via emails, phone conversations or face-to-face chats.
Immerse yourself in the Swinging Heaven community spirit and reap the rewards.
Basket Case
Sex God
Quote by bigDewi69
There's only one thing that comes from being on this site. I'll let you guess what it is
I know this one. Its no sleep from being up all night reading the forums.
Sex God
As the others have said, getting yourself known through the forums and, or the chat room seems to help a lot, generally, people want to get a feel for your personality before anything else. As far as adverts go I've found them to be a success as well. I think that people get poor results through the adverts because in all honesty their adverts stink. I put a fair bit of effort into compiling adverts ensuring they were worded in a way that made it clear what was being looked for, sounded friendly and easy going and generally painted as good picture as possible. I often browse the adverts and there is one example right now in the women looking for men that stands head and shoulders above any of the others, I can't be arsed to go search out the number, but have a scan through and you will soon find it, thats how an advert should read, anything less just says to me 'I'm a bone idle fuck wit' and in all honesty who wants to meet one of them.
Sex God
Quote by tigermoth
can anyone tell me what i am doing wrong, never met up with any 1 in over 2 years thru ads on s.h.
Diif'rent strokes... I've never placed an ad and I've never yet read an ad that made me want to answer it but I'm still here. Some people are very happy with the ads system, but what works for some doesn't work for others and if what you're doing doesn't work for you, do something else.
Sex God
Quote by davej
I often browse the adverts and there is one example right now in the women looking for men that stands head and shoulders above any of the others, I can't be arsed to go search out the number, .
Sorry Dave, I've deleted it :giggle:
Sex God
Quote by Angel Chat
I often browse the adverts and there is one example right now in the women looking for men that stands head and shoulders above any of the others, I can't be arsed to go search out the number, .
Sorry Dave, I've deleted it :giggle:
:shock: but....but...Angel I thought it was a cracker, :cry:
Sex God
Quote by davej
anything less just says to me 'I'm a bone idle fuck wit' and in all honesty who wants to meet one of them.
Ermm Me
:P :twisted: Remember a cuddle with a bone idle fuck wit is better than sitting on here all on my own
Regards
Harry Jones
Sex God
Quote by HarryJones
anything less just says to me 'I'm a bone idle fuck wit' and in all honesty who wants to meet one of them.
Ermm Me
:P :twisted: Remember a cuddle with a bone idle fuck wit is better than sitting on here all on my own
Regards
Harry Jones
thats what cats and dogs were domesticated for Harry, but as usual...thats just my opinion.
regards
Sex God
Oh dear I am getting slow as well as desperate, I stared very hard at your quote for about a minute Dave then it clicked and I fell about.
Harry Jones
Harry Jones
