For me the fantasy would be spending the money I wish I could make giving pleasure.
It's not something I have ever found a turn on, but it's a perfectly reasonable fantasy.
tell her to take it one step further...pick her up from a street corner and do it in the car!
Tell her she can pay for you to go to a swinging party :mrgreen:
I was offered £50 to watch a male friend wank.. no touching, no talking..just watch him while he did the deed.
Gosh it was soo tempting, as i was a student at the time and £50 was a weeks earnings! But i just couldnt do it. Not sure why, but it felt sleezy to me.
We've spoken since and he explained that he liked the idea as it would in his mind, be totally Nsa, guilt free, and horny! Whereas to me, it felt like he was putting me in a particular place in his mind, and i didnt feel comfortable with that.
My 1st girlfriend sometimes used to like me to "proposition" her on a street corner and then take her away and pay for sex, though she used to take us out for a meal with the money afterwards.
I recently had a discussion around this with someone who also played this game - she started as a bit of a swinger but the thought of role play was exciting .. and played this game ... from that she actually moved into being a 'working girl' or escort as she called it ... so combined her interest in multiple sex partners with making money (wish I was a woman lol).
Fortunately for us all ... she is now back on the swinging scene somewhat (La Chambre anyone ?)
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