I think it totally hinges on the person either person within makes the person without attractive or not whatever their comes a point where it can become a health issue of course but otherwise to me a woman is a woman size 8 or 18.
being of larger proportions myself, I find this an interesting thread. Ive allready mentioned in another thread that I have had some good meets from here and some are repeat meetings. I state in my profile that Im big and allways ensure that people have read it , that way there is no missunderstanding when we meet. I think and hope that my personality is more important to most people (as well as a cheeky smile). I also understand that some people will be put off by size issues, but thats life.
I must point out as well that my meets have not just been with other larger people , one couple I have met with three times are very slim, so after three times it must be ok for them..
I think it's one of those personal taste issues. Some men like their ladies slim, some prefer larger ladies. Some like them short, some tall. Same for ladies preferences to men.
It's a well known fact that men prefer the more ample figure as the ladies in question tend to have more confidence and are comfortable with their own sexuality and attractiveness. A recent poll showed that ladies like 'Big Butt' Beyonce, Charlotte Church, Colleen Whatsherface et al came out with lots more votes than stick insects such as Victoria 'I need another lettuce leaf' Beckham and Keira Knightley.
Look around the chat rooms and count up the bbw rooms then try to do the same for SkinnyGirlsRUs
I wouldn't go so far as to say that the swinging scene is a good place for any particular physical shape to be.
It is what is in the eyes and the large organ just behind them that counts.
And I don't think you can generalise meaningfully about taste - 'cos it's all subjective innit.
I'm a big girl myself and have had lots of meets and have never found my size to be a problem, which i must admit amazed me. What i have found is that on this scene most people accept you for what and who you are, obviously i will not be everybodys taste but then wouldnt life be boring if we all liked the same, my size is in my profile and i too make sure people have read it to avoid embarrassment.
Then again i used to have a 'type' that i would go for, i still go for that type but now i dont restrict to that, its as simple as if i like someone and get on with them then i would play with them irrespective of size etc.
Earthy xx
A passing thought, don't shout at me.
Our society is very prescriptive of what should and shouldn't be found to be attractive, we are bombarded with images of the 'body beautiful' on a daily basis - be it in printed or broadcast form. Here there is a certain amount of annonimity, a protective barrier so to speak, which in some ways allows people the freedom to express themselves as they truely are with none of the stigma that they might recieve in the RW.
Is it maybe that people in general prefer the fuller figure but somehow feel they have to conform to what they should find attractive in the RW but here can fullfill their real desires?
H.x
I actually like a bigger woman than a skinny woman, always have done, I just don't find really skinny girls all that attractive.
Don't get me wrong, they are good looking and can be really attractive, but given the choice, the bigger woman gets my vote!
On a scale of 1 - 10, where 1 is Anorexic and 10 is grossly obese, my personal prefference is probably in the 6 -8 range. Having said that, what really makes a person sexy and attractive to me is a mixture of personality and presentation.
From a personal point of view. Attraction is more than just size. People talk about it for sure but if a woman is attractive she's attractive. Correct me if I'm wrong but wasn't Marilyn Munroe a size 16??? and shes sex on legs.
Attraction is more than skin deep, its in the eyes, the smile everything.
Confidense is perhaps the biggest thing. If you are happy with the way you look then I think this is projected and it is the image other people have of you.
probably won't make too many friends with this one!
people are a "package" that has the physical, the mental ................ and a little imagination too! can be great shape yet completely lacking in the personality stakes, or the other way round (was going to write something else, but figured i might like a few friends left!) ............ that said i've met many ladies and couples without any idea what they look like (other than their description after going through the three stages - internet, text, talk - because we got on in many areas - as long as you are broadly honest about your looks (hey, we all stretch the truth a tad!!), the chances of disappointment are slim ................ and you can all concentrate on the more satisfying aspects of life! Focussing on the "whole" is better than just one bit ......................... ask any lady after a night of fun!
Hope you are all having a tantric thursday!
there is a lorraine kelly appreciation society, i havent seen one for victoria beckham......
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forum outing, anyone? :evil2:
) feel more and more comfortable and happy that we could well have a place in the swinging scene. 
How shocked was I when, normally drawn to the bigger guy, I felt the sparks, the electrics, the fireworks and allsorts .......... when meeting a jockey!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :confused:
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tell it like it is Gal :thumbup:
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