have just meet a new woman and she likes to be dominated to quite a degree. want to do it as well but not really sure where to start or what to do. thought that peps out there might have som advice for me. or if you like being dominated what do you like, what gets you going? any help is much appreciated>
cheers
todj
now chill bitch.
was just looking for new ideas off people. why keep to the same old stuff when have a wealth of experience out there that i can draw on! and she likes to be dominated not me!
Things to try.......
Tie you up and slap you hard for an hour or so around the face with a kipper (still vacuum pack to it doesn't fall to bits). Wax off one of your eyebrows. Stuff a melon with wirewool and insert your penis inside, whilst fucking your arse with a a large hair brush.
Then you could move on to some really kinky stuff.
let some homeless people ravage her, film it, and threaten to show it to her mom
<<< Sub :twisted:
The answer is simple as you have already been told ask her..
There is a wealth of information but what you hear from others can only be used as idea's as for what turns one person of will turn another on.
We being in the sub and Domme scene ( shaz being sub ) do some things that others would find very unusual and do other things that others might find tame !
What you need to do is sit down with her, write a list of yes and no's and also limits and keep to it, you also need to work out a code between you for if things get a little to much for her.
If Tony is Doming me and things get a bit to much, i wriggle my right fingers... although things very rarely get to this point as we have spoke about these things for several hours and Tony normally knows what i like!
here is some of the things we do to give you an idea
wax, flogging, shibari, light electrocution, violet wand
then there is other things that can't be explained in 1 word such as
being tied down with legs apart and being left with a powerful vibe left on my clit until Tony see's fit to remove it :twisted:
also something you could try, have a good fan blowing on your sub while rubbing ice all over her until she starts shivering really bad, once at this stage, quickly warm her up again with a hair dryer, she will get bigger goose bumps than she ever has had hehehehe..
there is also mental stimulation ect also but this is something you need to work out for yourself as its not something that can be taught, you need to get to know your sub
There is loads and loads of things you can do between you, its just a matter of experimenting then talking about it when its over, find out what you do and don't like and progress from there
Hope this helps a little
Shaz x
humiliation, orgasm denial, pain denial {few of my least faves that Rich uses to keep me in line} dee x
To compliment the advice already offered take a look at This site
If you don't find the information you require there, might be worth staying Vanilla.....lol
Alex.
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