hi all,
Could someone offer me some advice please?
I'm a nearly married man and my lovely girlfriend and I have a "ok" sex life. Our sex life could be better, I would love it to be more adventures and involve other people but she is not keen. I think she is a bit body conscious but she has no reason to be!
I very much doubt she will ever have a 3 some or be into the swinging scene and I'm ok with that, but I have talked about dogging before (just being watched) and see seems ok with that as an idea only.
Does anyone have any advice on how they approached the subject with there other halfs?
Did anyone have to persuade there partner first?
Any advice would be most helpful.
Thank You
You've been a member here for years, as a single guy, but unless you're prepared to share this with her, and talk to her openly, then you could be in difficulties.
The easiest start, in answer to your question, would be to just set up a cam session, where you can both remain anonymous, and do whatever you wish.
Other than that I reckon a decent club would be preferable to dogging. I don't recommend dogging to anyone who hasn't tinkered before, and certainly not as an introduction to swinging for an unconvinced lady.
Another way is, and I assume her consent is given every time, find a voyeur to either entertain you at his place, or to come along to your place or a hotel. There are plenty of voyeurs about, but be cautious, there are also plenty of guys who will just be whatever they need to be to get close to a naked woman.